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Previously on
Being Mary Jane...

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I'm working on some things to
get Niecy and the kids with me.

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Niecy, you don't hear
Isabelle in there screaming?

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She's fine. I just looked in
on her a few minutes ago.

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She has to cry through it.
That'll teach her independence.

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And who's teaching
you independence?

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He couldn't possibly
want her like that.

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Oh, my God.
We're talking about David?

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I just feel like I need closure.

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He's with somebody else, mama.

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When he came over that night,
he didn't want to leave.

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I think you should go through the
process of freezing your eggs.

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It's like the modern day
woman's insurance policy.

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Done.

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- Hola, velma.
- Hola, Ms. Mary.

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No, no...

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No, I never called you obese, Niecy.

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Those words never
came out of my mouth.

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I didn't call you fat either.

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Well, maybe.

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Okay, no. No.

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That's not right either.
What are you trying to say, Paulie?

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What are you trying to say?

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What I'm trying to say, Niecy,

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is that you are a...

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...bigger girl.

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Some might even say

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"overweight."

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- Ugh. By whose standards?
- America's!

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I don't know. The first lady's
"let's move!" Campaign...

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The American diabetes
association.

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I just had a freaking baby.

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I've lost 15 pounds already.

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I know, and I am so
proud of you, but I...

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maybe I just don't want you to,
you know,

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fall back into old habits.

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This is me being motivational.

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Well, I don't feel motivated.

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I feel ridiculed
and forced to be a size two.

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No, no. No, no.

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Absolutely not, because
I'm not a size two.

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This conversation is
about your health,

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about diabetes,
high cholesterol,

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high blood pressure.
- I am healthy.

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- I'm just thick.
- No, no.

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No, do not get me started on the

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whole "I'm thick" conversation.

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Oh, please, get started.
Please.

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Okay. Okay. Why does
every overweight

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black woman in the hood
think she's thick?

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We don't eat well.
We don't exercise,

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and then we justify our
diabetes, high cholesterol,

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and high blood pressure by
saying, "I was born this way.

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God... God made me 60 pounds
overweight."

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'Cause, you know what,
it's all fun and games

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until you lose a foot
at 40 from diabetes,

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messing around trying
to be an ass model on instagram.

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Ain't nobody gonna call you thick
when you got three toes left.

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Auntie, you are
so brainwashed.

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No, no, you were the one,
baby doll, that was crying

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because you didn't feel beautiful.

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First of all, I was pregnant
and full of hormones.

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But I'm not saying I can't
stand to lose some weight.

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I can, but I'm gonna let you

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or anybody else convince me

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that skinny is it when models
are passing out on runways

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they can't even
walk down and back.

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And you can't walk up a flight of
stairs without breathing heavy.

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Trust me. I don't want to be
having this conversation with you,

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but because I love you so...

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Much.

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Okay.

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I remember a few months ago,
I came across some research

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that linked overeating
with depression.

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No. Okay?

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I'm not depressed.

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The snacks under the bed

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are for Treyvion.

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I keep them in here so he won't
be running all over your house

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with food as per
your house rules.

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We both know Treyvion didn't
eat all that food by himself.

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Come on, now.

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Look, I really am
trying to help.

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I could be, like,
your life coach.

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So because I'm living in your
house, I got to do what you say?

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No, no... yes.

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Yes, you do,

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because I want you to leave
here better than when you came.

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'Cause you know
this is temporary, right?

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How much weight do I have to lose

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to muzzle you up, auntie?
- It's not about weight.

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It's about a healthy body,

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which my trainer says
starts with a healthy mind.

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♪ Ooh ♪

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♪ Hey ♪

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Read this every morning.

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It's going to be
great inspiration for you.

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 ♪ but I believe in you
you, you, you, you ♪

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♪ I don't believe I can't ♪

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♪ 'Cause I don't got
all the rules ♪

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You're trying to turn me
into a crazy lady like you.

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Crazy good.

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♪ No, I could end that
lie no, I could crush you out ♪

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When preparing your vegetables,
it's all about blanching

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and a quick flash pan sauté

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and a squirt...

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A squirt, Niecy, of amino acids.

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♪ and lyin'
ah, ah, oh ♪

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♪ Don't know
when my next meal's coming ♪

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What is this... auntie.

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♪ I'll be running
ah, ah, ah ♪

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Walking.

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And you got to remember,
your vegetables

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should always have a crunch.

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♪ I'll be throwing it up ♪

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♪ I'll be throwing it up
yeah,

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ah, ah, ah ♪

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♪ I'll be playing it cool ♪

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♪ 'Cause a girl's got to do

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what a girl's got to do ♪

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♪ Making up their own rules ♪

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I'm so proud of you,

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just modeling healthy behavior

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for Treyvion and Isabelle.

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Isabelle is sleep.

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A water bottle? Really?

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I told you, I hate
the taste of water.

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Did you read your quote
this morning?

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There is an ever-increasing
number of women in this country

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nearing the age of 40 who
still desire motherhood,

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but find themselves single and
without a traditional option.

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Well, I'm one of those women,

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and today, I'm happy to report

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that societal attitudes finally
seem to be catching up to us

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and what modern science has been
doing since the early 1970s.

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After the break,
our talk back cameras

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will follow me into a fertility
clinic and roll camera

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as I take the first step in
a two-week course of treatment

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to stop my own biological clock

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through a process known
as cryopreservation,

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more commonly referred
to as egg freezing.

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You don't want to miss this.
Stay with us.

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Cross fade on the logo.

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This is Dr. Jacob Marrs.

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He's a reproductive
endocrinologist and gynecologist.

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We just completed the ultrasound.

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Everything checked out okay,

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so we're going to move
onto the next phase.

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Dr. Marrs,

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thank you so much for guiding me
through this journey.

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Thank you for taking it.

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Tell him to go a little
tighter in on the doctor there.

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Just recently
lifted the experimental label

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from egg freezing,

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declaring the technique safe,

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effective, and standard.

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But I'm 38.

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- Did I wait too late?
- No.

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However, starting the process
as early as possible is ideal.

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See, what he did there was he...
he offered a kind way

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of saying I should've brought
my tail in just a little sooner.

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- Mention the insurance coverage.
- I had to work.

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This is a very expensive
process, one that is not covered

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by most insurance plans.
- Yes,

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on average,
just to take the drugs...

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Talk about the injection.

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Talk about the drugs
that women have to take.

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You mentioned drugs.

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Now, that's the first step
in this process,

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the ten-day treatment

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of hormone shots, correct?

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Yes, yes. If you could hop
up on the table, please.

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Now, what can you tell me about

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the injection I'm about to receive?

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It's a follicle-stimulating
hormone injection

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referred to as FSH,

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and you'll give it to yourself

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once a day for ten days.

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MJ, ask him what women
should avoid doing or...

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Or drinking or any of that.
Don't forget to ask that.

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You'll drop more than
one egg at a time.

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Is there anything I should avoid
during this ten-day process?

