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Jazz: Previously on "I Am Jazz"...

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Sander: I never see
you really hanging out

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with, like, Brooke or Taylor anymore.

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I mean, I do sometimes,

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but we're just not as close anymore.

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Like, you don't care about the drama,

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so when I did have
something important to say,

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I just got used to not telling you.

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Girl: Yeah.

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Your blocker implant has
pretty much run its course.

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The best move here

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would be to do a surgery
to replace the implants.

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It's gonna cost a fortune

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if we have to do the
T-blocker surgery here,

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so I'd rather do it at the
L.A. Children's Hospital.

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There are some risks
to general anesthesia.

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Jeanette: I'm nervous about the
surgery with general anesthesia.

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Every mother's worst fear is like,

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[gasps] "What if they
don't wake up afterwards?"

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- Love you.
- All right, bye.

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- Take good care of her.
- Love you all.

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Jazz: And tonight on "I Am Jazz"...

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Nobody wants to see their child
in a hospital for any reason.

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Sander: Do you think it's been
taking longer than it should?

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I've never seen one
of these get infected,

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but if the skin around it
starts turning really red,

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that would be something that
I would want to know about.

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Let me see your arm. It's
red up there, as well.

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That looks even worse than ever.

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Jeanette: Are we gonna have
to take the implant out?

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Please, please let
that be the last resort.

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Jazz: 15 years ago, I was
assigned male at birth,

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but inside, I always knew I was a girl.

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I have a girl brain and a boy body.

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Being transgender hasn't been easy.

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You already have some breast shape.

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We just have to make it better.

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I get shy talking to gorgeous girls.

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Wait, what?

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But it's made me who I am.

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I am Jazz.

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Synced and corrected by Chitorafa
www.addic7ed.com

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Woman: All right, just gonna give you

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a little bit of oxygen to breathe, okay?

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It smells like grape. [Chuckles]

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Oh, it smells like grape.

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All right, and you'll
start to feel sleepy here

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in just a few seconds, okay?

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Christopher: So, the
procedure we're doing is

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the removal and reinsertion
of a supprelin implant

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on the left-hand side.

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Everyone agrees?

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- Agree.
- Okay.

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I feel, like, terrible right now.

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- Why's that?
- My stomach hurts.

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I am exhausted, and I'm worried,

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and my stomach is in knots.

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This has been extremely hard on me.

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She's my baby.

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Nobody wants to see their child

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in a hospital for any reason.

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And I know this is to help her,

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but it's still... it shouldn't be.

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You know, she should've
been born in the right body.

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And they're a little bit fragile.

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They tend to break off
if you're not careful,

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so I don't want to break it in half.

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I'm trying to be gentle with it.

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Griffen: If something goes wrong,

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we don't have any control over it.

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We can't do anything about it.

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Well, let's hope nothing goes wrong.

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Griffen: I just keep checking the clock,

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checking the door,

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waiting for her to come out,

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because I want to know she's okay.

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These are supposed to
just release and come out,

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but they don't often
release and come out.

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Man: That would be too easy. Right.

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So I have to kind of
take it piece by piece.

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- How long has it been?
- I've been watching the clock.

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I think 20 minutes since we left her.

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Christopher: Okay. All right.

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You think it's been taking
longer than it should?

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Greg: Waiting, you know?

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That's, like, a weird feeling...

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The waiting is the hardest part.

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Waiting for somebody to come
out of the operating room.

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Time is going so slow right now.

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I feel like I've been here
an hour waiting for her.

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I know it hasn't been,

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but I have never felt
time go by this slowly.

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Christopher: So, this has the
implant loaded in it, right?

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- All right, we are done.
- Okay.

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Christopher: Everything went fine.

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The implant broke about
that far from the end,

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but I got both ends out.

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I've never seen one
of these get infected,

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but if the skin around it
starts turning really red,

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that would be something that
I would want to know about.

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You can always take a picture of it

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- and e-mail that to me.
- Oh, okay, great. Great idea.

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That works out pretty well sometimes,

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especially if you're
not just down the road.

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- Right.
- [Chuckles]

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There she is.

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- She's snoring.
- She's totally asleep right now.

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Woman: [Chuckles]

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I don't like seeing her like that.

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Greg: I'd rather not see
my kid like this, you know?

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I know.

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Do you see why I wanted to be here

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- when she was like this.
- Yeah.

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'Cause when she comes out of this,

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she's in a deep state.

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The first person I want her to see

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is her mom and her dad.

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I'll be happy when I see
her awake and smiling.

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I'm hoping that she's not
sad or groggy or nauseous,

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'cause you can feel bad after
you come out of anesthesia,

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so I want her to come out
feeling like, "I'm good."

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- Hi!
- Oh.

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- Hey.
- Good morning.

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Sander: Good morning, sunshine.

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- You're all done.
- Hi, baby.

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You had your surgery.

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Whoa.

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- [Laughter]
- Yeah, it's done.

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You did so good.

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[Speaking indistinctly]

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What?

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[Laughter]

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- What did she say?
- She said, "rur rur rur rur."

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Get this up just a tiny bit.

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Jeanette: Jazz opens her eyes,

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and it's not like...

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It's like...

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- Whoa!
- And then when she speaks,

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it's, like, in tongue or something.

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- How you doing, baby?
- How do you feel?

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What happened?

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You had your surgery, baby.

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You're done.

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- I'm gonna lift your head up.
- You're all done.

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Sander: Look, you got a heart.

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So, they put some numbing
medicine here, too, okay?

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- So...
- Oh, it's a heart.

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[Laughter]

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Like, "okay, she's awake,

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she's acting weird, but Jazz is weird."

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Are you uncomfortable?

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I have a boner.

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- [Gasps]
- [Laughter]

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I'm sorry. [Laughs]

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Did you hear what she said?

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I sometimes forget that
she has that down there.

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Jazz: Is that bad?

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Yeah, you're filming,
baby. You're being filmed.

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- Oh.
- [Laughter]

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Jeanette: I did not see this coming,

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but she's awake, and she's laughing,

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and it's good.

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I love you so much. I
was worried about you.

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- I was really worried.
- Why?

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'Cause I felt like it was taking longer,

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and I didn't get to see you,

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and then when you're laying
here with the mask on,

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- I don't like that.
- I'm doing great.

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You shouldn't be worried, Mom.

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I was very worried.

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But I'm okay now.

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Love you.

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I love you, too.

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Jazz: She is my mom,

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so it's kind of like she's overreacting,

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but it's okay, 'cause
I do understand it.

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She's nervous about me,
and that's a good thing,

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but hopefully, she'll realize
that everything went well

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and that there was no
reason to get upset.

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Woman: Up you go.

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- I know, I know.
- Sander: Why?

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I don't...

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I know. I said it.

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- Did you see that?
- She knows.

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I do not understand that at all.

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It's okay.

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Jeanette: When I see that Jazz

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is listed as a male on her wristband,

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it has my blood boiling.

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But this hospital has gone
above and beyond for us,

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and the doctors are so sweet,

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and I don't want to make a big stink.

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I personally wasn't upset about it,

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but I imagine other kids out there

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who are just transitioning
would be super-upset

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to see the wrong gender
on their bracelet,

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and I could see how really
disappointing that is.

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To the left, yeah.

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♪ To the left, to the left ♪

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Jeanette: Parents that don't
have a transgender child

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have no idea the things
that we go through.

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Jazz makes it look
sometimes easier than it is,

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but it's hard.

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But we make the best of it.

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You know, we try to turn
it into something good

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even though it's a difficult situation.

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Sander: ♪ Uh bum-bum-bum-bum,
bum-bum-bum-bum ♪

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- Oh, shoot! It's chilly.
- I like it.

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Greg: This is not Florida weather.

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- You got it, Jazz?
- Jazz: Yep.

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Jeanette: Thank you so
much. We appreciate it.

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♪♪

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- Knock knock.
- <i>Hola.</i>

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So, what are you doing now?

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Taking my driver's test.

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No-o-o.

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You're doing something
I asked you to do.

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That noise, though. You were like, "no!"

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How are you feeling?

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Look at my arm.

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[Gasps]

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What's up with that? That's nasty.

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Looks like poison ivy.

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Take the band-aid off.

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Ugh.

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That's not supposed to happen.

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Oh, my god.

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Jeanette: I am
super-nervous about the DMV,

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'cause you do read things in the news

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about people getting denied
the right gender marker.

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This is a letter from her doctor

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stating that she is transgender.

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That's gross.

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No, no, no, no!

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Does it hurt? Oh.

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No, it doesn't hurt. It's just itchy.

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Jazz shows me that she
has a rash on her arm

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around where the testosterone
blocker was replaced.

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I want to take a picture
and send it to the doctor.

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Why are we having a rash?

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Because the doctors in L.A. were like,

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"oh, this never happens."

