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This programme contains
some strong language
and some scenes of a sexual nature
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♪ Out come all these words
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♪ Oh, there's a very pleasant side
to you
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♪ A side I much prefer
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♪ It's one that
laughs and jokes around
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♪ Remember
cuddles in the kitchen, yeah,
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♪ To get things off the ground
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♪ And it was
up, up and away
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♪ Oh, but it's right
hard to remember that
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♪ That on a day like today
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♪ When you're all argumentative
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♪ And you've got the face on... ♪
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♪ Well now, then, Mardy Bum
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♪ Oh, I'm in trouble again,
aren't I?
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♪ I thought as much
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♪ Cos you turned over there
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♪ Pulling that silent disappointment
face
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♪ The one that I can't bear,
well, can't we...
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♪ Just laugh and joke around
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♪ Remember cuddles
in the kitchen, yeah... ♪
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♪ To get things off the ground
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♪ And it was
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♪ Up, up and away
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♪ Oh, but it's right hard
to remember that
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♪ On a day like today
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♪ When you're all argumentative
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♪ And you've got the face on
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♪ And yeah I'm sorry I was late
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♪ But I missed the train
and then the traffic was a state
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♪ And I can't be arsed to
carry on in this debate
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♪ That re-occurs, oh... ♪
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Oh, he's here!
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♪ ..But of course I do, yeah,
I clearly do... ♪
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Thanks, lads!
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Hello. Thanks.
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You're a genius. What are you?
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A genius!
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♪ So laugh and joke around
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♪ Remember cuddles
in the kitchen, yeah,
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♪ To get things off the ground
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♪ And it was up, up and away
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♪ Oh, but it's right hard to
remember that
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♪ On a day like today
when you're all... ♪
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Right.
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♪ ..Argumentative
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♪ And you've got the face on. ♪
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Right. No music and no presents
until you've got ready, Mister.
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Pull your arm out... there you go,
off you pop.
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Rebecca! I need help! Joe, your
party clothes are on the bed.
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I see you're doing what you can
for the childhood obesity epidemic.
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It's the whole class.
There's 30 of the little buggers.
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- Is that what you're wearing?
- No. You're hallucinating. Yeah. Why?
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- Are there any Cheerios? - Any word
from Eddie and his whore of a wife?
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No. Let's be kind and supportive to
both him and his whore of a wife...
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It's never going to work.
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She cheated on your brother.
Not you.
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You really don't understand family,
do you?
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Not yours, I don't.
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Good lord. Did you need planning
permission for that cake?
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Party bags! Dad.
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So, they need a toy. A book.
Packet of sweets.
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Tattoo stickers, bookmarks,
Super Ball and baseball cap in each.
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What happened to a balloon
and a slice of cake?
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And just make sure Joe's
centre stage.
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- Of course. - You know what you're like
when there are other kids around
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that laugh at your jokes
more than he does, hm?
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Joe's birthday, Joe's day.
And don't hog the karaoke, either!
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Karaoke?
At a five-year-old's birthday party?
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Joe's birthday.
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Joe's day.
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- Are you ready to dance...?
- Yeah!
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Let's go!
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I want to see those moves. I want to
see those moves, that's it.
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Turn around.
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Go on, Joe!
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Anybody moving?
Let me have a little look.
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No.
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OK, I bet next time I'll be able to
catch one of you out!
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You ready?
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Joe! Joe! Joe! The music's stopped.
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- Joe!
- Joe!
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Joe!
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OK, Joe's out, don't worry!
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A little girl there, Lucy, is it?
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I think your head was moving
a little bit, lovely.
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I wasn't moving.
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Just a little bit.
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- Just a little, love.
- I think you were.
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Well done.
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OK! Ready?
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OK! Here we go!
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Any word from the entertainer?
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Sat nav problems.
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What? I thought she was a mermaid.
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How's that going to stop her
needing sat nav?
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I'm thinking of dolphins.
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Is the camera charged, Dad?
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I thought I was on party bags.
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Lucy Merrick was not moving
her hand, by the way.
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You want your own son to be
the first one out on his birthday?
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No. But knocking Lucy out,
it drew attention to Joe, didn't it?
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It's Joe's day. He should be the
centre of attention.
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Who can that be?
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Hi!
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Well done for finding us!
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Sea Lily. Underwater theme.
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The trailer... No, no, no, no...
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Oh, great!
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Summat wrong?
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Yes.
But nothing that should bother you.
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Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa!
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Dad. Can I just park the thing,
OK? You're not helping.
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Is that more parking semaphore or
humility. I can never tell!
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Eddie. At least get the car parked
before we start an argument, hey?
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Did you hire a hooker for a kid's
birthday party?
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Oh, right!
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- Did you adjust the pressure
for that load? - What?
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Doctor. How are you?
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I'm very good, thank you, and you?
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Good. Yes. Good. Look.
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No cancer! Again!
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Good.
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Only teasing, you know.
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Um...
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So you're, er, going to walk to the
kerb from there, are you?
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It's an old Woody Allen joke.
1977. Misquoted.
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But up here counts as cutting-edge
humour.
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Eddie? Keys!
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Now we're underwater,
deep in the ocean...
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We just have to be really careful
of the jellyfish...
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Look who I found
lurking around outside.
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Sorry about the timing.
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We tried to call but no signal.
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Don't worry at all.
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You made it just in time to sing
Happy Birthday.
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It's lovely to see you.
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You've lost weight.
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Have I?
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Hi, Alice.
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That's it! Keep
swimming, all the way up.
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What a beautiful cake!
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Did you buy it or make it yourself?
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Jellyfish! Swim away!
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Did we hug yet?
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I'll get you a drink.
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Hey!
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Now just be careful,
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you don't want to be stung
by a jellyfish!
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Joe. Birthday boy!
You are Neptune.
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My assistant. I need you.
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- Now, if all the little fishes...
- Did they hire an hooker?
- ..and the turtles are very quiet...
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I already made that joke.
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Then something special might be
coming for Neptune!
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Sh!
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♪ Happy birthday to you
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♪ Happy birthday to you
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♪ Happy birthday, dear Joe... ♪
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♪ Happy birthday to you! ♪
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Not yet, not yet, not yet, Joe!