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Stress,

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secondhand smoke,

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- alcohol, jacuzzis.
- Okay.

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So I shouldn't be stressed out
drinking in a jacuzzi

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next to somebody smoking.
Got it.

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One glass of wine
a night is fine.

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Okay. I'm...

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...really nervous.
I hate needles.

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All right. Make sure we get
a shot of the needle, okay?

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You're going to be fine.

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Do me a favor. Count
down from five for me.

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Five, four,

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three,

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two, one.

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♪ There's a
conclusion to my illusion ♪

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♪ I assure you this ♪

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♪ There's no end to
this confusion ♪

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♪ If you let it wish ♪

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♪ You well ♪

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♪ Soul to sell, highest
bidders, can't you tell ♪

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♪ What you're getting ♪

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♪ Why we fight to
get our lovin' ♪

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♪ I've been wondering ♪

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♪ How your mind will
leave you hanging ♪

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♪ Your heart lingering ♪

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♪ Stay lost, then found

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by whomever stays around ♪

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♪ Forgetting ♪

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♪ There is a way to be yourself,

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I assure you this ♪

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♪ There's a way

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to get your dreams ♪

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♪ Without falling asleep ♪

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♪ You might as well get it

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while you can ♪

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♪ Babe, 'cause you know you

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ain't getting any younger ♪

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♪ Younger, younger ♪

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♪ Are you? ♪

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♪ Younger, younger, younger,

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are you? ♪

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♪ You ain't getting any younger,

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younger, younger, are you? ♪

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♪ Younger, younger, younger,

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are you? ♪

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Hey. Just checking on you.

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Ah, I'm still here.

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The house is so quiet
without Niecy and the kids.

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If by quiet, you
mean peaceful,

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then, yes.

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You should put the
three right there.

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See? Then you have it
horizontally and vertically.

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I saw that.

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Mm-hmm.

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I don't know where you're
going with this story,

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you and the eggs.

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It's this whole infotainment angle
that Kara and I are taking.

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A lot of the new shows
are doing it, mom.

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Well, I don't see why you
have to be the Guinea pig.

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I'm sure there are plenty
of other desperate women

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out there willing to put
all their business on TV.

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I... I'm not even sure

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how to respond
to that lovely kick to the face.

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I guess my desperation,

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we'll... We'll just see
how that turns out.

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Mm-hmm.

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How is Niecy?

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Great.

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Yeah.

257
00:10:25,540 --> 00:10:27,249
I think we made
a little breakthrough.

258
00:10:27,252 --> 00:10:29,541
She's exercising and eating

259
00:10:29,542 --> 00:10:32,229
healthy and obeying my rules.

260
00:10:33,290 --> 00:10:34,784
For now.

261
00:10:36,623 --> 00:10:38,747
Have you eaten?

262
00:10:38,748 --> 00:10:40,982
No, I've been doing this.

263
00:10:41,036 --> 00:10:42,965
All right. I'm gonna
make some lunch.

264
00:10:42,998 --> 00:10:44,497
Oh, thank you.

265
00:10:44,499 --> 00:10:46,830
But don't make me
anything healthy.

266
00:10:47,281 --> 00:10:49,655
Remember, I'm closer
to dying than living.

267
00:10:49,657 --> 00:10:51,047
Make it good...

268
00:10:51,117 --> 00:10:52,867
Tasty.

269
00:10:52,946 --> 00:10:54,322
Okay.

270
00:10:54,365 --> 00:10:57,240
Hm. Okay.

271
00:10:58,898 --> 00:11:00,669
I didn't
know you were home.

272
00:11:01,273 --> 00:11:04,355
And I didn't know I had to
announce myself in my own house.

273
00:11:04,357 --> 00:11:06,813
At 28, I don't think
our parents' house

274
00:11:06,815 --> 00:11:08,397
qualifies as your house.

275
00:11:08,399 --> 00:11:10,980
I'm still living here, okay?

276
00:11:10,981 --> 00:11:12,903
Now, go on, letta.
I'm working.

277
00:11:13,773 --> 00:11:15,147
The gifting alliance?

278
00:11:15,148 --> 00:11:17,771
How did you manage to
get an invite to this?

279
00:11:17,773 --> 00:11:18,980
How?

280
00:11:18,981 --> 00:11:21,148
Because I'm Paul Patterson, hater.

281
00:11:21,152 --> 00:11:22,448
I'm not hating.

282
00:11:22,472 --> 00:11:24,439
I just don't understand
how one minute

283
00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,315
you're twirling mattress signs
on the corner,

284
00:11:26,346 --> 00:11:29,680
and then the next, you're being invited
to elite millionaire investment meetings.

285
00:11:29,681 --> 00:11:30,977
You think they made
their millions working

286
00:11:30,989 --> 00:11:32,406
a 9:00 to 5:00,
punching a time clock,

287
00:11:32,415 --> 00:11:33,681
taking 45-minute lunches?

288
00:11:33,713 --> 00:11:34,938
No. They took risks.

289
00:11:34,940 --> 00:11:37,148
And how did you make
the millionaires club, huh?

290
00:11:37,152 --> 00:11:38,564
Selling weed?

291
00:11:38,565 --> 00:11:40,147
I just used my weed nest egg

292
00:11:40,148 --> 00:11:43,272
to buy a 20% stake in a cannabis
dispensary in Colorado.

293
00:11:43,273 --> 00:11:46,105
So, yeah, maybe.

294
00:11:46,107 --> 00:11:49,630
The Harvard business review called
cannabis the next billion-dollar industry.

295
00:11:49,661 --> 00:11:51,813
Do you understand
how huge this is?

296
00:11:51,815 --> 00:11:53,482
I mean,
Sheldon DeWitt is speaking.

297
00:11:55,518 --> 00:11:58,601
I've been trying to get an interview
with him since I was at CNN.

298
00:11:59,399 --> 00:12:01,172
- It's settled.
- What?

299
00:12:01,188 --> 00:12:04,453
- I'm your plus one.
- Hah. No, you're not.

300
00:12:04,469 --> 00:12:05,855
I already have a plus one.

301
00:12:05,856 --> 00:12:07,063
Who?

302
00:12:07,065 --> 00:12:09,897
- My business partner.
- What business partner?

303
00:12:09,898 --> 00:12:12,366
The person I'm in business with.
Now, go on.

304
00:12:16,812 --> 00:12:19,897
Did Dr. Morris go over all
the side effects with you?

305
00:12:19,898 --> 00:12:21,397
Yes, he did.

306
00:12:21,399 --> 00:12:23,008
There's nausea,

307
00:12:23,031 --> 00:12:25,352
weight gain, night sweats,

308
00:12:25,375 --> 00:12:26,671
headaches,

309
00:12:26,765 --> 00:12:29,507
acne, and insomnia.
I am fully informed.

310
00:12:29,531 --> 00:12:30,531
Thank you.

311
00:12:31,773 --> 00:12:34,232
I know you're still processing
David and the pregnancy.