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I've never seen one
of these get infected,

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but if the skin around it
starts turning really red,

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that would be something that
I would want to know about.

257
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"Please see Jazz's rash."

258
00:09:12,605 --> 00:09:13,437
Okay.

259
00:09:13,439 --> 00:09:14,660
What is causing this?

260
00:09:14,685 --> 00:09:15,706
Is it gonna get worse?

261
00:09:15,708 --> 00:09:17,408
How much is this thing gonna spread?

262
00:09:17,410 --> 00:09:20,444
'Cause it's already way past
where the incision site is.

263
00:09:21,547 --> 00:09:24,113
I really need to
finish my driver's test.

264
00:09:24,115 --> 00:09:25,415
Okay. So, after this,

265
00:09:25,417 --> 00:09:26,816
you know what the next step is.

266
00:09:26,818 --> 00:09:28,752
- What?
- You need a doctor's note

267
00:09:28,754 --> 00:09:30,278
when we go down to the DMV,

268
00:09:30,303 --> 00:09:31,220
because otherwise,

269
00:09:31,222 --> 00:09:34,257
they're gonna put "M" on your license

270
00:09:34,259 --> 00:09:36,325
'cause your birth certificate says "M."

271
00:09:36,327 --> 00:09:39,795
Did you notice in the
hospital what they did?

272
00:09:39,797 --> 00:09:41,309
Yeah, they put "male."

273
00:09:41,334 --> 00:09:42,464
The right gender marker

274
00:09:42,466 --> 00:09:46,067
to represent who she is on a
legal document is so important,

275
00:09:46,069 --> 00:09:48,236
because, like, what
if she didn't have it

276
00:09:48,238 --> 00:09:50,272
and she got pulled over by police

277
00:09:50,274 --> 00:09:52,084
and they looked at it and were like,

278
00:09:52,109 --> 00:09:53,742
"huh? You're a male?"

279
00:09:53,744 --> 00:09:55,511
It could get ugly.

280
00:09:55,513 --> 00:09:56,511
You know, it's really important for you

281
00:09:56,513 --> 00:09:58,145
to get that "F" on your license.

282
00:09:58,147 --> 00:09:59,847
You know how important a license is?

283
00:09:59,849 --> 00:10:01,395
Even if it says "M," it's just a letter,

284
00:10:01,420 --> 00:10:02,528
and we know that doesn't

285
00:10:02,553 --> 00:10:04,719
define me type of thing, you know.

286
00:10:04,721 --> 00:10:06,271
Yes, I am biologically male,

287
00:10:06,296 --> 00:10:08,222
but my chromosomes don't define me.

288
00:10:08,224 --> 00:10:11,191
They don't think. I think
right here and right here.

289
00:10:11,193 --> 00:10:12,560
And I know I'm a female,

290
00:10:12,562 --> 00:10:14,127
and no one can tell me otherwise.

291
00:10:14,129 --> 00:10:15,995
Look, we live in an "M" or "F" world,

292
00:10:15,997 --> 00:10:17,431
- unfortunately.
- Yeah.

293
00:10:17,433 --> 00:10:18,398
And for the rest of your life,

294
00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,099
people are going to look at that,

295
00:10:20,101 --> 00:10:21,965
and they're going to see you.

296
00:10:22,337 --> 00:10:24,003
I'm definitely a little worried

297
00:10:24,005 --> 00:10:26,068
that this is not gonna go smoothly.

298
00:10:26,909 --> 00:10:28,041
All right, I'll let you finish,

299
00:10:28,043 --> 00:10:29,529
but keep an eye on the rash.

300
00:10:29,554 --> 00:10:32,106
- Okay.
- Ugh. It's oozing.

301
00:10:32,246 --> 00:10:34,847
- Does it look bad?
- It looks terrible.

302
00:10:36,751 --> 00:10:40,120
♪♪

303
00:10:45,059 --> 00:10:46,625
Amy: I've always wanted to do this.

304
00:10:46,627 --> 00:10:47,992
- I really have.
- Just quit your job

305
00:10:47,994 --> 00:10:49,193
and hang out with me all day,

306
00:10:49,195 --> 00:10:50,895
- and, you know, we'll do this.
- Okay.

307
00:10:50,897 --> 00:10:52,330
Because this is what
we're supposed to do now...

308
00:10:52,332 --> 00:10:55,099
- That sounds good.
- That we're in our<i> 50s.</i>

309
00:10:55,576 --> 00:10:56,935
Are you in your 50s?

310
00:10:56,937 --> 00:10:59,036
- I'm going to be.
- I know.

311
00:10:59,038 --> 00:11:00,785
Jeanette: After all the stress of L.A.

312
00:11:00,810 --> 00:11:03,508
and Jazz's surgery and the rash...

313
00:11:03,510 --> 00:11:04,342
- Cheers.
- [Glasses clink]

314
00:11:04,344 --> 00:11:05,943
I'm going out with Amy

315
00:11:05,945 --> 00:11:08,912
for some painting and bottle of wine.

316
00:11:08,914 --> 00:11:11,181
I met Amy when our kids were babies,

317
00:11:11,183 --> 00:11:14,217
and her kids are in college,
so that's like 20 years.

318
00:11:14,219 --> 00:11:16,723
And I still love her just as much now

319
00:11:16,748 --> 00:11:18,221
as I did back then.

320
00:11:18,223 --> 00:11:20,056
We're empty-nesters.

321
00:11:20,058 --> 00:11:21,424
I need a drink.

322
00:11:21,426 --> 00:11:22,725
- I'll join you.
- Cheers.

323
00:11:22,727 --> 00:11:23,693
- Cheers.
- Just thinking about it

324
00:11:23,695 --> 00:11:25,260
- gets me really sad.
- Oh, honey.

325
00:11:25,262 --> 00:11:26,428
Mm-hmm.

326
00:11:26,430 --> 00:11:27,597
My kids are my world.

327
00:11:27,599 --> 00:11:28,490
They're my life.

328
00:11:28,515 --> 00:11:31,377
So them being taken
away to go to college,

329
00:11:31,402 --> 00:11:33,302
which is an important thing,

330
00:11:33,304 --> 00:11:36,405
I don't handle it as well
as some other people might.

331
00:11:36,407 --> 00:11:38,540
I'm not getting my kids back. That's it.

332
00:11:38,542 --> 00:11:40,274
Childhood's over, done.

333
00:11:40,276 --> 00:11:41,442
But you still have Jazz at home,

334
00:11:41,444 --> 00:11:43,211
and you're so busy with Jazz.

335
00:11:43,213 --> 00:11:44,278
I would like to do more things,

336
00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,681
like, with her and the trans population.

337
00:11:46,683 --> 00:11:48,617
Well, I want to tell
you this crazy story.

338
00:11:48,619 --> 00:11:51,219
My friend's kid at his high school,

339
00:11:51,221 --> 00:11:53,842
so many kids have been
coming out as trans.

340
00:11:53,867 --> 00:11:57,514
Like 10, maybe 12... at one high school.

341
00:11:57,727 --> 00:12:00,027
Somewhere in this quadrant of the world?

342
00:12:00,029 --> 00:12:01,014
- Really?
- Yeah, yeah.

343
00:12:01,039 --> 00:12:02,740
'Cause in Jazz's high
school, there's Jazz.

344
00:12:02,765 --> 00:12:03,864
- Yay!
- I know.

345
00:12:03,866 --> 00:12:06,333
I feel like there's
nobody else existing.

346
00:12:06,335 --> 00:12:10,738
My friend told me that the
kids would love to meet Jazz.

347
00:12:10,740 --> 00:12:12,239
I'd like her to meet other kids,

348
00:12:12,241 --> 00:12:14,407
especially ones she could
have, like, a social life with.

349
00:12:14,409 --> 00:12:16,576
Her social life is just pbht.

350
00:12:16,578 --> 00:12:17,810
Since Jazz started high school,

351
00:12:17,812 --> 00:12:19,979
she's been a little more withdrawn.

352
00:12:19,981 --> 00:12:21,581
She's been hanging out less and less

353
00:12:21,583 --> 00:12:24,216
with her old friends from middle
school, and it concerns me,

354
00:12:24,218 --> 00:12:27,386
because Jazz is not really
great about making new friends.

355
00:12:27,388 --> 00:12:29,055
Maybe she'd have a bunch of new friends.

356
00:12:29,057 --> 00:12:29,922
You got to talk to your
friend and see what...

357
00:12:29,924 --> 00:12:30,856
- I will, I will.
- Yeah.

358
00:12:30,858 --> 00:12:32,024
Let's see what we can work out.

359
00:12:32,026 --> 00:12:33,158
Yeah.

360
00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,726
I'm definitely gonna
try to influence her.