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You've got your candles to
blow out, haven't ya?
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Eh, come on, come on, mate.
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Look, all your friends are waiting
for you to blow your candles out.
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Go on.
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Come on, then, top lad! There we go!
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Make way for the birthday boy!
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Eh, Joe, come on.
On your feet lad, big boy.
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- It's all right... - Hey Dad, Dad,
leave him. Dad, leave him.
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Joe? Joe? You've got a really cool
birthday cake.
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I think he's just a bit tired,
you know.
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Joe, you want to see your cake,
don't ya?
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It's got an octopus and fishes
and seaweed on it.
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Just a minute.
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It's just...
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♪ I was waiting in the bar...
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♪ Where were you?
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♪ I was buying you a drink
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♪ Where were you?
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♪ I was crying home in bed
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♪ Where were you? ♪
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Mekons. 1978. Where Were You?
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- Yay!
- Well done!
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Shall we blow your candles out?
OK! Good lad!
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Good lad, there we go.
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Get yourself to the cake.
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Why does there have to be something
wrong with everyone?
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OK! I'm wrong, let's change
the subject.
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Like my dad's bowel cancer.
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Your dad had all the symptoms.
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Yes. Apart from bowel cancer.
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I do know a bit about child
development.
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I did do a paediatric rotation.
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Hardly likely to forget that, am I?
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Mum was right about the balloons.
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The boys just hit each other
with them, then lie on them
till they burst.
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Must be a breast-envy thing.
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Most things are.
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You all set for the new job, Eddie?
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Hardly new, is it?
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Is that the enthusiasm you
showed your London customers?
No wonder you went bust.
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When did we stop ripping presents
open as soon as they came
in through the door?
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When one little boy
told his old Auntie
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he had Buzz Lightyear already
and was scared of him anyway.
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- I was ten years old, Dad.
- How do you know
I was talking about you?
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There's millions
of Buzz Lightyears out there.
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Come on, kidder, let's get these
presents ripped open.
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You were scared of Buzz Lightyear?
Really?
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He was always
so certain he was right.
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I have an aversion to certainty.
I can't think why.
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If I had my way, I'd flush them
headphones down the toilet.
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He just likes music.
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What?
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What was that look?
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Nothing.
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No, it was something. What was it?
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It's just...
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You don't think Joe might have some
kind of communication disorder?
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- (Eddie.) - It's just something
might be worth checking out?
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We had his hearing checked.
It's perfect.
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That not good enough for you?
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No, it's just, I might be talking
shit, right, but Joe's really gifted
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in some ways, but he seems unable to
follow simple instructions.
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Joe? Our Joe?
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Are you kidding?
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He just wanted his own way
on his birthday.
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You find me a five-year-old
who isn't like that.
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Is this your opinion, Eddie? Or is
it Nicola's? Is that what you were
arguing about in the hall?
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Rebecca, give everyone a glass, my
love. This is losing its fizz.
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You're telling me.
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A few words on this occasion
of Joe's fifth birthday.
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I retired so, er, my son could
come home and...
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I lost my dear Sandra
12 months ago but...
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Look, I'm sorry... no...
So he lay down on the carpet?
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- Eh? Who didn't have a tantrum
on their own birthday? - Exactly.
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Nicola. Why do you have to make
yourself feel important by finding
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fault with everyone else?
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Toast. To us. Eh? To us!
All back together.
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Fighting like only a loving
family can.
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To us!
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I think we should go and unpack.
Yeah. Good idea!
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I'm making a toast here. Nobody
leaves until they bloody join in.
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To us!
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To us!
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♪ Space travels in my blood
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♪ There ain't nothing
I can do about it... ♪
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♪ I think I'm on another world
with you
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♪ With you
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♪ I'm on another planet with you
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♪ Another girl
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♪ Is loving you now
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♪ Another planet...
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♪ Another planet. ♪
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What did you mean -
"communication disorder"?
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I really don't want to
talk about it, Maurice.
254
00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,680
The last time you visited, you said
I had bowel cancer,
255
00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:29,640
so you'll understand
if I have questions.
256
00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,560
You had weight loss
and blood in your stools.
257
00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:34,160
- I just said you should have it
checked out. - That's as maybe.
258
00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:37,400
But thanks to your advice, a strange
man stuck his finger up my arse.
259
00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,000
He didn't even buy you dinner first.
260
00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,360
I'm going for a walk.
261
00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,560
It's going to be dark soon.
262
00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:44,400
I'm going for a walk in the dark.
263
00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:48,800
I thought SHE cheated on you.
264
00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,600
What's that got to do with anything?
265
00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,640
And you let her talk to you like that?
When she's the one in the wrong?
266
00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:55,280
No wonder she cheated on you.
267
00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:20,600
Do you believe Nicola?
She hasn't even got kids.
268
00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,440
Well, in fairness, it was your Eddie's
fault that it came out at all.
269
00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,440
We don't owe her an explanation.
270
00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,200
She doesn't get to judge our son!
271
00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,160
In fact, she has no right to
judge anyone!
272
00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:35,360
Right, so adultery makes her
a bad doctor, does it?
273
00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,440
Christ, there'd be no good
doctors at all if that were true.
274
00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,200
Does this look like my sexual
desire face, to you?
275
00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,880
I don't know.
Not normally looking at your face.
276
00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:02,000
Is it the balloons or Sea Lily
that's got you all stirred up?
277
00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,720
- Sea Lily...
- Yeah.
278
00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,640
She turned out brilliantly,
didn't she?
279
00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,040
- And I've got an early booking
for Joe's stag night. - Look.
280
00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:12,200
60 months old,
he ticks 80% of the boxes.
281
00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,920
I ought to mark this up
and post it through Nicola's door.
282
00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,520
You know - sex can be a very
effective cure for anger.
283
00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:19,480
Who says I want a cure?
284
00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:21,200
Come on.
285
00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,440
Come on.
286
00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,720
Got a hard-on down here you can
hang your washing off.
287
00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:27,640
Oh, good. Got a delicates wash on.
288
00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,160
It's not sex slang, by any
chance, that, is it?
289
00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,840
Totally not, no.
290
00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,680
Hey, hey, little man.
291
00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,640
Hello.
292
00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,760
It's bedtime, isn't it?