312
00:12:34,235 --> 00:12:36,569
No. I'm not, Lisa.

313
00:12:36,695 --> 00:12:39,648
David and I have moved on, and
we really wish you would too.

314
00:12:39,774 --> 00:12:43,022
Look, I don't know how
much more clear I can be.

315
00:12:43,023 --> 00:12:45,813
Kara and I discussed this whole
egg freezing thing months

316
00:12:45,815 --> 00:12:47,897
before I ever found out
anything about David.

317
00:12:47,898 --> 00:12:51,720
Okay, then why can't we just
take a beat and talk about it?

318
00:12:52,065 --> 00:12:54,533
Mary Jane,
I really just want to help you.

319
00:12:54,560 --> 00:12:55,722
You want to help me, Lisa?

320
00:12:55,724 --> 00:12:58,056
Just give me the damn shot.
I don't need a lecture

321
00:12:58,072 --> 00:13:00,580
or a diagnosis from you.
Just the shot. Okay?

322
00:13:00,603 --> 00:13:02,140
I want to make sure you
you're doing this for you

323
00:13:02,143 --> 00:13:03,806
and not some one-up to David.

324
00:13:03,807 --> 00:13:05,518
You know what, never mind.
I'll do it myself.

325
00:13:05,573 --> 00:13:07,018
Thank you.

326
00:13:07,252 --> 00:13:09,080
It's best I learn how to do
this anyway

327
00:13:09,087 --> 00:13:11,875
since I have to give myself the
shot the same time every day.

328
00:13:12,890 --> 00:13:14,016
Thank you.

329
00:13:27,648 --> 00:13:29,155
Niecy, can you
come here for a second?

330
00:13:29,179 --> 00:13:30,567
Really, Mary Jane?

331
00:13:31,773 --> 00:13:33,107
Yeah, auntie. What's up?

332
00:13:33,110 --> 00:13:35,336
I need you to give
me this injection.

333
00:13:37,065 --> 00:13:38,147
Isn't...

334
00:13:38,148 --> 00:13:39,480
Yeah.

335
00:13:39,482 --> 00:13:41,522
I'ma talk to the
two of you later.

336
00:13:41,524 --> 00:13:43,399
We don't need her. Okay?

337
00:13:43,402 --> 00:13:44,771
I've already cleaned the area.

338
00:13:44,773 --> 00:13:46,480
Lisa's prepared the shot.

339
00:13:46,482 --> 00:13:49,105
- All you have to do is stick me.
- Then why can't you do it?

340
00:13:49,107 --> 00:13:51,439
Bec... because I asked
you to do it, okay?

341
00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,522
Just stick me. All right?

342
00:13:53,524 --> 00:13:54,940
That's all you got to do.

343
00:13:56,606 --> 00:13:59,480
Okay, so I'm sure
there's a YouTube video

344
00:13:59,482 --> 00:14:01,023
that can teach me
how to do this.

345
00:14:01,027 --> 00:14:02,773
So I'ma go look one up,
and I'll be right back.

346
00:14:02,776 --> 00:14:04,066
Can you hurry up, please?

347
00:14:06,885 --> 00:14:09,408
- Mama!
- Sit down.

348
00:14:09,611 --> 00:14:13,147
I see, yes, I understand that
you can't get another ticket.

349
00:14:13,148 --> 00:14:15,855
Uh-huh. All right. Thanks.

350
00:14:15,856 --> 00:14:17,607
The mayor
can't get another ticket?

351
00:14:17,611 --> 00:14:19,095
I have no one else to call.

352
00:14:19,353 --> 00:14:22,915
Oh, no. You get back on that phone,
and you call PJ, and you beg him.

353
00:14:22,938 --> 00:14:25,232
You lease him a new car.
You do whatever you have to do.

354
00:14:25,235 --> 00:14:26,688
We need that ticket, MJ.

355
00:14:31,482 --> 00:14:33,065
Hello?

356
00:14:33,068 --> 00:14:34,440
PJ. Hey.

357
00:14:34,444 --> 00:14:36,813
Seriously, I'ma need
to be your plus one.

358
00:14:36,815 --> 00:14:38,774
Letta, I'm not just
gonna disinvite someone.

359
00:14:38,776 --> 00:14:39,940
Don't make me pull the

360
00:14:39,943 --> 00:14:41,773
"but you owe me" card,
'cause you do

361
00:14:41,776 --> 00:14:43,482
for everything
that you have done,

362
00:14:43,485 --> 00:14:45,482
everything that you're gonna
do that I'ma find out about

363
00:14:45,483 --> 00:14:46,606
and have to bail your ass out.

364
00:14:46,607 --> 00:14:47,816
PJ, please.

365
00:14:47,817 --> 00:14:49,022
Please.

366
00:14:49,023 --> 00:14:50,105
Please.

367
00:14:50,107 --> 00:14:51,607
Hey, look.

368
00:14:51,611 --> 00:14:53,524
Are we really having
this conversation right now?

369
00:14:53,527 --> 00:14:56,135
Yes, we are
having this conversation.

370
00:14:56,455 --> 00:14:57,682
PJ.

371
00:14:57,707 --> 00:14:58,908
Um.

372
00:14:58,941 --> 00:15:00,666
PJ.

373
00:15:01,273 --> 00:15:02,938
PJ.

374
00:15:02,940 --> 00:15:05,480
Letta, listen.
Listen, listen.

375
00:15:05,482 --> 00:15:08,247
Um. Okay.

376
00:15:08,263 --> 00:15:09,855
Listen, letta. All right?

377
00:15:09,856 --> 00:15:11,272
The answer's no.

378
00:15:11,273 --> 00:15:12,938
Okay? It's no. Call David.

379
00:15:12,940 --> 00:15:14,898
I hear he's got an invite.
What do you... what do you want?

380
00:15:14,902 --> 00:15:16,606
What do you want?

381
00:15:16,607 --> 00:15:20,023
- You still talk to David?
- Yeah. Why wouldn't I?

382
00:15:20,027 --> 00:15:21,545
Y'all's relationship

383
00:15:21,999 --> 00:15:25,467
or whatever you got going on is
completely separate from our friendship.

384
00:15:25,506 --> 00:15:27,564
All right.
I'll take to you later.

385
00:15:27,565 --> 00:15:30,232
Oh, God. Girl, you
so damn sexy.

386
00:15:33,357 --> 00:15:34,754
Listen.

387
00:15:34,755 --> 00:15:36,247
I have a meeting downstairs.

388
00:15:36,262 --> 00:15:39,713
Lance and the team are cooking
up some stories for Monday,

389
00:15:39,721 --> 00:15:41,180
so I'll run them by you later,
okay?

390
00:15:41,191 --> 00:15:43,940
Right after you find me another
ticket to the gifting alliance?

391
00:15:43,943 --> 00:15:47,230
You better find that ticket, girl.
Get on that phone.

392
00:15:47,232 --> 00:15:48,856
Do your thing. Come on.