361
00:12:34,728 --> 00:12:37,930
Jeanette: Unfortunately, getting
her to go out and meet people,

362
00:12:37,932 --> 00:12:39,397
it's not an easy process,

363
00:12:39,399 --> 00:12:41,066
and I'm gonna have to
convince her to do this

364
00:12:41,068 --> 00:12:43,168
even if I know she
doesn't want to do it.

365
00:12:43,170 --> 00:12:44,903
I hope she really wants to meet.

366
00:12:44,905 --> 00:12:46,804
I'm gonna tell her she has no choice.

367
00:12:48,879 --> 00:12:56,651
♪♪

368
00:12:56,749 --> 00:12:59,149
[Computer ringing]

369
00:13:01,621 --> 00:13:03,598
- Hey.
- Hello.

370
00:13:03,623 --> 00:13:05,552
- Hello.
- What's up?

371
00:13:05,577 --> 00:13:07,107
I'm coming home for the weekend.

372
00:13:07,132 --> 00:13:08,232
Yay.

373
00:13:08,241 --> 00:13:10,389
To see how you're doing after surgery.

374
00:13:10,397 --> 00:13:11,462
How did it go?

375
00:13:11,487 --> 00:13:13,395
Uh, it went okay.

376
00:13:13,420 --> 00:13:14,720
I don't know if anyone told you,

377
00:13:14,722 --> 00:13:17,789
but I got a really, really
bad rash from the procedure.

378
00:13:17,791 --> 00:13:19,091
- That's not good.
- Yeah.

379
00:13:19,093 --> 00:13:20,787
It's red, it's itchy, it's annoying.

380
00:13:20,812 --> 00:13:22,136
That doesn't sound fun at all.

381
00:13:22,161 --> 00:13:24,628
- Yeah.
- So, how's everything else?

382
00:13:24,630 --> 00:13:26,330
School is okay.

383
00:13:26,332 --> 00:13:28,599
I mean, I'm just trying
to get through it all.

384
00:13:28,601 --> 00:13:30,367
You know how school is, always...

385
00:13:30,369 --> 00:13:32,336
Yeah, I know you don't
like it very much.

386
00:13:32,338 --> 00:13:33,170
I know, yeah.

387
00:13:33,172 --> 00:13:34,304
I kind of don't talk to

388
00:13:34,306 --> 00:13:36,340
my core group of friends anymore.

389
00:13:36,646 --> 00:13:38,826
Why haven't you been
talking to your friends?

390
00:13:38,851 --> 00:13:40,595
Like, what's going on with that?

391
00:13:40,847 --> 00:13:43,739
Um, well, we've kind
of just drifted apart.

392
00:13:43,764 --> 00:13:45,263
You know, they have other things to do.

393
00:13:45,265 --> 00:13:46,451
I have things to do.

394
00:13:46,476 --> 00:13:48,544
And now I'm just doing my own thing,

395
00:13:48,569 --> 00:13:50,402
and that's cool, too.

396
00:13:50,404 --> 00:13:52,437
The truth is, during my depression,

397
00:13:52,439 --> 00:13:53,839
my friends would try to talk to me,

398
00:13:53,841 --> 00:13:56,529
and I would ignore them altogether,

399
00:13:56,554 --> 00:13:58,254
and it was hard for them.

400
00:13:58,612 --> 00:14:00,411
We've been trying to reconnect,

401
00:14:00,413 --> 00:14:02,246
but we have different schedules,

402
00:14:02,248 --> 00:14:04,082
so I think we're
definitely drifting apart,

403
00:14:04,084 --> 00:14:05,249
and that's okay.

404
00:14:05,251 --> 00:14:07,310
It happens with all relationships.

405
00:14:07,335 --> 00:14:08,521
I don't like that.

406
00:14:08,822 --> 00:14:11,522
- I'm fine.
- You're really introverted.

407
00:14:11,524 --> 00:14:13,590
I wouldn't consider myself introverted.

408
00:14:13,592 --> 00:14:16,897
I'm just not socialable.

409
00:14:16,922 --> 00:14:19,030
- [Chuckles]
- You know what I mean?

410
00:14:19,031 --> 00:14:21,396
I don't like to socialize that much.

411
00:14:21,421 --> 00:14:23,777
I would say that I am very outgoing.

412
00:14:23,802 --> 00:14:25,936
It's just that I don't like socializing.

413
00:14:25,938 --> 00:14:27,570
It's not that I feel uncomfortable

414
00:14:27,572 --> 00:14:28,804
or weird or anything.

415
00:14:28,806 --> 00:14:31,173
I just prefer hanging out
with myself in my room,

416
00:14:31,175 --> 00:14:33,142
watching TV, and that's my thing.

417
00:14:33,144 --> 00:14:34,510
But definitely try to see

418
00:14:34,512 --> 00:14:36,946
if there's any other nice
people at your school.

419
00:14:37,678 --> 00:14:38,881
I don't know.

420
00:14:38,883 --> 00:14:41,416
Ari: Jazz has suffered
with depression, basically,

421
00:14:41,418 --> 00:14:42,918
like, ever since she could talk,

422
00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,854
just 'cause she was
always in the wrong body.

423
00:14:45,856 --> 00:14:47,588
So it really upsets me when Jazz says

424
00:14:47,590 --> 00:14:49,924
that she doesn't really have
that many friends anymore,

425
00:14:49,926 --> 00:14:52,093
because I think it's really important...

426
00:14:52,095 --> 00:14:53,427
her being transgender, too...

427
00:14:53,429 --> 00:14:56,297
just to have support and
friends there for you.

428
00:14:56,299 --> 00:14:57,086
So I don't know.

429
00:14:57,111 --> 00:14:59,514
It concerns me kind of a lot,

430
00:14:59,539 --> 00:15:01,364
because it just makes
me think she's not okay.

431
00:15:01,389 --> 00:15:02,403
I love you.

432
00:15:02,405 --> 00:15:05,939
- Love you, too. Bye.
- Bye.

433
00:15:05,941 --> 00:15:07,779
[Computer beeps]

434
00:15:08,744 --> 00:15:11,879
♪♪

435
00:15:14,750 --> 00:15:16,817
Jeanette: You ready? Get your glasses.

436
00:15:16,819 --> 00:15:18,218
Jazz: Yeah.

437
00:15:18,220 --> 00:15:19,428
Wait up for me.

438
00:15:19,988 --> 00:15:21,320
What do you mean? I'm walking slow.

439
00:15:21,322 --> 00:15:22,765
You're going so fast.

440
00:15:26,260 --> 00:15:27,426
Okay. Come sit over here.

441
00:15:27,428 --> 00:15:28,527
I am a little bit nervous,

442
00:15:28,529 --> 00:15:30,029
because I want to make sure

443
00:15:30,031 --> 00:15:34,667
that I have my female
pronoun on the permit.

444
00:15:34,669 --> 00:15:36,635
Deep inside, I know that a letter

445
00:15:36,637 --> 00:15:38,737
doesn't really say who I am,

446
00:15:38,739 --> 00:15:40,715
but it's still important to me.

447
00:15:40,833 --> 00:15:42,928
- Nervous?
- You're nervous.

448
00:15:42,953 --> 00:15:44,452
I know. I just...

449
00:15:44,477 --> 00:15:48,013
- I see you. You're tense.
- [Chuckles]

450
00:15:48,015 --> 00:15:49,815
Jeanette: Having that female permit

451
00:15:49,817 --> 00:15:52,317
shows the world that she's female,

452
00:15:52,319 --> 00:15:53,618
so if anything happens,

453
00:15:53,620 --> 00:15:56,187
like, in the airport
and places like that,

454
00:15:56,189 --> 00:15:57,521
she'll be covered.

455
00:15:57,523 --> 00:16:00,490
Are you glad that soon I'll be driving

456
00:16:00,492 --> 00:16:02,593
and then you won't have to
drive me around everywhere?

457
00:16:02,595 --> 00:16:04,328
Yes, I'm excited for that.

458
00:16:04,330 --> 00:16:05,429
And I'm just...

459
00:16:05,431 --> 00:16:07,599
I can't believe that this day is here.

460
00:16:07,624 --> 00:16:10,000
[Chuckles] You're like a little kid.

461
00:16:10,002 --> 00:16:11,167
Jeanette: The biggest challenge is

462
00:16:11,169 --> 00:16:12,902
that they require all
this documentation,

463
00:16:12,904 --> 00:16:15,304
and I'm always afraid
it's not good enough.

464
00:16:15,306 --> 00:16:17,573
My worst fear is knowing that
I can end up with somebody

465
00:16:17,575 --> 00:16:20,551
that doesn't really understand
what we're trying to do and why

466
00:16:20,576 --> 00:16:21,465
and question it,

467
00:16:21,490 --> 00:16:22,812
'cause you do read things in the news

468
00:16:22,814 --> 00:16:25,248
about people getting denied
the right gender marker

469
00:16:25,250 --> 00:16:26,582
'cause they didn't look right.