Come on, let me have that!
293
00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,040
Give me that. There you go.
294
00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,480
Right, come on, lie down.
295
00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,040
That's it. Right.
296
00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:28,320
There we go.
297
00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:30,840
Sh, sh, sh. Right, lie down.
298
00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:34,240
♪ The time has come to say
goodnight
299
00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:38,400
♪ To say, sleep tight
till the morning light. ♪
300
00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:42,560
No? Not tired?
301
00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:47,920
OK, come on.
302
00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:50,720
OK, sweetheart.
303
00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,000
Hi.
304
00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:00,120
Hi.
305
00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,000
Is he having trouble sleeping?
306
00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,800
It's too much excitement.
307
00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,000
Way too many Haribos.
308
00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,080
Car sends him to sleep,
it always works.
309
00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,840
So - do you do this a lot?
Drive him around to get him to sleep?
310
00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,680
No. No. Hardly ever.
311
00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,440
I didn't know you smoked.
312
00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:26,720
Hardly ever.
313
00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,520
Can we have music?
314
00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,200
No, no music, Joe.
315
00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:52,200
Don't You Want Me.
316
00:17:54,120 --> 00:17:55,720
Close the window, Joe.
317
00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,040
Who was the band?
318
00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:03,240
Joe. Close the window.
319
00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,320
Human League. 1981.
320
00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:06,720
Close the window.
321
00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,480
♪ You were working as a waitress
in a cocktail bar... ♪
322
00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:12,960
- Joe, close the window!
- ♪ ..When I met you
323
00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,800
♪ I picked you out, I shook you up
and turned you around
324
00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,280
♪ Turned you into someone new
325
00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,720
- ♪ Now five years later on... ♪
- Close the window!
326
00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,600
♪ ..You've got the world at your
feet
327
00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,440
♪ Success has been so easy for
you... ♪
328
00:18:31,360 --> 00:18:35,080
That's enough! That's enough!
That's enough!
329
00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:37,760
That's enough. That's enough.
That's enough!
330
00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,240
Sorry.
331
00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:56,160
♪ You were working as a waitress
in a cocktail bar
332
00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,080
♪ When I met you... ♪
333
00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:05,320
You tired, baby?
334
00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,000
I'm tired, too.
335
00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:57,360
Friday after school. There's just
crisps, ice cream and a game
336
00:19:57,360 --> 00:20:00,320
of football but if the weather
holds, you know, there you go.
337
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,520
I'll see you at the party. OK?
338
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:07,080
Good morning.
339
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,040
Right, come on, everybody,
340
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,840
I know these invitations are really
exciting, but put them away.
341
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,160
Bye, lovely boy.
342
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:17,480
Come on now, hurry up.
343
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,920
Good morning, Joe.
344
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,800
Oi, oi. I bet you didn't move back
for the weather, did you?
345
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,840
Good job I didn't move back for the
banter, if that's the best you've got.
346
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,960
Eh, that's a bit harsh.
Must be the nerves.
347
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,920
- Joe got over his party yet?
- Bit of advice on your first day.
348
00:20:50,920 --> 00:20:52,960
Do not let them
Polish lads take advantage.
349
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:54,360
I learnt that the hard way.
350
00:20:54,360 --> 00:20:57,560
Sorry about the row. Don't know why
I blurted it out like that.
351
00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:01,000
I think Joe's great.
And I know what it's like to be
the odd one out in this family.
352
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:05,760
Now, they are grafters, these lads,
but they will give you the runaround
353
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,440
if they think you're
going to be a pushover.
354
00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,520
I did run my own business for two
years, you know.
355
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,200
No, I know, I know. Lighten up.
I'm only saying...
356
00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:17,560
Oi, oi.
357
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,000
Hello, Maurice, come in.
358
00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,920
Try not to look so guilty, we're not
doing anything to be ashamed of.
359
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:32,280
Speak for yourself.
360
00:21:54,680 --> 00:21:56,240
Right!
361
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,800
Be gentle with him,
eh, guys! Czesc!
362
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,054
_
363
00:22:17,290 --> 00:22:18,752
_
364
00:22:18,997 --> 00:22:21,057
_
365
00:22:21,057 --> 00:22:25,195
_
366
00:22:26,181 --> 00:22:28,720
_
367
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,760
♪ ..A movie queen
368
00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:42,240
♪ To play the scene or bringing all
the good things out of me
369
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:46,640
♪ But for now, love, let's be real
370
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:52,800
♪ I never thought I could feel this
way and I've got to say that I... ♪
371
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,320
Bloody hell.
372
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,240
I'm shouting again...
373
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,320
Yes, you lost the breathing.
374
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,560
When you're letting out the final
breath on the note,
375
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,520
think what it's like to hold in a
fart and then finally...
376
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,680
♪ Relax and let it go. ♪
377
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,760
I've never held a fart in
in me life!
378
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,200
Well, maybe you should start.
379
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,000
Otherwise, good, Maurice,
not bad at all.
380
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,920
Don't patronise me, Louise.
381
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,240
I've not been practising,
there's been stuff at home.
382
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:17,720
Sorry to hear that.
383
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,000
Uh, uh, have you got a moment?
384
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,800
I've a proposal to put to ya.
385
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,440
- Not really, no.
- It won't take long.
386
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,280
Sit down, I'll make some tea.
387
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,120
Before you ask. I do not want to
take up the ukulele.
388
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,280
This is what I'm thinking.
389
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:49,520
That you're alone and I'm alone
and neither of us are particularly
short of commitments or company,
390
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:53,640
you with your family and your
business and me with the teaching,
and the choir and Ralph, but...
391
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:54,960
Louise, come on...
392
00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:58,960
Here's the "but".
393
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:01,720
I'm just going to say it.
394
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,000
I miss sex, do you?
395
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,160
I'm sorry?
396
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,560
I miss sex.
397
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,960
I'm sorry to hear that, erm...
398
00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:20,040
Have you thought about the Internet?
399
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,640
It's nasty out there, Maurice!
400
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:26,440
So I was thinking that you
and I should perhaps...
401
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,800
start a sexual relationship?
402
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,680
It strikes me as a practical
solution.
403
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,440
We're neither of us teenagers,
404
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,280
and we know our needs and we seem to
like each oth...