393
00:16:08,856 --> 00:16:10,788
- David paulk.
- Hey.

394
00:16:11,020 --> 00:16:13,938
Uh, David, it's Mary Jane.

395
00:16:13,940 --> 00:16:16,813
Hey, Mary Jane. How are you?

396
00:16:16,815 --> 00:16:18,272
I'm good.

397
00:16:18,273 --> 00:16:19,754
How are you?

398
00:16:19,755 --> 00:16:21,356
Uh...

399
00:16:21,357 --> 00:16:22,855
Doing all right.

400
00:16:22,856 --> 00:16:24,980
Good.
That's good.

401
00:16:24,981 --> 00:16:27,352
So I heard about this event,

402
00:16:27,609 --> 00:16:29,147
the gifting alliance,

403
00:16:29,148 --> 00:16:31,413
and I sort of remember you were

404
00:16:31,460 --> 00:16:35,272
affiliated with this investment
group that sponsored it.

405
00:16:35,273 --> 00:16:38,188
Well, actually, I was
attempting to affiliate myself,

406
00:16:38,190 --> 00:16:40,565
but this is my first
actual invite.

407
00:16:42,065 --> 00:16:44,480
Attempting to affiliate,
yes, I stand corrected.

408
00:16:44,482 --> 00:16:48,810
Curious... do you have access
to additional tickets?

409
00:16:48,833 --> 00:16:50,541
No, I don't.

410
00:16:50,565 --> 00:16:52,330
I don't know anything
about any additional tickets.

411
00:16:52,354 --> 00:16:54,439
I mean, I do have a plus one.

412
00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,564
I would prefer your tickets.

413
00:16:57,565 --> 00:17:00,439
I'm sure, but they're
non-transferrable, so.

414
00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,465
Okay, well, I
will stand by while you

415
00:17:03,496 --> 00:17:06,559
run that by your live-in
girlfriend slash baby mama.

416
00:17:07,617 --> 00:17:08,898
I'm sure she won't mind.

417
00:17:08,902 --> 00:17:11,914
All I can offer you is
my plus one, Mary Jane.

418
00:17:12,815 --> 00:17:15,938
I would love your plus one.
Thank you.

419
00:17:15,940 --> 00:17:19,813
Well, I guess we'll just
meet up there, right?

420
00:17:19,815 --> 00:17:22,230
Yeah, sure.
Sounds good to me.

421
00:17:22,232 --> 00:17:23,981
Okay. I'll see you then.

422
00:17:23,985 --> 00:17:25,773
Okay, I'll see...

423
00:17:35,399 --> 00:17:38,105
Come here, buddy. Come here.

424
00:17:38,107 --> 00:17:39,938
Come here. Hey, buddy.

425
00:17:39,940 --> 00:17:43,105
Funny how we both get calls
from the exes today.

426
00:17:43,107 --> 00:17:45,765
Yeah, Mary Jane just wants to
go to the gifting alliance.

427
00:17:46,773 --> 00:17:48,897
I thought you said
you weren't gonna go.

428
00:17:48,898 --> 00:17:50,773
I said I wasn't sure.

429
00:17:53,273 --> 00:17:56,355
Well, I gave Sarah all the
documents overnight to graphics.

430
00:17:56,357 --> 00:17:58,482
We should be done with
the adjustments for the site

431
00:17:58,485 --> 00:17:59,814
by tomorrow,

432
00:17:59,837 --> 00:18:01,617
and we should go over the
marketing strategy for the world

433
00:18:01,633 --> 00:18:03,355
fashion collective next week.

434
00:18:03,357 --> 00:18:04,855
I want to make a good showing.

435
00:18:04,856 --> 00:18:06,439
Wait. Go back.

436
00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,188
And I'm going to
leave for Florence

437
00:18:09,190 --> 00:18:11,522
on the 11th instead
of the 12th.

438
00:18:11,524 --> 00:18:14,072
I want to get there a few
days before the collective.

439
00:18:15,607 --> 00:18:17,230
Bram's gonna be there.

440
00:18:17,232 --> 00:18:19,314
He wants to talk.

441
00:18:19,315 --> 00:18:21,272
Oh.

442
00:18:21,273 --> 00:18:23,107
About what?

443
00:18:29,940 --> 00:18:32,711
Is that why it was so important for
you to attend this conference?

444
00:18:33,068 --> 00:18:36,018
I can't cut him off any more
than you can cut off Mary Jane.

445
00:18:36,773 --> 00:18:39,314
Well, I think it's a
little different.

446
00:18:39,315 --> 00:18:40,771
There's no difference.

447
00:18:40,773 --> 00:18:42,980
Well, actually, there's
a big difference.

448
00:18:42,981 --> 00:18:45,475
You can't compare
some dude living in Australia

449
00:18:45,483 --> 00:18:47,938
to somebody who's living right here.
- Some dude?

450
00:18:47,940 --> 00:18:49,399
We were together
for three years.

451
00:18:49,402 --> 00:18:52,522
I owe him closure at least.

452
00:18:52,524 --> 00:18:54,272
At least?

453
00:18:54,273 --> 00:18:56,771
Does closure at least
mean you have intentions

454
00:18:56,773 --> 00:18:59,022
on going out there and
sleeping with him?

455
00:18:59,023 --> 00:19:01,399
Isn't that what happened with
you and Mary Jane at the hotel?

456
00:19:01,402 --> 00:19:03,853
Pretty sure I told
you we talked.

457
00:19:04,357 --> 00:19:05,938
Didn't have sex.

458
00:19:05,940 --> 00:19:08,773
Well, that's all we're
gonna do, too, is talk.

459
00:19:12,219 --> 00:19:13,760
All right.
Watch your alignment, pop.

460
00:19:13,761 --> 00:19:15,584
You turned a little to the left.

461
00:19:15,945 --> 00:19:17,237
Just don't want to pull it.

462
00:19:20,873 --> 00:19:22,103
All right.

463
00:19:22,104 --> 00:19:24,582
- Not bad. Not bad.
- Yeah.

464
00:19:27,457 --> 00:19:29,259
Ah, that's a good one.

465
00:19:29,479 --> 00:19:31,957
Eh, it's okay.
I used to get close to the flag.

466
00:19:31,958 --> 00:19:33,595
Yeah, I remember. Ha-ha.

467
00:19:35,072 --> 00:19:37,692
Just a little rusty. It'll
all come back to you.

468
00:19:38,165 --> 00:19:40,071
Hey, you know what,
just like old times,

469
00:19:40,086 --> 00:19:43,112
you and I out here together.
- Yeah, it is.

470
00:19:43,873 --> 00:19:45,706
Yeah. Golfing is your sport.

471
00:19:45,707 --> 00:19:47,248
You've got the mind for it.

472
00:19:50,751 --> 00:19:51,876
Uh-oh.

473
00:19:54,776 --> 00:19:56,791
How are things going
with the job?

474
00:19:57,096 --> 00:19:59,080
They're going all right.