470
00:16:26,584 --> 00:16:29,417
Woman: <i>Jaron Jennings,
station number 21.</i>

471
00:16:29,419 --> 00:16:31,754
That's you. Let's go.

472
00:16:31,756 --> 00:16:33,188
Jazz: Jaron is my legal name.

473
00:16:33,190 --> 00:16:35,084
It's on my birth certificate.

474
00:16:35,109 --> 00:16:37,826
I definitely prefer the
name Jazz from Jaron,

475
00:16:37,828 --> 00:16:40,262
but I feel like it's more
important to get my name changed

476
00:16:40,264 --> 00:16:42,765
when I get my actual driver's license.

477
00:16:42,767 --> 00:16:44,066
- Hello.
- Woman: Hi. Good morning.

478
00:16:44,068 --> 00:16:45,633
- How are you?
- Good morning. Good.

479
00:16:45,635 --> 00:16:47,368
You're coming here to do
your permit today, correct?

480
00:16:47,370 --> 00:16:48,202
- Yes.
- Okay.

481
00:16:48,204 --> 00:16:49,435
You have all your documents?

482
00:16:49,460 --> 00:16:51,239
I have that and then some.

483
00:16:51,241 --> 00:16:52,240
- Okay.
- Okay.

484
00:16:52,242 --> 00:16:53,975
This is a letter from her doctor

485
00:16:53,977 --> 00:16:56,110
stating that she is transgender.

486
00:16:56,112 --> 00:16:57,178
Okay.

487
00:16:57,180 --> 00:16:59,013
So I just want to make sure

488
00:16:59,038 --> 00:17:01,715
the gender will be "F" on her permit.

489
00:17:01,740 --> 00:17:06,352
♪♪

490
00:17:06,354 --> 00:17:07,453
Look at my arm.

491
00:17:07,455 --> 00:17:08,721
What's all that?

492
00:17:08,723 --> 00:17:09,689
It spread up there, as well.

493
00:17:09,691 --> 00:17:10,824
That looks even worse than ever.

494
00:17:10,826 --> 00:17:11,892
Oh, my god.

495
00:17:11,894 --> 00:17:13,526
What if we have to take the implant out?

496
00:17:13,528 --> 00:17:15,381
The implications of that are terrible.

497
00:17:18,787 --> 00:17:20,553
This is a letter from her doctor

498
00:17:20,555 --> 00:17:23,023
stating that she is transgender.

499
00:17:23,025 --> 00:17:23,795
Okay.

500
00:17:23,820 --> 00:17:25,629
So I just want to make sure

501
00:17:25,654 --> 00:17:28,228
the gender will be "F" on her permit.

502
00:17:33,701 --> 00:17:36,768
Woman: [Humming]

503
00:17:36,770 --> 00:17:38,070
Yes, it will be.

504
00:17:39,673 --> 00:17:41,073
[Chuckles] I'm just like...

505
00:17:42,009 --> 00:17:43,642
Jazz: The "F" is on my driver's permit.

506
00:17:43,644 --> 00:17:45,377
I'm super-happy about that.

507
00:17:45,379 --> 00:17:47,246
'Cause obviously I'm a girl inside

508
00:17:47,248 --> 00:17:49,114
and almost completely out.

509
00:17:49,116 --> 00:17:50,418
- I'm gonna take your picture.
- Okay.

510
00:17:50,443 --> 00:17:51,115
You ready?

511
00:17:51,140 --> 00:17:53,885
Jazz: I wasn't in a super-big
rush to get my permit.

512
00:17:53,887 --> 00:17:55,386
I kind of like getting
chauffeured around.

513
00:17:55,388 --> 00:17:57,989
I like my mom driving
me from here to there.

514
00:17:57,991 --> 00:17:59,324
Perfect.

515
00:17:59,326 --> 00:18:02,861
But now that I have it, it feels great.

516
00:18:02,863 --> 00:18:05,830
It's beautiful. Thank you.

517
00:18:05,832 --> 00:18:07,097
Congratulations.

518
00:18:07,099 --> 00:18:08,670
Let me take a picture of you with it.

519
00:18:08,695 --> 00:18:09,592
Smile.

520
00:18:10,135 --> 00:18:12,502
You're all grown up. [Chuckles]

521
00:18:12,504 --> 00:18:15,105
Jeanette: Even though I've been
pushing her to get her permit,

522
00:18:15,107 --> 00:18:16,974
I'm not ready. Nope.

523
00:18:16,976 --> 00:18:18,141
Woman: Have a good day at school.

524
00:18:18,143 --> 00:18:19,910
- Thank you, thank you.
- You're welcome.

525
00:18:19,912 --> 00:18:21,398
All right, that's it.

526
00:18:21,578 --> 00:18:23,144
My baby.

527
00:18:23,435 --> 00:18:26,335
♪♪

528
00:18:29,295 --> 00:18:30,560
Greg: What I want to do is,

529
00:18:30,562 --> 00:18:33,130
I want to take
everything, get rid of it.

530
00:18:33,132 --> 00:18:34,519
Let's try to sell it.

531
00:18:35,134 --> 00:18:36,500
Greg: I want to have a garage sale,

532
00:18:36,502 --> 00:18:38,169
because the twins are
going off to college,

533
00:18:38,171 --> 00:18:40,973
and it's finally time that
we get rid of this clutter.

534
00:18:40,998 --> 00:18:42,251
Sander: We have hockey sticks?

535
00:18:42,276 --> 00:18:43,375
Why did we buy new weights, huh?

536
00:18:43,377 --> 00:18:44,376
These are fine.

537
00:18:44,378 --> 00:18:46,188
How are we gonna clean this all out?

538
00:18:46,213 --> 00:18:48,023
Oh, god. This hurts.

539
00:18:48,048 --> 00:18:49,817
Nobody's touching my dead football, man.

540
00:18:49,842 --> 00:18:50,974
Greg: If it's pretty good stuff,

541
00:18:50,976 --> 00:18:52,976
but it didn't have
any sentimental value,

542
00:18:52,978 --> 00:18:54,512
we go and sell it.

543
00:18:54,514 --> 00:18:55,446
Greg: Are you ever
gonna use these again?

544
00:18:55,448 --> 00:18:56,647
Jeanette: What are you guys doing?

545
00:18:56,649 --> 00:18:57,904
You know you can't come in the garage

546
00:18:57,929 --> 00:18:59,849
and take stuff without asking me.

547
00:19:00,225 --> 00:19:02,858
Jeanette has a difficult time

548
00:19:02,860 --> 00:19:04,693
parting ways with things that...

549
00:19:04,695 --> 00:19:05,628
I'm nostalgic.

550
00:19:05,630 --> 00:19:06,929
we have around the house.

551
00:19:06,931 --> 00:19:09,065
Wait, wait, wait, wait,
wait, wait, wait, wait.

552
00:19:09,067 --> 00:19:11,867
This is the purse I
used for the prom, guys.

553
00:19:11,869 --> 00:19:13,069
What's over there?

554
00:19:13,071 --> 00:19:14,237
Greg: I don't think there's anything

555
00:19:14,239 --> 00:19:15,370
of major significance in there.

556
00:19:15,372 --> 00:19:16,438
Looks like materials.

557
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,806
Yeah, this is of major significance.

558
00:19:18,808 --> 00:19:19,674
Don't you remember this?

559
00:19:19,676 --> 00:19:21,543
- We should sell it.
- No.

560
00:19:21,545 --> 00:19:23,045
Jazz used to wear this all the time

561
00:19:23,047 --> 00:19:24,464
before she transitioned.

562
00:19:24,881 --> 00:19:26,281
This was a big thing.

563
00:19:26,283 --> 00:19:28,250
I don't want to get rid
of all your old costumes.

564
00:19:28,252 --> 00:19:29,920
They mean something to me.

565
00:19:29,945 --> 00:19:31,303
I want to be able to say

566
00:19:31,328 --> 00:19:33,099
what we can get rid
of and what we can't.

567
00:19:33,423 --> 00:19:35,156
My mom is kind of a hoarder.

568
00:19:35,158 --> 00:19:36,123
Like, it's the truth.

569
00:19:36,125 --> 00:19:37,525
She has a very hard time

570
00:19:37,527 --> 00:19:40,027
letting her sentimental objects go away.

571
00:19:40,029 --> 00:19:41,285
This is your Santa Claus costume.

572
00:19:41,310 --> 00:19:42,696
You're not gonna throw that out.

573
00:19:42,698 --> 00:19:45,499
And she doesn't realize that
a shoe with a stain on it

574
00:19:45,501 --> 00:19:47,868
that I wore when I was
3 years old is garbage,

575
00:19:47,870 --> 00:19:50,006
and it's not something you put in a case

576
00:19:50,031 --> 00:19:52,038
and stare at like at
a museum or whatever,

577
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:55,007
but she seems to think that,
so I don't really understand.