405
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,160
And I can see the thought horrifies
you, so I'll say no more about it.
406
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,600
- It's not that!
- Perhaps you don't miss the sex?
407
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:42,920
Not that, either!
408
00:24:44,360 --> 00:24:46,280
I don't find you...
409
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,960
I don't think of you in that way.
410
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,320
I'm kind of wishing this conversation
had been about a ukulele.
411
00:25:02,120 --> 00:25:04,320
Right, well,
thank you for your honesty.
412
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,920
I should, I should go.
413
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,480
Of course,
and if you do practise, erm,
414
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,080
remember to sing the low
notes from down here.
415
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:13,200
Right.
416
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,160
Come on, Wi-Fi,
you know you want to.
417
00:25:34,360 --> 00:25:37,040
What did you mean,
"Can't follow simple instructions"?
418
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:41,120
Maurice. Like I said. I really don't
want to talk about it with you.
419
00:25:41,120 --> 00:25:42,960
Don't get all delicate with me,
Nicola.
420
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,920
If there's a problem with my grandson,
then we need to get it fixed.
421
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,000
- And you think there's a problem,
don't you? - None of my business.
422
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,280
I think there is, as well.
423
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,800
And it's going to get bigger
if we wait for them two airheads
424
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:53,880
to do anything about it.
425
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,880
So? Who do I talk to, where do I go?
426
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,040
Nobody needs to know you told me.
427
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,800
OK. I'll have a think.
428
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,680
I'll-I'll need to make
a couple of phone calls.
429
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,080
That's OK. I can wait.
430
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:17,360
Um, I get a better signal
on this in the bedroom.
431
00:26:17,360 --> 00:26:20,840
You need to get one of these!
You know, old but effective.
432
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,080
Like me.
433
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,480
One of the aspects of physical
play that's maybe least understood
434
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,040
is rough and tumble.
435
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,520
Hey, Dad. Did you pick him up
all right, is everything OK?
436
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,840
Everything's fine.
437
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,760
I have to go to Manchester,
so I thought I'd take him
to the Science Museum.
438
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,600
Joe? Your mother says hello.
439
00:26:45,360 --> 00:26:47,640
He waves hello back.
I'll see you later.
440
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,320
Bye!
441
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,200
Bye.
442
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,880
Research shows that fear has evolved
as a way of controlling aggression.
443
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,400
It's associated with the development
of emotional and social skills
444
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,320
and understandings.
445
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:01,760
Oh, hey, latte?
446
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,040
Please.
447
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,160
Is Joe going to wear a proper kit?
448
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,720
For what?
449
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,280
For Friday?
450
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,480
Harry's football party?
451
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,280
Oh, right, um, yeah, no.
Joe's not really that into football.
452
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,680
Much to his dad's despair.
453
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,840
You're late.
454
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:22,400
Or you could be early.
Time's all relative.
455
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,960
We're out of skimmed milk.
It's a latte.
456
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,480
Excuse me.
457
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,920
Hello, Joe. What are you doing here?
458
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,520
I'm his, er, grandad.
I've got an appointment.
459
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,720
Er, cancellation.
460
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,520
Today? No. There must have been
some misunderstanding.
461
00:27:47,360 --> 00:27:49,520
That's better.
How are you today, Joe?
462
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,080
You know him already?
How do you know him?
463
00:27:53,120 --> 00:27:54,520
I can't tell you that.
464
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,280
It's just confidentiality.
465
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,360
Yes. But you do know him...
466
00:27:58,360 --> 00:27:59,400
Clearly.
467
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,240
Don't take her money, Terry.
She's family.
468
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,240
I knew I knew you from somewhere.
It's Nicola. The doctor, right?
469
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:21,840
- So you came too in the end, then?
- Why wouldn't I?
470
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,120
Good for you!
The past is the past, yeah?
471
00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:27,800
Thank you.
472
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,160
Coffee, please, Terry!
473
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,360
So the cycle route comes
right by Cumbria Way
474
00:28:34,360 --> 00:28:37,840
and two other hikes
cut down the hill.
475
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,600
So everybody sits out on the deck,
eating dinner, drinking our beer.
476
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,880
And then in the evening, the
day-trippers and the campers,
477
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:48,800
- they come over and they make use...
- Does everybody talk
about everybody's business here?
478
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,120
Well, er,
479
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,600
pretty much.
480
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,360
Two metres of rainfall a year
can do that to a town.
481
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,240
If you're hiking or cycling,
the diner does the job, doesn't it?
482
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,360
It's only 100 yards away
and it's good.
483
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:04,920
Why build a restaurant?
484
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,000
It's a gastropub,
it's not a restaurant.
485
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,320
Even so...
486
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,640
It's a beautiful setting
but it's kind of sinister, too.
487
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,640
Really?
488
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,040
- I don't think so.
- I like the contrast.
489
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,520
- Good.
- Not everyone will, but...
490
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:54,760
How was today?
491
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,120
It was OK.
492
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,920
I get the impression they all think
Paul's a bit of a wanker, so...
493
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,720
that made it easier.
494
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,720
I did my CV and your dad came round.
495
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,360
He wanted to talk about Joe.
496
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:12,360
Oh, God. I told you
we should stay out of that.
497
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,480
That's what I said. It's for Paul
and Alison to deal with.
498
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,240
- Are you settling in?
- No.
499
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,360
Do you want to leave?
500
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,360
Only every hour or so.
501
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,800
Me too.
502
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,880
We can make this work, you know.
503
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,200
I know.
504
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:42,440
I do love you.
505
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,320
Do you?
506
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,560
I wouldn't have come here
if I didn't.
507
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,320
Dinner's ready in 20 minutes.
508
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:55,960
What's that?
509
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,120
Er, washing machine.
510
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,760
No, not that.
511
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,560
That. That sound.
512
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,040
I don't know.
513
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,400
- What are you doing?
- Don't stop.
514
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,000
What are you doing? With my hand?
515
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,800
I...
516
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,720
I've done it before. I just...
517
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,120
Not with me you haven't.
518
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,840
Why don't you just tell me
every move he made?
519
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,480
Everything you did to him
and he did to you, eh?
520
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,200
I just thought it'd be nice.