475
00:19:59,081 --> 00:20:01,332
Talked to my supervisor
about getting some overtime,

476
00:20:01,335 --> 00:20:03,822
so he's lobbying
for me, this boss.

477
00:20:04,207 --> 00:20:06,123
I'm still putting out
resumes, so.

478
00:20:06,127 --> 00:20:07,871
Well, that's good.

479
00:20:07,873 --> 00:20:10,896
What about the apartment for
you and Niecy and the kids?

480
00:20:12,457 --> 00:20:14,374
Now they're saying
a couple more months.

481
00:20:16,690 --> 00:20:18,858
Patrick, you know I... I
could make a few calls for you.

482
00:20:18,860 --> 00:20:21,230
- Dad, no.
- No, no. Hear me out.

483
00:20:21,232 --> 00:20:22,647
Your sheepskin from morehouse

484
00:20:22,649 --> 00:20:24,315
and your experience
running your own business,

485
00:20:24,319 --> 00:20:26,023
you could have
a management job today.

486
00:20:26,027 --> 00:20:27,898
Well, thank you, dad, but I
don't want you to do anything.

487
00:20:27,902 --> 00:20:29,230
I wasn't asking for anything.

488
00:20:29,232 --> 00:20:32,399
- I know you're not asking, but listen you...
- Paul Patterson.

489
00:20:32,402 --> 00:20:34,147
Hey, George.

490
00:20:34,148 --> 00:20:36,549
Good to see you. Good to see you.
It's been a while.

491
00:20:36,588 --> 00:20:38,283
It's been a while.
You remember my son, Patrick.

492
00:20:38,291 --> 00:20:40,149
Yes. How are you?

493
00:20:40,258 --> 00:20:42,813
If I'm not mistaken you're the
one with that dance club.

494
00:20:42,815 --> 00:20:45,361
- Downtown around about?
- Yes, sir.

495
00:20:45,377 --> 00:20:47,897
Yeah, it... It closed
a few years back.

496
00:20:47,898 --> 00:20:49,782
What you got going now?

497
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:53,980
Well...

498
00:20:53,981 --> 00:20:55,897
Hey, George.

499
00:20:55,898 --> 00:20:57,773
I want to ask you
about that building project

500
00:20:57,776 --> 00:20:59,482
that you and leanne
had at the vineyard.

501
00:20:59,483 --> 00:21:02,771
- What's going on with that?
- They're still working on it.

502
00:21:02,773 --> 00:21:05,109
It's leanne's pet project.
I've given up.

503
00:21:05,288 --> 00:21:07,931
She had the contractor
redo the kitchen twice,

504
00:21:07,959 --> 00:21:10,023
and then she picks out
a backsplash...

505
00:21:25,107 --> 00:21:26,981
Do you want
me to call Dr. Marrs again?

506
00:21:26,984 --> 00:21:28,743
No, it'll pass.

507
00:21:29,483 --> 00:21:31,952
Auntie, are you sure you
should be going out?

508
00:21:32,576 --> 00:21:34,739
Yeah, baby. I have to go.

509
00:21:35,740 --> 00:21:37,350
All right.

510
00:21:38,674 --> 00:21:39,674
Come on.

511
00:21:39,690 --> 00:21:41,981
♪ hey, you ♪

512
00:21:41,985 --> 00:21:43,775
♪ When the lights go out

513
00:21:43,776 --> 00:21:45,564
and you're on your own ♪

514
00:21:45,565 --> 00:21:48,480
♪ Hey, there ♪

515
00:21:48,482 --> 00:21:50,941
♪ How you gonna make it through

516
00:21:50,942 --> 00:21:53,397
till the morning sun? ♪

517
00:21:53,399 --> 00:21:55,439
♪ Morning ♪

518
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:57,149
♪ Sing to the moon

519
00:21:57,150 --> 00:21:58,488
and the stars ♪

520
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,022
Thanks.

521
00:22:01,023 --> 00:22:07,264
♪ Over you, lead
you to the other side ♪

522
00:22:07,295 --> 00:22:10,420
♪ Sing to the moon
and the stars ♪

523
00:22:10,436 --> 00:22:12,629
♪ We'll shine ♪

524
00:22:12,699 --> 00:22:14,637
Don't you look fantastic?

525
00:22:14,895 --> 00:22:16,732
So do you.

526
00:22:16,898 --> 00:22:18,232
Wow.

527
00:22:22,023 --> 00:22:23,652
What?

528
00:22:23,700 --> 00:22:26,496
- What?
- You're so beautiful, I...

529
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,105
What are you doing?

530
00:22:28,107 --> 00:22:29,692
That's called complimenting.

531
00:22:29,716 --> 00:22:32,482
It's kind of a form of
showing good graces,

532
00:22:32,513 --> 00:22:35,161
unlike somebody I know, you.

533
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,355
What are you talking about?

534
00:22:37,357 --> 00:22:40,105
Well, either the Calla
Lilies didn't make it,

535
00:22:40,107 --> 00:22:42,578
or you're just
incredibly rude, so.

536
00:22:42,594 --> 00:22:44,906
Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

537
00:22:44,938 --> 00:22:46,897
Thank you for that.

538
00:22:46,898 --> 00:22:48,565
I remember
they're your favorite.

539
00:22:48,569 --> 00:22:50,771
You're actually confusing
those with white tulips,

540
00:22:50,773 --> 00:22:52,232
but it... it doesn't really
matter.

541
00:22:52,235 --> 00:22:55,141
The Calla Lilies are beautiful.

542
00:22:55,500 --> 00:22:57,774
♪ sing to the moon
and the stars ♪

543
00:22:57,776 --> 00:22:59,607
- You okay?
- Yeah, I'm fine.

544
00:22:59,611 --> 00:23:01,012
You?

545
00:23:02,565 --> 00:23:04,190
Yeah, I just
wanted to make sure that...

546
00:23:04,193 --> 00:23:07,045
I'm fine, David. Seriously.

547
00:23:07,773 --> 00:23:10,295
You know, can we go inside?
'Cause I'm getting cold.

548
00:23:10,312 --> 00:23:12,773
Yeah. I noticed you don't
have much on, so...

549
00:23:13,546 --> 00:23:15,116
after you.

550
00:23:16,107 --> 00:23:18,855
♪ For a
brighter season ♪

551
00:23:18,856 --> 00:23:22,938
♪ Need to lay your burden down ♪

552
00:23:24,148 --> 00:23:28,022
I think maybe x minus...

553
00:23:28,023 --> 00:23:31,855
I mean, x divided by 9.

554
00:23:31,856 --> 00:23:33,856
9? Honey,
where did you get 9?

555
00:23:33,860 --> 00:23:35,771
Babe, you're guessing.

556
00:23:35,773 --> 00:23:38,039
Come on. I'm not gonna
give you the answer.

557
00:23:38,607 --> 00:23:40,581
Try that again. All right?

558
00:23:42,065 --> 00:23:44,107
Greg. Hey.