578
00:19:55,009 --> 00:19:57,877
So, I went the other night out with Amy.

579
00:19:57,879 --> 00:19:59,412
We went and painted,

580
00:19:59,414 --> 00:20:02,248
and she says she knows
about this one school

581
00:20:02,250 --> 00:20:04,884
where there's transgender kids...

582
00:20:04,886 --> 00:20:05,885
a whole bunch.

583
00:20:05,887 --> 00:20:07,119
There's transgender kids where?

584
00:20:07,121 --> 00:20:09,020
- Like, in one school.
- How many?

585
00:20:09,022 --> 00:20:11,182
12, 13, 14...

586
00:20:11,825 --> 00:20:13,525
When my mom tells me that there are

587
00:20:13,527 --> 00:20:15,327
12 transgender kids at this one school,

588
00:20:15,329 --> 00:20:16,661
I am pretty surprised,

589
00:20:16,663 --> 00:20:18,763
because I'm the only
transgender kid at my school...

590
00:20:18,765 --> 00:20:19,698
that I know of...

591
00:20:19,700 --> 00:20:21,967
and the fact that all of these kids

592
00:20:21,969 --> 00:20:24,735
are stepping out of the
shadows and being themselves,

593
00:20:24,737 --> 00:20:25,970
it's just really cool.

594
00:20:25,972 --> 00:20:27,037
She said that these kids

595
00:20:27,039 --> 00:20:28,739
would be interested in meeting you.

596
00:20:28,741 --> 00:20:30,975
Why would they want to meet me?

597
00:20:30,977 --> 00:20:32,410
'Cause they've heard about you,

598
00:20:32,412 --> 00:20:33,411
and you're a pretty cool kid,

599
00:20:33,413 --> 00:20:35,146
and you're inspirational.

600
00:20:35,148 --> 00:20:37,035
And you could use some more friends.

601
00:20:37,783 --> 00:20:40,517
I know that my mom is
super-concerned about me

602
00:20:40,519 --> 00:20:42,051
'cause I have no friends at school.

603
00:20:44,623 --> 00:20:47,124
During lunchtime, I
eat in the bathrooms.

604
00:20:47,126 --> 00:20:49,984
I don't like being in
social situations that much.

605
00:20:50,695 --> 00:20:53,363
Wouldn't you like to meet some
kids that can relate to you?

606
00:20:53,365 --> 00:20:54,564
Where would I meet them?

607
00:20:54,566 --> 00:20:56,032
They have GSA meetings.

608
00:20:56,034 --> 00:20:56,933
But they go to a different school.

609
00:20:56,935 --> 00:20:58,167
I don't go to their school.

610
00:20:58,169 --> 00:20:59,735
You can go to a GSA meeting

611
00:20:59,737 --> 00:21:00,969
at a different school.

612
00:21:00,971 --> 00:21:03,172
GSA stands for Gay-Straight Alliance,

613
00:21:03,174 --> 00:21:05,073
and they typically meet after school.

614
00:21:05,075 --> 00:21:06,342
They talk about issues.

615
00:21:06,344 --> 00:21:08,177
Some of them are support
groups for each other.

616
00:21:08,179 --> 00:21:09,745
You can form relationships with people

617
00:21:09,747 --> 00:21:12,553
that kind of can relate to
what you're going through.

618
00:21:12,850 --> 00:21:14,482
'Cause sometimes... I
know your friends now,

619
00:21:14,484 --> 00:21:16,482
- they don't quite get it.
- Yeah.

620
00:21:17,053 --> 00:21:18,953
It's not easy for Jazz to make friends.

621
00:21:18,955 --> 00:21:21,756
It's really not because
Jazz is transgender.

622
00:21:21,758 --> 00:21:23,824
Jazz is just very unique in her own way,

623
00:21:23,826 --> 00:21:25,627
and I don't think her peers get her.

624
00:21:25,629 --> 00:21:28,163
I think the fact that
she's had depression

625
00:21:28,165 --> 00:21:29,597
scares them off.

626
00:21:29,599 --> 00:21:31,798
I really just want
her to be more social.

627
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,301
I want her to experience teenagehood

628
00:21:34,303 --> 00:21:36,470
and not in her bedroom alone.

629
00:21:36,472 --> 00:21:37,837
So, are they just gonna talk to me,

630
00:21:37,839 --> 00:21:39,206
or is it gonna be like
a meeting, not about me?

631
00:21:39,208 --> 00:21:40,607
I'm not sure how it's gonna be.

632
00:21:40,609 --> 00:21:43,009
But, you know, a lot of
people are inspired by you.

633
00:21:43,011 --> 00:21:45,379
I just don't want it to
be too awkward or anything.

634
00:21:45,381 --> 00:21:46,846
Jazz: I do like sharing my story

635
00:21:46,848 --> 00:21:48,648
and help other kids who are like me,

636
00:21:48,650 --> 00:21:51,784
but I know her main motive
is for me to make new friends.

637
00:21:51,786 --> 00:21:54,049
And I feel super-awkward
with big groups of people.

638
00:21:54,689 --> 00:21:56,556
I think it'll be good for you.

639
00:21:58,469 --> 00:22:01,504
♪♪

640
00:22:10,337 --> 00:22:12,304
Mom, look at my arm.

641
00:22:13,173 --> 00:22:14,506
Look, it got all flaky.

642
00:22:15,509 --> 00:22:17,175
- This looks like mosquito bites.
- I know.

643
00:22:17,177 --> 00:22:18,776
This one part looks like poison ivy.

644
00:22:18,778 --> 00:22:20,178
Jazz: It's been a long day,

645
00:22:20,180 --> 00:22:21,979
and the rash has gotten worse.

646
00:22:21,981 --> 00:22:23,914
What's this over here? What's all that?

647
00:22:23,916 --> 00:22:25,364
It spread up there, as well.

648
00:22:25,389 --> 00:22:27,017
That looks even worse than ever.

649
00:22:27,019 --> 00:22:29,620
The rash is really kind
of disturbing to look at.

650
00:22:29,622 --> 00:22:32,289
It looks like a giant
swarm of bees attacked me,

651
00:22:32,291 --> 00:22:33,957
and it's really disgusting.

652
00:22:33,959 --> 00:22:35,359
I'm concerned that your body's

653
00:22:35,361 --> 00:22:37,256
having some kind of
reaction to the implant.

654
00:22:37,796 --> 00:22:39,462
We thought at first it was
the little bandage thing.

655
00:22:39,464 --> 00:22:40,496
- Yeah.
- But it's not that.

656
00:22:40,498 --> 00:22:41,698
How do we know it's not that?

657
00:22:41,700 --> 00:22:42,565
Give me your arm.

658
00:22:43,401 --> 00:22:45,114
- Was the band-aid here?
- No.

659
00:22:45,139 --> 00:22:45,968
Jeanette: Oh, my god.

660
00:22:45,970 --> 00:22:47,637
What if we have to take the implant out?

661
00:22:47,639 --> 00:22:49,405
The implications of that are terrible.

662
00:22:49,407 --> 00:22:50,973
She'll start going through male puberty.

663
00:22:50,975 --> 00:22:53,276
They have to put her
on a lot more estrogen

664
00:22:53,278 --> 00:22:55,378
if we have to rip it out of her arm.

665
00:22:55,380 --> 00:22:56,545
I am just, like, praying,

666
00:22:56,547 --> 00:22:58,827
"please, please let
that not be the case."

667
00:22:58,852 --> 00:23:00,303
- That's just so bad.
- Yeah, but...

668
00:23:00,328 --> 00:23:02,294
- No! Don't! Don't!
- Sorry. It's so flaky.

669
00:23:02,319 --> 00:23:04,419
I'm gonna call the doctor.
I'm gonna call Dad, Grandpa.

670
00:23:04,421 --> 00:23:05,721
We're gonna get this settled.

671
00:23:05,723 --> 00:23:07,606
- We're gonna fix this, okay?
- Okay.

672
00:23:07,631 --> 00:23:09,569
'Cause we don't have
anything else to worry about.

673
00:23:14,538 --> 00:23:16,169
- Jazz?
- What?

674
00:23:16,194 --> 00:23:18,123
Jeanette: Can you come down, please?

675
00:23:18,140 --> 00:23:20,574
I want to call Dr. Olson

676
00:23:20,576 --> 00:23:23,209
and facetime her so I
can show her the rash.

677
00:23:23,211 --> 00:23:26,912
Dr. Olson oversaw Jazz
while we were in L.A.

678
00:23:26,937 --> 00:23:29,014
The rash is getting bigger,

679
00:23:29,022 --> 00:23:30,922
and I want to find out what's going on.