521
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,200
So where did you learn it? With who?
522
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:53,400
Oh, Christ. Are you thinking
about it? You can't even remember!
523
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:54,560
What else did you do?
524
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,320
I'm not indulging this.
525
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,680
Like you indulged him inside you,
you mean?
526
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:02,840
You can't do that!
You can't walk away!
527
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,080
- It's you that's in the bloody wrong!
- Oh is it, really?
528
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,800
Jesus, I never would have guessed!
529
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,600
There you two are.
Where have you been?
530
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,440
Rebecca, would you take Joe
and play, please?
531
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:14,880
I was just about to eat.
532
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,800
Take him to play?
He must be exhausted.
533
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,640
All morning at big school
and then a trip to Manchester.
534
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,560
Joe, did Harry give you
an invitation today?
535
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,080
Is it in your folder?
536
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,200
I just want a word
with your mum, love.
537
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,680
Come on, Joe.
538
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:29,920
Come on.
539
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,000
Let's go outside.
540
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,280
Unbelievable.
541
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,240
How was the Science Museum?
542
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:43,000
We didn't make it. We were in
Manchester and it just so turns out
543
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,840
that the head honcho of St Greg's is
a friend of a friend of Nicola's.
544
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,000
So?
545
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:54,080
So I dropped in on her with Joe.
Tried to get a cancellation.
546
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:56,040
Sorry, you did what?
547
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,160
Dr Eshell.
Seems like a lovely woman
548
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,360
and, er, what do you know?
She knows Joe already.
549
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,720
You fucking did what?
550
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,320
Why didn't you tell me, love?
551
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,880
You and Paul don't have to go
through this stuff on your own.
552
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,400
That's what your dad's here for.
553
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,400
You took my son to hospital
without asking me?
554
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,840
To see a doctor? To have tests done?
555
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,640
I knew you were a control freak but
this is like a whole other level.
556
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:20,080
Is the follow-up with the same
doctor or are they going to
bring a specialist in?
557
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,200
You kidnapped him?
558
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,640
Get out.
559
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,160
Get out!
560
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:33,680
What's going on?
561
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,800
Can you ease off trying to drag
Nicola into family arguments?
562
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,800
Sure. If that's what I was doing.
563
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:49,240
We're trying to make a go of it
up here and it's not easy.
564
00:34:49,240 --> 00:34:51,160
Perfect family next door.
Dad up the road.
565
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,080
Paul dropping in every five minutes
to tell me how to run the brewery.
566
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,520
- Do you want my advice?
- No.
567
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,880
I advise you very strongly to
get your head out of your arse.
568
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,480
There are bigger problems in this
world than yours, you know.
569
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:02,680
That's all I'm saying.
570
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,200
"That's all I'm saying."
571
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,640
"With all due respect."
572
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,080
"If you don't mind me saying so."
573
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,440
Little sweeteners which you think
give you permission
574
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,320
- to say what the hell you like.
- Stay away from my son!
575
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,080
♪ When I was waiting in the bar
Where were you?
576
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,240
♪ When I was buying you a drink
Where were you?
577
00:36:11,240 --> 00:36:14,000
♪ When I was crying at home in bed
Where were you? ♪
578
00:36:24,720 --> 00:36:27,560
You know Harry's having a party
this afternoon.
579
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:31,200
- What time? We're going to be pushed
to make it back. - Joe wasn't invited.
580
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,760
What? No.
581
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,520
- What? No, you're wrong.
- No, seriously.
582
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,880
Every kid in his class
got an invitation except for him.
583
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,000
- Harry? Harry with the inhaler?
- Yeah.
584
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,120
Well, who wants to go to his party
anyway?
585
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,400
We've invited every kid since
nursery.
586
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,920
How many invitations has he had
in return?
587
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,600
He's being patronised by the kid
with the inhaler?
588
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,880
This is Dr Waite,
who I told you about.
589
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,320
Yes, of course. Hello.
590
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,640
- Nice to meet you.
- Hi. - Hiya.
591
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,320
- I'll leave you to it.
- Thank you.
592
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,800
Please.
593
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:21,080
- Did you bring the questionnaire?
- Er, yes, and medical records.
594
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,480
And nursery reports?
School reports?
595
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,920
They're not very useful.
596
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,240
- Maybe you can bring them next time.
- Yeah, course.
597
00:37:32,240 --> 00:37:34,080
If there is a next time.
598
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:39,600
OK, erm, well, why don't we start
by you telling me about Joe?
599
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,200
Well, we did that last time
with Dr Eshell.
600
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,360
It's good for me to hear it
first-hand.
601
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,680
Well, like... like what?
602
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:48,800
Whatever you like.
603
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:58,200
Well, he's... he's charming
and he's funny and he's...
604
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,680
He's a musical genius -
he knows full songs by heart.
605
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,560
He's smarter than kids his age,
so he doesn't...
606
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,560
they don't really interest him
very much.
607
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,960
He's got that thing about going
last through a door
608
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,800
but then, my friend's boy
only eats Cheerios
609
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,280
so that's not really a big deal
or anything.
610
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,960
And are those the difficulties
that brought you here?
611
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:25,200
Well, Dr Eshell said that we should
come back so we came back.
612
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,520
Well, if you hadn't thought there
was still a problem,
613
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:31,120
you wouldn't have brought him
back, would you? So?
614
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,320
Well, we took him to see
a speech therapist when he was
two and a half,
615
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:38,520
erm, because he just...
he didn't really speak.
616
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,600
And, erm, she said that it
would right itself and it did
617
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,960
and since then, he never shuts up,
does he? So, that's it, really.
618
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:48,720
Is there anything else?
619
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,880
Yeah, he doesn't talk to
other kids very much.
620
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,760
I think he just... I think he just
prefers adults.
621
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,600
He's, you know, erm...
622
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,360
But he has just started school -
reception.
623
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:10,040
It's just part-time but if he's
going to mix with new kids
624
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:11,200
and, you know...
625
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:15,000
Well...
626
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:17,240
Joe?
627
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,680
Do you want to have a little play?
628
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,280
Joe?
629
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:26,840
Listen,
630
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,320
I want you to play with Dr Waite
for five minutes
631
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,320
and then you can have
your music back. OK?