559
00:23:44,971 --> 00:23:46,887
Babe, give mommy one minute,
okay?

560
00:23:46,914 --> 00:23:49,036
I'll be right back. Promise.

561
00:23:51,898 --> 00:23:53,105
Hey.

562
00:23:53,107 --> 00:23:55,522
So we've got our egg
freezing ratings,

563
00:23:55,524 --> 00:23:57,445
and they're not bad.
They're fine.

564
00:23:57,453 --> 00:23:58,880
Now, I pulled in a lot
of favors

565
00:23:58,888 --> 00:24:00,700
to get the network to cover
Mary Jane's medical costs.

566
00:24:00,716 --> 00:24:02,565
I know, and I promise
it's gonna be worth it.

567
00:24:02,569 --> 00:24:05,397
And the good news is that
Mary Jane's Facebook

568
00:24:05,399 --> 00:24:08,438
and Twitter pages are flooded
with messages from women

569
00:24:08,445 --> 00:24:09,771
all around the country.

570
00:24:09,773 --> 00:24:12,148
- They love what we're doing.
- Good.

571
00:24:12,152 --> 00:24:13,393
And, hey,

572
00:24:13,395 --> 00:24:16,995
I talked Mary Jane
Paul into hormone injections.

573
00:24:17,027 --> 00:24:18,816
I mean, that's like a miracle. Right?

574
00:24:18,839 --> 00:24:21,914
- Keep me appraised.
- I will. Thank you, Greg.

575
00:24:23,773 --> 00:24:26,190
I met Sheldon DeWitt back in...

576
00:24:26,193 --> 00:24:29,943
Well, best I can
recall, may of 1998,

577
00:24:30,183 --> 00:24:33,745
when I had the unfortunate
occasion to be opposing council

578
00:24:33,776 --> 00:24:35,691
on a little court case:

579
00:24:36,065 --> 00:24:39,250
Fielder versus mcglothlin foods.

580
00:24:40,524 --> 00:24:43,310
I'm sure there's a second-year
law student out there

581
00:24:43,325 --> 00:24:47,355
somewhere learning all about how
we had our proverbial asses

582
00:24:47,357 --> 00:24:49,522
handed to us by Mr. DeWitt

583
00:24:49,524 --> 00:24:53,230
and his merry practice
group of avengers.

584
00:24:53,232 --> 00:24:55,003
But all joking aside,

585
00:24:55,004 --> 00:24:56,771
quite simply,

586
00:24:56,773 --> 00:24:59,766
Sheldon is the best civil
trial lawyer I know.

587
00:25:00,055 --> 00:25:03,323
Hell, I even tried to recruit
him a couple of times myself,

588
00:25:03,745 --> 00:25:07,084
but he made more money suing
all of my clients instead.

589
00:25:08,025 --> 00:25:11,179
Sheldon has spent over 20 years

590
00:25:11,565 --> 00:25:13,510
fighting David and goliath cases

591
00:25:13,570 --> 00:25:17,356
and taking on corrupt
multibillion-dollar corporations,

592
00:25:17,357 --> 00:25:19,813
and now, three years
into his retirement,

593
00:25:19,815 --> 00:25:22,111
he is back to help us understand

594
00:25:22,166 --> 00:25:24,673
not only why it's
good to give back,

595
00:25:24,837 --> 00:25:27,762
but how giving back can
increase our wealth.

596
00:25:28,648 --> 00:25:30,496
Do I have your attention now?

597
00:25:30,965 --> 00:25:32,543
Ladies and gentlemen,

598
00:25:32,683 --> 00:25:35,813
my dear friend Sheldon DeWitt.

599
00:25:46,149 --> 00:25:48,523
- Thank you
for that introduction, Harold.

600
00:25:48,526 --> 00:25:51,688
Listen, I often tell people when
I do these types of engagements

601
00:25:51,690 --> 00:25:54,521
that it was not until I
stopped hunting money

602
00:25:54,523 --> 00:25:58,064
that I began to reflect
on its inequities.

603
00:25:58,065 --> 00:26:00,605
The wealthy, they
can buy justice.

604
00:26:00,606 --> 00:26:02,004
They do every day.

605
00:26:02,043 --> 00:26:04,081
But what can the poor buy

606
00:26:04,082 --> 00:26:06,147
when someone's
ransacked their hopes

607
00:26:06,149 --> 00:26:08,443
and profited from
their insecurities?

608
00:26:09,190 --> 00:26:11,230
As a friend of mine once said,

609
00:26:11,232 --> 00:26:13,605
"equality is a commodity."

610
00:26:13,606 --> 00:26:15,064
I believe that.

611
00:26:15,065 --> 00:26:17,605
I believe it's
easier to get money

612
00:26:17,606 --> 00:26:20,976
than to change the structure of
our community, of our world.

613
00:26:21,381 --> 00:26:23,944
But as Harold pointed
out, I love a challenge.

614
00:26:31,315 --> 00:26:32,982
- Mr. DeWitt.
- Hello.

615
00:26:32,985 --> 00:26:35,180
You must be friends
with Walter mosley...

616
00:26:37,107 --> 00:26:39,524
The friend that you referenced
in the speech you just gave,

617
00:26:39,526 --> 00:26:41,274
the one that told you equality
is a commodity?

618
00:26:41,277 --> 00:26:43,356
I was referencing
Walter mosley, yes.

619
00:26:43,357 --> 00:26:44,730
But he's not really a friend.

620
00:26:44,731 --> 00:26:49,605
No? I totally count all
of my imaginary friends.

621
00:26:49,606 --> 00:26:52,194
They're some of my better
conversationalists.

622
00:26:52,773 --> 00:26:54,920
I don't believe we've met.
Sheldon.

623
00:26:55,315 --> 00:26:56,752
- Mary Jane Paul.
- Pleasure.

624
00:26:56,775 --> 00:26:58,549
It's great to
finally meet you.

625
00:26:58,563 --> 00:27:00,095
Nice to meet you.

626
00:27:00,134 --> 00:27:01,931
- Do you have a second?
- Sure.

627
00:27:01,954 --> 00:27:03,107
Okay.

628
00:27:06,990 --> 00:27:08,865
So an interview...
That's what you want.

629
00:27:09,517 --> 00:27:12,368
I've been following your career
for years, ever since I was

630
00:27:12,399 --> 00:27:14,882
a correspondent back
in my early days...

631
00:27:14,905 --> 00:27:17,265
Simpson versus Texas petroleum,

632
00:27:17,623 --> 00:27:20,481
rand versus Southern... I
could go on and on and

633
00:27:20,496 --> 00:27:22,550
on and on.

634
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:26,015
I'm impressed, but I'm sure you're well
aware I've never granted an interview.

635
00:27:26,019 --> 00:27:27,306
I am.

636
00:27:27,307 --> 00:27:29,307
But earlier, during
your speech,

637
00:27:29,309 --> 00:27:32,805
you spoke so eloquently
about your new awakenings,

638
00:27:32,807 --> 00:27:36,349
ideological shifts, so
perhaps you need a platform

639
00:27:36,350 --> 00:27:38,222
to discuss your new views.