680
00:23:31,522 --> 00:23:32,755
- Hello.
- Hi.

681
00:23:32,780 --> 00:23:33,803
Hello.

682
00:23:33,827 --> 00:23:35,256
Hi, Jazz. Hi, Jeanette.

683
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,576
So, I have our number-one patient here.

684
00:23:37,601 --> 00:23:39,200
I'm hoping that you
can see the rash live

685
00:23:39,225 --> 00:23:40,481
instead of, like, a still shot.

686
00:23:40,506 --> 00:23:41,372
Yes.

687
00:23:41,397 --> 00:23:44,260
Can you hold up your arm?

688
00:23:44,262 --> 00:23:45,295
Ugh. Yikes.

689
00:23:46,373 --> 00:23:48,732
Is it on your face or ear at all?

690
00:23:48,734 --> 00:23:50,834
- It was.
- It was on my ear.

691
00:23:50,836 --> 00:23:52,703
My biggest fear concerning this rash

692
00:23:52,705 --> 00:23:54,037
is that it is possible

693
00:23:54,039 --> 00:23:56,905
that my body could be
rejecting the implant blocker,

694
00:23:56,907 --> 00:23:58,273
and then I'll have to get it replaced,

695
00:23:58,275 --> 00:24:00,006
and I just don't want
to go through that again.

696
00:24:00,645 --> 00:24:02,611
It's only been on that one side,

697
00:24:02,613 --> 00:24:05,414
which makes me think there's
a possibility of being allergic

698
00:24:05,416 --> 00:24:07,510
to the covering or the tape

699
00:24:07,852 --> 00:24:10,816
rather than what's
in the implant itself.

700
00:24:10,930 --> 00:24:13,753
So hopefully we'll
keep this one in, then.

701
00:24:14,958 --> 00:24:16,123
I think so.

702
00:24:16,735 --> 00:24:19,559
I can send over an
electronic prescription

703
00:24:19,584 --> 00:24:21,795
for a steroid ointment

704
00:24:21,811 --> 00:24:23,778
that will at least take
some of that inflammation

705
00:24:23,780 --> 00:24:25,736
and the itching sensation down.

706
00:24:25,967 --> 00:24:28,501
Jeanette: If the steroid
cream doesn't do the trick,

707
00:24:28,503 --> 00:24:29,702
then I'm really gonna worry,

708
00:24:29,704 --> 00:24:32,571
so crossing fingers
and toes that it works.

709
00:24:32,573 --> 00:24:34,172
Dr. Olson: All right.
I'll talk to you two soon.

710
00:24:34,174 --> 00:24:35,206
All right, bye.

711
00:24:35,208 --> 00:24:36,310
Bye.

712
00:24:36,643 --> 00:24:38,910
How do I hang this up? Tink. There.

713
00:24:47,973 --> 00:24:48,963
_

714
00:24:48,988 --> 00:24:50,688
Greg: Is there anything we need
to take off the table, though,

715
00:24:50,690 --> 00:24:53,190
before we start bringing people in?

716
00:24:53,192 --> 00:24:57,194
So, we had this idea of
selling stuff in a garage sale.

717
00:24:57,196 --> 00:25:00,531
The primary reason is
to get rid of stuff.

718
00:25:00,533 --> 00:25:02,933
Getting rid of stuff
is hard for Jeanette.

719
00:25:02,935 --> 00:25:04,368
She has an attachment issue

720
00:25:04,370 --> 00:25:06,872
to pretty much everything
that we purchase.

721
00:25:07,406 --> 00:25:08,538
Wait a minute.

722
00:25:08,540 --> 00:25:09,606
What's this stuff doing over here?

723
00:25:09,608 --> 00:25:11,674
We're not selling this.

724
00:25:11,676 --> 00:25:14,076
There are certain things
I don't want to sell,

725
00:25:14,078 --> 00:25:16,196
so just let's get it over with.

726
00:25:17,949 --> 00:25:19,594
Like, who are these people?
Where'd they come from?

727
00:25:19,619 --> 00:25:20,555
I don't know.

728
00:25:21,940 --> 00:25:23,373
Oh, look, your parents are here.

729
00:25:23,454 --> 00:25:25,020
The party's here.

730
00:25:25,022 --> 00:25:26,221
Welcome back.

731
00:25:26,223 --> 00:25:30,692
The garage sale is here,
less for purpose of selling

732
00:25:30,694 --> 00:25:33,261
but more for cleaning
house, so to speak.

733
00:25:33,263 --> 00:25:36,298
Time marches on, and
the kids have to go on.

734
00:25:36,300 --> 00:25:39,567
We don't want them in the
nest forever, I would assume.

735
00:25:39,569 --> 00:25:41,869
Or<i> she</i> doesn't want
them in the nest forever.

736
00:25:41,871 --> 00:25:44,371
I think Jeanette wants
them in the nest forever.

737
00:25:44,373 --> 00:25:45,938
That's the whole point.

738
00:25:46,409 --> 00:25:47,975
What are you doing to that cat?

739
00:25:47,977 --> 00:25:49,043
- Oh, no.
- Jazz!

740
00:25:49,045 --> 00:25:51,813
And, Jazz, your rash. She's got a rash.

741
00:25:51,815 --> 00:25:53,581
It's something she's allergic to.

742
00:25:53,583 --> 00:25:55,149
In inserting the implants,

743
00:25:55,151 --> 00:25:57,083
there's different materials they use...

744
00:25:57,085 --> 00:25:58,785
adhesives and things like that.

745
00:25:58,787 --> 00:26:00,720
'Cause we're not quite
sure what she's allergic to.

746
00:26:00,722 --> 00:26:03,523
How's she feeling now that
she's had the reaction?

747
00:26:03,525 --> 00:26:05,325
Some days are good
and some days are bad.

748
00:26:05,327 --> 00:26:08,094
Like, today, she's
in a cranky, bad mood.

749
00:26:08,096 --> 00:26:09,463
She's very up and down.

750
00:26:09,465 --> 00:26:11,832
You know, for somebody that's
not having real periods,

751
00:26:11,834 --> 00:26:13,799
she's simulating it
pretty well, isn't she?

752
00:26:13,801 --> 00:26:15,568
Yeah, well, the estrogen.

753
00:26:15,570 --> 00:26:17,269
Jeanette: Surgery is a big deal,

754
00:26:17,271 --> 00:26:19,404
and her poor little body's
been through so much.

755
00:26:19,406 --> 00:26:23,542
It's just unbelievable how
the body needs to be in rhythm

756
00:26:23,544 --> 00:26:27,312
with itself, and it's
a constant struggle.

757
00:26:29,102 --> 00:26:30,482
Do you guys need any help?

758
00:26:30,484 --> 00:26:32,241
I swear that one's
worth at least 20 bucks,

759
00:26:32,266 --> 00:26:34,085
but we'll sell it to
you for like a dollar.

760
00:26:34,087 --> 00:26:35,226
I got this.

761
00:26:36,055 --> 00:26:37,254
I got this sale.

762
00:26:37,256 --> 00:26:38,923
Jeanette: [Gasps] Oh, wait a minute.

763
00:26:38,925 --> 00:26:41,125
Oh, no, no, no, no.
She's taking my stuff.

764
00:26:41,127 --> 00:26:42,660
[Chuckles]

765
00:26:42,684 --> 00:26:43,696
_

766
00:26:43,697 --> 00:26:46,230
[Chuckles]

767
00:26:46,232 --> 00:26:48,098
Oh.

768
00:26:48,100 --> 00:26:50,400
She actually saw that
they were taking her stuff

769
00:26:50,402 --> 00:26:51,867
that she wants to keep.

770
00:26:51,892 --> 00:26:53,936
Those overalls are so ugly, though.

771
00:26:54,139 --> 00:26:57,280
Like, this one and this one was
my daughter's when she was 2.

772
00:26:57,305 --> 00:26:59,275
- It was her favorite outfit.
- Oh, so we can't have that?

773
00:26:59,277 --> 00:27:01,578
No. This one is not
supposed to be for sale.

774
00:27:01,580 --> 00:27:03,679
They're, like, doing it to upset me.

775
00:27:03,681 --> 00:27:06,816
I see items out for sale
that I did not approve.

776
00:27:06,818 --> 00:27:09,118
- How did they get out there?
- I have no idea.

777
00:27:09,120 --> 00:27:10,758
It wasn't something you authorized?

778
00:27:10,783 --> 00:27:12,522
- No.
- Then why were they there?

779
00:27:12,524 --> 00:27:14,123
'Cause the kids are mean.

780
00:27:14,125 --> 00:27:16,025
Greg: This is emotional for
Mom. She's getting rid of stuff.

781
00:27:16,027 --> 00:27:18,460
Oh, my god. She's got to get
over it. This stuff is crap.