632
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,360
Come on, good lad. There we go.
633
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,080
Do you want to help me
with this, Joe?
634
00:39:42,720 --> 00:39:46,160
He doesn't really like jigsaws.
He just finds them too easy.
635
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:49,280
Joe, look.
636
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,120
Hey, look who this is. Here, look.
637
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:55,480
It's Tigger, isn't it?
638
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,480
Hey, shall we show Dr Waite
where Tigger goes?
639
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,000
Just above Winnie the Pooh.
Just there.
640
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,040
Hey?
641
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,480
The wonderful thing
about Tiggers...
642
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,160
Are Tiggers are wonderful things.
643
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:07,680
Their tops are made out of rubber,
644
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,480
their bottoms are made of springs.
645
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,400
They're bouncy, trouncy, flouncy...
646
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:12,960
Fun, fun, fun, fun, fun!
647
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,200
But the wonderful thing about
Tiggers is I'm the only one.
648
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,440
♪ I'm the only one. ♪
649
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:19,520
Where does it go?
650
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,520
Hey, does it go there?
Like that? Hey?
651
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:27,560
If Dad keeps helping you,
Dad might have to wait outside.
652
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:34,480
He really doesn't like jigsaws.
653
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:36,360
It's OK.
654
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,840
Children often react like that
in the room.
655
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,760
Now then, Joe...
656
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:51,840
Can you take a look
at this picture for me?
657
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,680
Can you tell me, what do you see?
658
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,680
Let me see.
659
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,440
That's right. What do you see?
660
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,880
- A door.
- That's right.
661
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,720
A door to the cottage.
662
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:18,720
Anything else?
663
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,960
Another door.
664
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,720
That's right - another door.
665
00:41:43,720 --> 00:41:45,360
To the lighthouse this time.
666
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,480
Now, can you see anything else,
667
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,480
Joe, on the picture?
668
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,920
Maybe not a door this time?
669
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,720
You're a sad, strange little man.
670
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,760
Toy Story.
671
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:04,960
I know.
672
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,400
Joe...
673
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,160
Joe, you love the seaside,
don't you? Hey, look.
674
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,360
Do you remember St Ives?
675
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,520
With the seagull?
676
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,680
A seagull ate Mum's pasty.
677
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,160
That's right, he did. He really did.
678
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,800
The lazy little bugger.
679
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,560
I've never seen him so co-operative.
680
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:51,960
Wait till I get him home!
681
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,000
She loved him.
682
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,280
Yeah, course she did.
Why wouldn't she?
683
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,600
I tell you what...
684
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,240
let's go away this weekend,
just me and you.
685
00:43:11,240 --> 00:43:12,960
Book a nice hotel.
686
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,080
That'd be romantic.
687
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,840
We could have our fill from the
award-winning carvery and then...
688
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,760
I could take you from behind
over the Corby Trouser Press.
689
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,520
Little bit less romantic that time.
690
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:27,920
- It's such a fine balance.
- Yes, tiny.
691
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,840
Alison, Paul, come through.
692
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:46,200
You're not going to give us jigsaws,
are you?
693
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,240
- He's a lovely boy.
- Yeah.
694
00:43:48,240 --> 00:43:49,640
He's polite,
695
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:54,000
he's affectionate, he makes eye
contact and he loves his music.
696
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,960
Thank you for being
so patient with him...
697
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,240
..and with me.
698
00:43:58,240 --> 00:43:59,920
Especially me.
699
00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:02,880
I know sometimes
I can be bit of a prick, you know...
700
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,000
Look, I'm going to
write my own report
701
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,840
but I can talk you through
the test results now.
702
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,240
I don't believe in keeping
people waiting.
703
00:44:11,240 --> 00:44:14,520
You were right to bring him
to Dr Eshell
704
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,880
and she was right to refer him
to me.
705
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,960
He does have significant problems.
706
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,880
What kind of problems?
707
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,760
Communication.
708
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,720
Auditory processing.
709
00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:29,000
Emotional responses.
710
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,760
Self-soothing behaviours.
711
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,240
If you look at the tests,
712
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:36,520
in many areas,
he is way above average.
713
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,120
Sorry, I know you're the expert...
714
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,040
but is that really so different
from any other kid?
715
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,560
No, because he's five years old.
716
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:45,840
But he will be.
717
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:51,560
Did Dr Eshell mention
the autism spectrum at all?
718
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:53,960
No, why would she?
719
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,680
I don't know very much about autism
720
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,280
but from what I do know,
there's no way he's got...
721
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,200
He has problems processing emotions.
722
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,680
He has problems
with his auditory processing.
723
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,000
Yeah, you keep saying that.
I don't know what it means.
724
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,200
I'm sorry.
725
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,400
It means there's nothing wrong
with his hearing
726
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,360
but he has trouble making sense
of what he hears
727
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:14,560
and prioritising them.
728
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,800
Like I'm prioritising this
conversation
729
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:18,320
over the sound of my e-mail alerts.
730
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,480
That's not him. That...
731
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,920
Sorry, but he talks, he sings.
732
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:24,680
He has a wide vocabulary
733
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,840
and he uses that to keep
everyone at a social distance.
734
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,440
His singing is another
way to keep everyone out.
735
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,840
To protect him from
what he finds difficult.
736
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,080
Communication,
737
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:41,200
emotions.
738
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,640
Well, that just
sounds like every man I know.
739
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:45,920
Right.
740
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,480
But Joe has these problems
to the extent
741
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,320
that it limits his capacity
to learn and change.
742
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,800
So, are you saying he's autistic?
743
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,400
I do believe he's on
the autism spectrum, yes.
744
00:45:59,920 --> 00:46:02,120
But he's not autistic?
745
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,520
That's not how
I describe anyone with autism.
746
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:07,120
So, you think he has autism?
747
00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:10,600
Yes.
748
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,080
But the first thing you
have to understand is that autism
749
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:15,640
isn't a single condition
750
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,160
and it's not a disease.
751
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:21,880
It's a set of behaviours that cause
difficulty in social communication.
752
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,160
OK, well, here you are, saying that
autism's hard to pin down
753
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,080
so how can you even say that
it's autism for sure?
754
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,040
I'm afraid it isn't going to go away
if we call it something different.