640
00:27:38,224 --> 00:27:40,763
- Very well played.
- Have I convinced you?

641
00:27:40,765 --> 00:27:42,139
No.

642
00:27:42,140 --> 00:27:44,306
I'm not taking no
for an answer.

643
00:27:44,307 --> 00:27:45,515
Then neither will I.

644
00:28:02,265 --> 00:28:04,014
I'm Mary Jane Paul.

645
00:28:04,015 --> 00:28:05,222
Thank you for listening.

646
00:28:05,224 --> 00:28:06,391
And thank you,

647
00:28:06,392 --> 00:28:07,555
and thank you.

648
00:28:07,556 --> 00:28:08,870
And listen so and tweedle Dee

649
00:28:08,871 --> 00:28:10,180
and tweedle dum.

650
00:28:41,681 --> 00:28:44,347
So bad. So bougie.

651
00:28:49,765 --> 00:28:50,847
Ooh.

652
00:28:50,933 --> 00:28:52,132
Uh.

653
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,147
Where's the Palmer's
around here?

654
00:28:59,163 --> 00:29:00,473
Seriously.

655
00:29:11,109 --> 00:29:12,804
Ooh.

656
00:29:52,441 --> 00:29:55,329
Did you remember to leave the
porch light on for junior?

657
00:29:56,182 --> 00:29:57,932
Yeah, I turned it on.

658
00:30:01,315 --> 00:30:04,716
You never did tell me how
it went today with Patrick.

659
00:30:05,899 --> 00:30:07,759
It went well.

660
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,103
Hm.

661
00:30:11,107 --> 00:30:12,663
Yeah, it went well.

662
00:30:14,690 --> 00:30:16,503
What was he talking about?

663
00:30:17,398 --> 00:30:20,035
He asked his boss
for overtime.

664
00:30:20,732 --> 00:30:22,929
Oh, that's good.

665
00:30:23,607 --> 00:30:26,862
More hours means more money.

666
00:30:27,481 --> 00:30:29,822
Maybe he'll be able to get
on the seat soon, huh?

667
00:30:30,815 --> 00:30:32,957
Hm.

668
00:30:34,523 --> 00:30:36,190
What is it?

669
00:30:40,899 --> 00:30:43,049
He won't let anybody help him.

670
00:30:44,149 --> 00:30:46,190
It's his pride.

671
00:30:48,315 --> 00:30:50,347
I wonder where he got that.

672
00:30:52,375 --> 00:30:54,086
It's not the same, Helen.

673
00:30:55,523 --> 00:30:57,149
Paul.

674
00:31:01,772 --> 00:31:03,398
Baby,

675
00:31:03,548 --> 00:31:06,390
he wants to do it on his own.

676
00:31:07,565 --> 00:31:09,273
But he doesn't have to.

677
00:31:12,940 --> 00:31:14,557
Hm.

678
00:31:15,940 --> 00:31:17,782
You know, sometimes,

679
00:31:17,871 --> 00:31:19,554
I think I worked too much,

680
00:31:20,607 --> 00:31:22,123
traveling.

681
00:31:25,107 --> 00:31:28,132
You give your whole
life to a place

682
00:31:29,690 --> 00:31:33,605
and turn around years later and
realize it was the wrong place.

683
00:31:33,607 --> 00:31:37,480
I... I should've been here.

684
00:31:37,481 --> 00:31:38,878
I should've been here

685
00:31:38,879 --> 00:31:41,522
when they were growing up.
- Oh, baby.

686
00:31:41,523 --> 00:31:46,565
You were... are a good father.

687
00:31:52,273 --> 00:31:54,273
You should've seen him today,
Helen.

688
00:32:00,815 --> 00:32:03,141
You know that little...

689
00:32:04,773 --> 00:32:06,273
Smile he has?

690
00:32:09,752 --> 00:32:11,720
He's gonna be fine.

691
00:32:14,273 --> 00:32:16,315
Let him show you he can do it.

692
00:32:18,732 --> 00:32:20,857
Be patient with him.

693
00:32:23,107 --> 00:32:24,940
Yeah.

694
00:32:33,315 --> 00:32:34,973
Mm-hmm.

695
00:32:35,815 --> 00:32:37,690
Next.

696
00:32:48,210 --> 00:32:49,377
Mm.

697
00:32:54,127 --> 00:32:56,375
Ooh, is she drinking again?

698
00:32:57,134 --> 00:32:58,634
Mm.

699
00:33:08,481 --> 00:33:09,482
What?

700
00:33:14,224 --> 00:33:15,653
Ooh,

701
00:33:16,357 --> 00:33:18,524
auntie.

702
00:33:22,732 --> 00:33:24,194
Wow.

703
00:33:26,149 --> 00:33:27,605
Oh.

704
00:33:31,940 --> 00:33:34,982
How many times I've told you not
to walk to your car by yourself?

705
00:33:35,273 --> 00:33:38,397
It's not a circumstance I choose,
but I manage to survive.

706
00:33:38,398 --> 00:33:41,022
All right, well. I'm here.

707
00:33:41,024 --> 00:33:43,563
Did you tell Ana I
was your plus one?

708
00:33:43,565 --> 00:33:47,271
I did, and I'll tell her I
walked you to your car too.

709
00:33:47,273 --> 00:33:48,674
Hm.

710
00:33:50,356 --> 00:33:51,867
Yeah, she's got

711
00:33:52,324 --> 00:33:54,647
another guy out in Australia.

712
00:33:54,648 --> 00:33:56,480
Wow.

713
00:33:56,481 --> 00:33:58,113
You guys
have an open relationship.

714
00:33:58,184 --> 00:33:59,715
How very modern of you.

715
00:33:59,940 --> 00:34:01,399
I don't know what we have.

716
00:34:02,107 --> 00:34:05,147
What am I supposed to
say to that exactly?

717
00:34:05,149 --> 00:34:06,940
Or is that just
some sort of update

718
00:34:06,944 --> 00:34:08,647
on your relationship status?

719
00:34:08,648 --> 00:34:12,273
- We're having a conversation, I thought.
- About what, exactly?

720
00:34:13,982 --> 00:34:15,397
It's complicated.

721
00:34:15,398 --> 00:34:17,855
We are too damn old to
be complicated, David.

722
00:34:17,857 --> 00:34:20,022
And yet that has been our
entire relationship.

723
00:34:20,024 --> 00:34:22,149
That was
our entire relationship, yes,

724
00:34:22,152 --> 00:34:24,324
but I want something different.

725
00:34:24,565 --> 00:34:25,605
Come here.

726
00:34:40,773 --> 00:34:43,147
No. No.

727
00:34:43,149 --> 00:34:45,563
Mary Jane, listen. Listen.

728
00:34:45,565 --> 00:34:47,271
Okay, I know.