782
00:27:19,731 --> 00:27:21,366
- I can buy it now?
- Not that one.

783
00:27:21,391 --> 00:27:22,163
Not what?

784
00:27:22,165 --> 00:27:24,098
I told you guys not to
put that on the table.

785
00:27:24,100 --> 00:27:25,834
- This one?
- It keeps coming back.

786
00:27:25,836 --> 00:27:28,369
So, can we all agree that
this is not going too well?

787
00:27:30,106 --> 00:27:31,840
Getting rid of stuff represents

788
00:27:31,842 --> 00:27:34,108
that the kids are
moving out of the house,

789
00:27:34,110 --> 00:27:37,045
and she doesn't know how
to deal with that issue.

790
00:27:37,047 --> 00:27:38,946
This one we're not gonna sell.

791
00:27:38,948 --> 00:27:41,006
Because this was when
you were a cheerleader.

792
00:27:41,031 --> 00:27:43,050
It was your very first
cheerleader skirt.

793
00:27:43,052 --> 00:27:44,384
I want to remember it.

794
00:27:44,386 --> 00:27:45,686
Mom, please.

795
00:27:45,688 --> 00:27:46,720
All right.

796
00:27:46,722 --> 00:27:48,923
You don't need to be attached to that.

797
00:27:48,925 --> 00:27:49,924
Are you okay?

798
00:27:49,926 --> 00:27:51,391
Yeah, yeah.

799
00:27:51,416 --> 00:27:54,661
Whoo-hoo. She let some stuff go.

800
00:27:54,663 --> 00:27:56,429
I let it go. I let them have it.

801
00:27:57,203 --> 00:27:58,698
And I'm not gonna change.

802
00:27:58,700 --> 00:28:02,134
I'm always gonna be
sentimental, done, end of story.

803
00:28:03,104 --> 00:28:05,471
- Thanks, guys.
- Thank you.

804
00:28:05,473 --> 00:28:08,374
- We have $21.25.
- You all happy now?

805
00:28:08,376 --> 00:28:11,277
I got rid of some stuff
that I didn't want to.

806
00:28:11,279 --> 00:28:12,945
I think it's good that you parted ways

807
00:28:12,947 --> 00:28:14,874
- with some of these things.
- Thanks.

808
00:28:14,899 --> 00:28:16,561
I just don't want to part with them.

809
00:28:16,586 --> 00:28:18,859
I don't want to part with my kids.

810
00:28:20,352 --> 00:28:21,952
Ari: And the boys are leaving the house.

811
00:28:21,954 --> 00:28:23,053
Thanks. Rub it in.

812
00:28:23,055 --> 00:28:23,987
Griffin: We're gonna be gone.

813
00:28:23,989 --> 00:28:25,088
How are you gonna deal with that

814
00:28:25,090 --> 00:28:26,224
if you can't deal with the clothes?

815
00:28:26,249 --> 00:28:27,841
How are you gonna live without us?

816
00:28:32,263 --> 00:28:33,562
We understand.

817
00:28:33,564 --> 00:28:35,064
- No, you don't.
- Yes, we do.

818
00:28:35,066 --> 00:28:36,866
- Look at them.
- They're grown young men.

819
00:28:36,868 --> 00:28:37,833
They're ready to go.

820
00:28:39,503 --> 00:28:42,538
Jeanette: And the greatest
joy for me is my kids.

821
00:28:42,540 --> 00:28:44,327
[Voice breaking] Mom'ing is my job,

822
00:28:44,352 --> 00:28:46,107
and they don't need a mom anymore.

823
00:28:46,109 --> 00:28:47,508
They don't need that kind of mom.

824
00:28:47,510 --> 00:28:49,177
[Sniffles]

825
00:28:49,758 --> 00:28:51,179
Come on, guys. Give Mom love.

826
00:28:51,181 --> 00:28:52,981
They're too big. They
can't live at home.

827
00:28:52,983 --> 00:28:53,982
She needs a little love.

828
00:28:53,984 --> 00:28:55,483
You can have a twin sandwich.

829
00:28:55,485 --> 00:28:57,919
Twin sandwich. We're
still here right now, Mom.

830
00:28:57,921 --> 00:28:59,954
Yeah, I'll hold on to the money.

831
00:29:03,926 --> 00:29:05,125
Greg: Going a little fast.

832
00:29:05,127 --> 00:29:06,193
You didn't put on your blinker.

833
00:29:06,195 --> 00:29:07,360
You're too close to the curb.

834
00:29:07,362 --> 00:29:09,997
Slow down. Jazz, come
on. Stop! Hit the brake.

835
00:29:09,999 --> 00:29:12,166
[Laughing] It's so fun!

836
00:29:12,168 --> 00:29:13,233
[Giggles]

837
00:29:13,235 --> 00:29:15,736
Oh, man, this is gonna be a long lesson.

838
00:29:15,738 --> 00:29:17,149
[Horn honks] Whoo whoo!

839
00:29:23,707 --> 00:29:25,574
[Chuckles]

840
00:29:25,637 --> 00:29:26,604
Griffin: Where are you guys going?

841
00:29:26,629 --> 00:29:28,063
Jazz's driving lesson.

842
00:29:28,088 --> 00:29:29,222
Looks like<i> you're</i> driving.

843
00:29:29,247 --> 00:29:30,137
She's never driven before.

844
00:29:30,145 --> 00:29:31,712
You think I'm just gonna
let her get in the front seat

845
00:29:31,714 --> 00:29:32,980
and just drive off?

846
00:29:32,982 --> 00:29:34,314
I'm nervous to drive with Jazz

847
00:29:34,316 --> 00:29:36,448
because she's never
driven anything before.

848
00:29:36,473 --> 00:29:38,159
She's never even asked about driving.

849
00:29:38,184 --> 00:29:39,984
Jeanette: It's something
that does not appeal to her.

850
00:29:39,985 --> 00:29:41,417
[Jazz singing indistinctly in distance]

851
00:29:41,419 --> 00:29:42,207
Singing is.

852
00:29:42,232 --> 00:29:43,690
[Both laugh]

853
00:29:43,715 --> 00:29:45,114
Griffin: Her first
time driving's with you,

854
00:29:45,116 --> 00:29:46,548
yet you wouldn't drive
with us until we'd, like,

855
00:29:46,551 --> 00:29:48,284
drive around the neighborhood
with Mom like 12 times.

856
00:29:48,286 --> 00:29:50,787
I trust Jazz more
than you guys. Buh-bye.

857
00:29:50,789 --> 00:29:52,121
Bunch of clowns.

858
00:29:53,758 --> 00:29:56,425
For whatever reason, Jeanette
spends more time with Jazz,

859
00:29:56,427 --> 00:29:58,327
and I spend more time with the twins,

860
00:29:58,329 --> 00:30:01,284
so this is a great opportunity
for me to bond with my daughter.

861
00:30:01,309 --> 00:30:02,801
And I think the first
thing you need to do

862
00:30:02,809 --> 00:30:04,341
is learn some of the basics of the car,

863
00:30:04,343 --> 00:30:07,645
because I don't think
anyone's ever taught you.

864
00:30:07,647 --> 00:30:10,582
This right here... "P" is...?

865
00:30:10,607 --> 00:30:11,137
Park.

866
00:30:11,162 --> 00:30:12,394
What is "R"?

867
00:30:12,496 --> 00:30:14,317
Um... Run!

868
00:30:14,319 --> 00:30:15,596
[Both laugh]

869
00:30:15,621 --> 00:30:17,353
- Reverse.
- Reverse.

870
00:30:17,355 --> 00:30:18,889
- This is your blinker.
- Oh, okay.

871
00:30:18,891 --> 00:30:20,423
Maybe it's not your blinker.

872
00:30:20,425 --> 00:30:22,826
That's not your blinker.
That's your windshield wiper.

873
00:30:22,828 --> 00:30:23,972
All right, let's switch.

874
00:30:25,130 --> 00:30:27,029
Jazz: Now that I have
my driver's permit,

875
00:30:27,031 --> 00:30:29,231
I'm gonna be a perfectionist.

876
00:30:29,233 --> 00:30:31,400
I'm gonna ensure that
I'm a better driver

877
00:30:31,402 --> 00:30:32,835
than everyone in my family.

878
00:30:32,837 --> 00:30:34,471
[Laughs]

879
00:30:34,496 --> 00:30:35,838
[Horn honks]

880
00:30:35,863 --> 00:30:36,839
Did I do that?

881
00:30:36,841 --> 00:30:38,144
I didn't teach you about the horn.

882
00:30:38,169 --> 00:30:40,190
[Horn honking] Whoo whoo!

883
00:30:40,215 --> 00:30:41,210
So, what is this called again?