755
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,280
Doesn't make sense, look.
756
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,760
He scored high
for expressive language.
757
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:56,880
Third percentile.
758
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:01,440
Third percentile means third bottom.
759
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:02,520
Not third top.
760
00:47:04,720 --> 00:47:08,360
It means that 97% of children
his age are better at this than him.
761
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,920
Well, that's Eton down the drain.
762
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,400
That day on the beach, he was two.
763
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,800
Do you remember, he was turning
circles in the sunshine?
764
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,200
You looked at him and you said...
765
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,880
You said to me you thought there
might be something wrong.
766
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,600
And then we got his hearing checked
and we spoke to the nursery.
767
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:31,360
Yeah, but deep down,
what did you think?
768
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,240
What were you afraid it might be?
769
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:35,800
Was it this?
770
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:40,880
It might've been, yeah.
771
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,520
Why the hell didn't you say so?
772
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,520
Because he was a little boy
773
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:48,600
and I didn't want to pin a badge
that big on him.
774
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,000
Let's go. Come on.
775
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,160
Perfect.
776
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,560
You've got hill-soft in London.
777
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:32,920
That's your problem.
778
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,520
Aye, well, that's London for you.
779
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:35,960
The gift that keeps on giving.
780
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:37,280
You need to put it behind you.
781
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,000
Both of you.
782
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:40,880
She's a doctor,
she worked late hours,
783
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,000
she's got involved with a colleague.
It happens.
784
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,360
Do you know what, Dad?
785
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,680
You might be surprised to learn
that owning a box set
786
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:50,640
of Grey's Anatomy does not qualify
you as a relationship counsellor.
787
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,160
Have you heard from Paul or Alison?
788
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,120
Joe had his follow-up
at the hospital today.
789
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,320
I think you might want to stay out
of their business.
790
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,240
Don't be ridiculous,
he's my grandson.
791
00:49:00,240 --> 00:49:01,480
It's my business, too.
792
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:06,040
It must be great being
so certain about everything.
793
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:07,560
Are you saying the boy's normal?
794
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,760
Are you saying there's
nothing wrong with him?
795
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:12,840
Come on!
796
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:31,200
Hi, could you tell Dr Graves
I'm here? He's expecting me.
797
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:32,280
Dr Daniels.
798
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:35,840
Eddie's wife. Right.
You actually came, then.
799
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:37,000
Good for you.
800
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,000
How is Eddie?
801
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,240
He's fine, thank you.
802
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,760
I'm confused -
the job is for a practice nurse.
803
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,520
I was a nurse specialist before
I did my medical degree, so...
804
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,040
I thought...
805
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,120
You'd downsize?
806
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,640
You need to be going for a GP
trainee post, don't you?
807
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,760
But this is just
for maternity cover, right?
808
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:09,840
I need a job.
809
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,840
I don't think it's going to work.
810
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:17,920
What, because I'm overqualified?
811
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,240
Because you're not
the right kind of nurse for us.
812
00:50:20,240 --> 00:50:23,040
It's just a personality thing.
I'm sorry.
813
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,280
What sort of personality thing?
814
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:28,920
You're kind of proving my point.
815
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,240
Hey, Joe?
816
00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:38,440
40 years of the
Buzzcocks and this never gets old.
817
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:41,240
♪ I just want a lover like any other
818
00:50:41,240 --> 00:50:42,440
♪ What do I get? ♪
819
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,320
That's the first thing
that's got to change -
820
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,400
him listening to your music
all the time.
821
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,840
Right, yeah, of course.
822
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:54,640
It's all Buzzcocks' fault, isn't it?
823
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,840
Yep, my dad used to think that too.
824
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,360
He isn't you.
825
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,920
- I get that. - Yeah, so maybe
if he didn't listen to your music
826
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,680
all the time,
he wouldn't be like he is.
827
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,520
"Like he is"?
828
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,080
It's one lousy football party.
829
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:14,040
It's not just one. He never gets
invited. We invite every kid.
830
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,080
We throw everything in there -
party bags, entertainers,
831
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,880
three-tier birthday cakes,
karaoke, games, prizes -
832
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,600
and he doesn't even get invited
back by the kid with the inhaler!
833
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:23,760
You said it.
834
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,640
I was joking.
835
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:27,720
He's five years old
and it's happening already.
836
00:51:27,720 --> 00:51:29,680
And do you know what,
since he started school,
837
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:32,360
the other mums don't even try
and hide it.
838
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,520
Well, it's their loss, isn't it?
839
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,080
That may be so, Paul,
but it's his loss, too.
840
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,240
Where are you going?
841
00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:47,680
To get a picnic of our own.
842
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,440
You never said it were here.
843
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,880
I didn't know. I assumed they were
down at the sports centre.
844
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:09,400
Come on.
845
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:11,080
Hey, hey, where you going?
846
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:12,600
I thought we were having a picnic.
847
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,240
I don't want a picnic.
848
00:52:14,240 --> 00:52:15,880
Course you do.
849
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,760
It's all your favourite foods,
but with rain, wasps and dog poo.
850
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,440
What could be nicer? Come on.
851
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,160
Right, come on, then.
852
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:39,400
Shall we go for an ice cream
after this, eh?
853
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:40,800
Can't we just go home?
854
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:46,040
Look, we can do football, can't we?
855
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,080
Come on, Joe,
let's do football. Come on.
856
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:50,120
That's it!
857
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:53,720
There we go. Now you stand here.
858
00:52:53,720 --> 00:52:54,880
You ready?
859
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:57,840
Kick it.
860
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,040
No, no, no, no. Don't pick it up.
861
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,760
Kick it, OK? Just kick it.
862
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:04,520
There we go. That's it, go on.
863
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:12,800
♪ Angels watching over me
with smiles upon their face
864
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:18,120
♪ Cos I have made it through this
far in an unforgiving place. ♪
865
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,600
Hey! Now put it on the floor
and you kick it.
866
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,000
Just like what the boys
are doing over there.
867
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:26,200
OK? That's it, go on, off you go.
868
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,840
That's it! Good lad and again.
869
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:30,760
Go on, go on and again.
870
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,600
No, you put the ball on the floor.
871
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,320
Just leave it, Paul. Leave him.