729
00:34:47,273 --> 00:34:50,452
I really, really messed this up.
I know.

730
00:34:50,507 --> 00:34:53,332
Stop. Okay? Just stop.

731
00:34:53,982 --> 00:34:56,005
We always do this.

732
00:34:56,242 --> 00:34:59,451
Every time, we always do this.

733
00:35:00,421 --> 00:35:02,110
And then it's over,

734
00:35:02,139 --> 00:35:04,022
and you go on about your life,

735
00:35:04,024 --> 00:35:07,106
and then, there I am
left behind waiting,

736
00:35:07,107 --> 00:35:08,962
hoping that you call me

737
00:35:08,963 --> 00:35:10,814
or send me Calla Lilies

738
00:35:10,815 --> 00:35:13,461
or show up at my house
with chips and salsa.

739
00:35:13,857 --> 00:35:16,355
You know, you keep saying
I'm the crazy person,

740
00:35:16,356 --> 00:35:20,064
but you're the one who
plays mind games, David.

741
00:35:20,065 --> 00:35:22,041
I'm not some third wheel

742
00:35:22,057 --> 00:35:23,775
to help you get over the hump
with your baby mama,

743
00:35:23,799 --> 00:35:25,939
and I'm not the
side chick who...

744
00:35:25,940 --> 00:35:28,480
When your wife gives you lazy head.
I'm not.

745
00:35:28,481 --> 00:35:29,528
What?

746
00:35:30,489 --> 00:35:32,560
I don't know when I
became that person.

747
00:35:32,940 --> 00:35:35,107
I have worked so hard

748
00:35:35,108 --> 00:35:36,774
to be someone new.

749
00:35:37,273 --> 00:35:38,859
God, I... I just...

750
00:35:39,523 --> 00:35:41,738
I just want to feel
good about me.

751
00:35:42,913 --> 00:35:45,060
You get that?

752
00:35:46,317 --> 00:35:47,815
Just feel good about me.

753
00:35:51,065 --> 00:35:52,940
- Mary Jane.
- No, no, no. Don't. No, stop.

754
00:35:52,944 --> 00:35:55,772
No. Leave me alone, David.

755
00:35:55,773 --> 00:35:58,522
Seriously. Okay?

756
00:35:58,523 --> 00:35:59,690
Leave me alone.

757
00:36:49,823 --> 00:36:53,238
♪ But I can
move mountains ♪

758
00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:56,697
♪ Sail away ♪

759
00:36:56,699 --> 00:37:00,489
♪ Only 'cause ♪

760
00:37:00,490 --> 00:37:03,238
♪ I got this much faith ♪

761
00:37:03,240 --> 00:37:06,364
♪ This love ♪

762
00:37:06,365 --> 00:37:10,030
♪ Is alive ♪

763
00:37:10,031 --> 00:37:12,614
♪ But I'm quiet ♪

764
00:37:12,615 --> 00:37:16,364
♪ And lonely these nights ♪

765
00:37:18,031 --> 00:37:19,905
♪ Silver shadows ♪

766
00:37:19,906 --> 00:37:23,113
♪ Walking by my side ♪

767
00:37:23,115 --> 00:37:26,405
♪ Silver shadows ♪

768
00:37:26,407 --> 00:37:29,280
♪ Walking by my side ♪

769
00:37:29,282 --> 00:37:32,447
♪ But I ain't coming ♪

770
00:37:32,449 --> 00:37:35,905
♪ I ain't coming home tonight ♪

771
00:37:35,906 --> 00:37:38,489
♪ I'll breathe you in now ♪

772
00:37:38,490 --> 00:37:41,322
♪ I'll breathe you
in my dreams ♪

773
00:37:43,823 --> 00:37:48,072
♪ I breathe you in my dreams ♪

774
00:37:48,073 --> 00:37:50,697
♪ I breathe you ♪

775
00:37:50,699 --> 00:37:53,821
♪ I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

776
00:37:53,823 --> 00:37:56,364
♪ I breathe you ♪

777
00:37:56,365 --> 00:38:00,905
♪ I'll breathe
you in my dreams ♪

778
00:38:00,906 --> 00:38:03,405
♪ I breathe you ♪

779
00:38:03,407 --> 00:38:06,530
♪ I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

780
00:38:21,031 --> 00:38:22,905
♪ I can take ♪

781
00:38:22,906 --> 00:38:25,155
You know you
can spend the night.

782
00:38:25,157 --> 00:38:27,405
Nah, I'm gonna go home.

783
00:38:27,407 --> 00:38:29,283
You okay?

784
00:38:30,783 --> 00:38:32,689
I can talk too.

785
00:38:33,462 --> 00:38:35,858
I know.

786
00:38:36,282 --> 00:38:39,155
I mean, I like what we do.

787
00:38:39,449 --> 00:38:42,988
But if you need more,
I got more to give.

788
00:38:42,990 --> 00:38:44,302
I'm good.

789
00:38:44,349 --> 00:38:46,947
♪ My pride ♪

790
00:38:49,323 --> 00:38:50,988
♪ Silver shadows ♪

791
00:38:50,990 --> 00:38:53,656
♪ Walking by my side ♪

792
00:38:53,657 --> 00:38:55,430
Call me when you
get back in town, okay?

793
00:38:55,453 --> 00:38:57,433
♪ Silver shadows ♪

794
00:38:57,472 --> 00:39:00,697
- Well, let me walk you out.
- Security can walk me out.

795
00:39:00,699 --> 00:39:04,166
♪ But I
ain't coming ♪

796
00:39:04,182 --> 00:39:06,908
♪ I ain't coming home ♪

797
00:39:06,940 --> 00:39:08,846
♪ Tonight ♪

798
00:39:08,885 --> 00:39:11,189
- You text me when you get home.
- I will.

799
00:39:14,648 --> 00:39:18,605
♪ But I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

800
00:39:18,606 --> 00:39:21,189
♪ I breathe you ♪

801
00:39:21,190 --> 00:39:24,980
♪ I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

802
00:39:24,982 --> 00:39:27,563
♪ I breathe you ♪

803
00:39:27,565 --> 00:39:31,647
♪ But I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

804
00:39:31,648 --> 00:39:34,064
♪ I breathe you ♪

805
00:39:34,065 --> 00:39:37,314
♪ I breathe
you in my dreams ♪

806
00:39:37,315 --> 00:39:40,314
♪ I breathe you ♪

807
00:39:40,315 --> 00:39:44,272
♪ I breathe you ♪

808
00:39:44,274 --> 00:39:46,813
♪ I breathe you ♪

809
00:39:46,815 --> 00:39:49,647
♪ I breathe
you, I breathe you ♪

810
00:39:49,648 --> 00:39:51,128
♪ I breathe you, I breathe ♪

811
00:39:51,129 --> 00:39:52,605
♪ I breathe you ♪

812
00:39:52,606 --> 00:39:54,855
♪ In my dreams ♪

813
00:39:57,481 --> 00:39:59,815
♪ I breathe you ♪