872
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,160
Hey, hey, hey, Joe, come here.
873
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:41,240
Joe!
874
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,080
Well, you go, I'm not going.
875
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,200
Joe!
876
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:52,240
Come here.
877
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,040
Joe, come here. Joe.
878
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,160
Hi, Paul. Does Joe want to join in?
879
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,120
He's welcome.
880
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:02,920
Er, do you want to play, Joe?
881
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,400
Do you want to...
Do you want to play?
882
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,720
Yeah? Do you want to play?
Yeah, OK, then.
883
00:54:08,720 --> 00:54:11,880
Here it comes.
There you go, go on! Far post, Joe!
884
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,280
Go on! Far post!
885
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,400
Hey, that's it.
886
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,800
Oh, God, you never lose it, do you?
887
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:19,280
That's it, Joe, go on!
888
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,000
Hey, Joe?
889
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:23,320
Joe.
890
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:25,960
Joe!
891
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,560
Hey, hey, Joe, come here.
892
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:29,640
Joe! Get...
893
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,920
- Joe! - Can we have the ball back,
Joe's Dad? - Joe, just...
894
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,320
What?
895
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:37,800
Here, take it.
896
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:41,200
Joe, look, I'm not going to make you
play football, OK?
897
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,360
Just...
898
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:46,480
Look, Joe...
899
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,320
Now, come on, Joe.
900
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:49,960
Joe, come down, please.
901
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:26,320
Least you've got Rebecca, hey?
902
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,400
- That's something.
- Meaning what?
903
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:31,960
Meaning she's grown-up so you don't
have to worry about her.
904
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:34,560
Are you going to jump down my
throat every time I talk to you?
905
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:37,080
Dad, can you just try
and be a bit more tactful?
906
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,120
- That's all.
- Of course.
907
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:43,760
So...
908
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,400
- is there a cure?
- A cure? It's not a disease.
909
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:48,880
All right. I didn't mean cure.
I'm not up with the jargon.
910
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:52,000
- I'm still getting used to not saying
spastic and mongol. - Oh, my God.
911
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,120
And coloured's still
hanging in there, hey, Dad?
912
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:56,760
We don't even know
if it's the right diagnosis.
913
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,960
Exactly. You might want to take
a second opinion.
914
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,600
You know, he talks, he laughs,
he looks you in the eye,
915
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:04,000
he smiles, how's he autistic?
I don't understand.
916
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:05,440
Right, no-one uses that word,
917
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,360
not in this house
and not outside this house.
918
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:08,800
What if we want to explain?
919
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:10,640
If we label him now, it's over.
920
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,880
I am not having the rest of the town
judging him at five years old
and that's it.
921
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:16,400
That's right, because the rest of
the town hasn't realised
922
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,280
that there might be something
different.
923
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:20,760
That's why he gets
so many party invitations.
924
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:24,680
I don't know anything about this
but don't we need to be honest?
925
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,320
Isn't that the starting point?
926
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,840
You're right, you don't know
anything about it.
927
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,720
Eddie, ketchup.
928
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,320
So, do I get a job
in your gastro-pub?
929
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,680
Short order cook?
930
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:44,200
"At least you have Rebecca."
What was that supposed to mean?
931
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:45,360
I've explained.
932
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,000
She's my daughter, I love her,
933
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,080
but I didn't bring her
into this world,
934
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:51,880
biologically, and Joe is all mine.
935
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:55,760
- So? - So you blame me, don't you,
for your less-than-perfect grandson?
936
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,360
For what? Blame you for what?
937
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,480
Hey, can we eat? He's delirious.
938
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:03,120
I need a name. I need someone who can
give us a second opinion. Heavyweight.
939
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,200
Really?
I'm not sure who I can ask.
940
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:08,320
What about the person that
recommended Dr Eshell
941
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,840
- in the first place? Dad said you
called someone. - I'm sorry,
942
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,400
- I can't do that. - Can't do it?
Why not? Who is it? Wizard of Oz?
943
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,800
- Maurice, I know what you're thinking.
- Take it on the road
944
00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,720
with your mind-reading act. I've no
idea what you're talking about.
945
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:21,360
What's the problem? If your contact
is recommending people,
946
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,120
- then obviously they know what
they're talking about. - I can't...
947
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,520
- do it because it's Michael.
- Michael?
948
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,440
The Michael who I had an affair with.
949
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,560
He's a paediatrician
and he specialises in that area.
950
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,720
Right.
951
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:38,760
Well...
952
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,080
Er...
953
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,880
No, sorry, what's the problem?
954
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:45,880
I can't keep in touch with him.
It'd kill Eddie.
955
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:47,240
It's Joe's future, here.
956
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,680
No, I'm sorry, I can't do it.
957
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,960
- Wouldn't be fair on Eddie.
- What wouldn't be fair on Eddie?
958
00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,040
What wouldn't be fair?
959
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:03,040
♪ World, shut your mouth
Shut your mouth
960
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:06,400
♪ Put your head back in the clouds
and shut your mouth
961
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:10,640
♪ World, shut your mouth
Shut your mouth
962
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:15,560
♪ Put your head back in the clouds
and shut your mouth. ♪
963
00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,320
Home schooling? I'm not meaning to
be offensive but if Joe's
964
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,160
damaged stock already, won't that
make him even more of an oddball?
965
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:22,880
That's you not meaning to be
offensive?
966
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,320
What kind of role models are
in this school? He'll come out
967
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:26,840
more autistic than when he went in.
968
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,560
I thought we weren't using
that word.
969
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:31,200
It is ridiculous that you're
avoiding me like some teenage boy
970
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,680
who's been dumped at a disco.
971
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:34,120
- I will move on.
- There's a list?
972
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,040
- You're very direct.
- And you're very fierce.
973
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,400
It doesn't matter to you
if it's the right decision,
974
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,520
as long as it's your decision.
975
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:41,600
He's Joe,
976
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,400
he's always been Joe.
Why wouldn't we want him to be Joe?
977
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,760
♪ World, shut your mouth
Shut your mouth
978
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,400
♪ Put your head back in the clouds
and shut your mouth
979
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:56,200
♪ World, shut your mouth
Shut your mouth
980
00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:00,400
♪ Put your head back in the clouds
and shut your mouth. ♪