884
00:30:41,212 --> 00:30:43,344
- The joystick? Or what?
- [Both laugh]

885
00:30:43,346 --> 00:30:46,281
Sorry. Looks like a little,
like, you know, game joystick.

886
00:30:46,283 --> 00:30:48,183
That's the last thing I wanted to hear.

887
00:30:48,185 --> 00:30:50,863
Oh, man. This is gonna be a long lesson.

888
00:30:51,254 --> 00:30:53,188
- Go forward.
- Okay.

889
00:30:53,190 --> 00:30:54,555
And now start turning the
wheel. Go slow, though.

890
00:30:54,557 --> 00:30:55,623
Right now? Start turning?

891
00:30:55,625 --> 00:30:56,825
Keep the brake on, keep the brake on.

892
00:30:56,827 --> 00:30:58,226
Turn, turn, turn.

893
00:30:58,228 --> 00:31:00,227
Now just... here, just go with me.

894
00:31:00,229 --> 00:31:01,494
- Work with me.
- Okay.

895
00:31:01,496 --> 00:31:02,807
- All right?
- I'm feeling this.

896
00:31:02,832 --> 00:31:04,235
You're doing awesome now.

897
00:31:04,676 --> 00:31:06,599
'Cause you're doing it.
I'm not doing anything.

898
00:31:06,601 --> 00:31:08,268
No, I'm not doing anything.
Now straighten it up.

899
00:31:08,270 --> 00:31:09,937
Let me see how you
straighten up the wheel.

900
00:31:09,939 --> 00:31:11,571
Straighten it. No, no, no, sto...

901
00:31:11,573 --> 00:31:12,906
You got to go like this.

902
00:31:12,908 --> 00:31:14,127
I'm sorry. I didn't know
if it was straight or not.

903
00:31:14,152 --> 00:31:15,042
There you go.

904
00:31:15,044 --> 00:31:16,776
So, I'm trying to drive, and my dad,

905
00:31:16,778 --> 00:31:18,945
he's like, "okay, you
can't do this! Raah!"

906
00:31:18,947 --> 00:31:21,247
And he just grabs the
wheel, tries to take control.

907
00:31:21,249 --> 00:31:24,183
I'm like, "Dad, I want to
be able to do it myself."

908
00:31:24,185 --> 00:31:25,617
But I understand why he's doing it.

909
00:31:25,619 --> 00:31:27,835
He's just trying to
ensure that we don't die.

910
00:31:28,923 --> 00:31:30,456
Going a little fast.

911
00:31:30,458 --> 00:31:31,690
You didn't put on your blinker.

912
00:31:31,692 --> 00:31:32,825
You're too close to the curb.

913
00:31:32,827 --> 00:31:33,792
- Slow down.
- Whee!

914
00:31:33,794 --> 00:31:35,637
Jazz, come on! Stop! Hit the brake.

915
00:31:35,662 --> 00:31:36,777
- [Laughing]
- [Tires screech]

916
00:31:36,796 --> 00:31:39,032
It's so fun! [Giggles]

917
00:31:39,739 --> 00:31:41,272
- I put it in park.
- Okay.

918
00:31:41,274 --> 00:31:42,239
[Chuckles]

919
00:31:42,241 --> 00:31:43,777
Sorry if I, like, scared you.

920
00:31:44,418 --> 00:31:45,710
This is no joke.

921
00:31:45,712 --> 00:31:47,244
We're gonna make this turn again.

922
00:31:47,269 --> 00:31:49,957
Do it slow, and be careful.

923
00:31:49,982 --> 00:31:52,077
And here we go.

924
00:31:54,629 --> 00:31:56,295
- La, la, la.
- Good.

925
00:31:56,926 --> 00:31:58,558
Straighten it out.

926
00:31:59,403 --> 00:32:02,271
- You got it. Good.
- I got this.

927
00:32:02,273 --> 00:32:03,606
Jazz: After this first driving lesson,

928
00:32:03,608 --> 00:32:05,407
I feel like it's only
gonna be a few more times

929
00:32:05,409 --> 00:32:08,043
until I actually feel
comfortable behind the wheel.

930
00:32:08,045 --> 00:32:11,046
To be honest, my dad was
actually a really good teacher.

931
00:32:11,048 --> 00:32:14,415
You know, by the end of it, I
got my driving down perfectly.

932
00:32:14,417 --> 00:32:16,451
[Laughing]

933
00:32:17,888 --> 00:32:19,013
You did good.

934
00:32:20,903 --> 00:32:21,936
I love you.

935
00:32:22,126 --> 00:32:24,159
- I'll drive from here.
- Okay.

936
00:32:34,737 --> 00:32:37,160
Jazz: Jay, you really
have muscular arms. Flex.

937
00:32:37,185 --> 00:32:38,451
- No.
- Yes.

938
00:32:38,637 --> 00:32:40,355
No, it's good.

939
00:32:40,380 --> 00:32:42,264
I'll flex. Hey, nothing!

940
00:32:42,289 --> 00:32:44,150
Girl, look at that, look at that!

941
00:32:44,175 --> 00:32:46,433
And I'm supposed to
be biologically male.

942
00:32:46,458 --> 00:32:47,790
[Laughter]

943
00:32:47,801 --> 00:32:49,435
Jazz: Casey and Jayleen are old friends,

944
00:32:49,437 --> 00:32:50,802
but they don't go to my school,

945
00:32:50,804 --> 00:32:53,038
and we don't find the time
to hang out with each other.

946
00:32:53,278 --> 00:32:55,879
I know that my mom is pushing
me to make new friends,

947
00:32:55,881 --> 00:32:59,081
but Casey and Jay are really
the only friends that I need.

948
00:32:59,083 --> 00:33:01,250
You never even told us how L.A. was.

949
00:33:01,252 --> 00:33:02,918
The surgery did go well.

950
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,217
The implant in my arm did break, though.

951
00:33:05,670 --> 00:33:08,355
_

952
00:33:08,592 --> 00:33:12,027
Weren't you, like, scared when
they told you it had broken?

953
00:33:12,029 --> 00:33:14,229
I wasn't that scared
because I was in the O.R.,

954
00:33:14,231 --> 00:33:16,063
and if something goes
wrong, they could fix it,

955
00:33:16,065 --> 00:33:18,299
so they were able to get it
out, and they put the new one in,

956
00:33:18,301 --> 00:33:19,466
and everything went smoothly.

957
00:33:19,468 --> 00:33:22,169
But the only bad thing
that happened was the rash.

958
00:33:22,171 --> 00:33:24,605
I sent you guys pictures.
It was, like, boiling up.

959
00:33:24,607 --> 00:33:26,340
And it was blistering and it was red.

960
00:33:26,342 --> 00:33:27,574
It was really itchy.

961
00:33:27,576 --> 00:33:30,820
But I think things are
finally starting to get better.

962
00:33:31,254 --> 00:33:34,881
It took me a while to understand
what being transgender was.

963
00:33:34,883 --> 00:33:36,216
I'm sure it's tough for her

964
00:33:36,218 --> 00:33:38,144
'cause she has to overcome
different obstacles.

965
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,754
But she's a strong girl, and
I love her for who she is.

966
00:33:42,430 --> 00:33:43,897
So, has anything interesting happened,

967
00:33:43,899 --> 00:33:45,765
like, since you got back from L.A.?

968
00:33:45,894 --> 00:33:47,284
There's this one thing.

969
00:33:47,309 --> 00:33:49,503
My mom told me there's a
lot of transgender people

970
00:33:49,528 --> 00:33:51,927
in the community, and they
all go to this one school.

971
00:33:51,929 --> 00:33:52,949
Really?

972
00:33:52,973 --> 00:33:54,805
She's really pushing me to go, like,

973
00:33:54,807 --> 00:33:56,894
one of their GSA meetings or something.

974
00:33:57,433 --> 00:33:58,809
I think that's such a
coincidence how, like,

975
00:33:58,811 --> 00:34:00,511
a lot of them ended up at this school.

976
00:34:00,513 --> 00:34:02,304
A good opportunity to meet people.

977
00:34:03,083 --> 00:34:04,048
I don't know.

978
00:34:04,050 --> 00:34:05,516
- It'll be good for you.
- Yeah.

979
00:34:05,518 --> 00:34:07,250
But even though they are transgender,

980
00:34:07,252 --> 00:34:09,319
that's just, like, one
thing that we can relate to.

981
00:34:09,321 --> 00:34:10,653
It doesn't mean we're automatically

982
00:34:10,655 --> 00:34:12,017
gonna be best friends.

983
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:14,673
You know, my mom thinks
that if they're transgender

984
00:34:14,675 --> 00:34:15,941
and I'm transgender

985
00:34:15,943 --> 00:34:18,376
that we're automatically
gonna be compatible,

986
00:34:18,378 --> 00:34:19,978
but it doesn't really work that way.

987
00:34:19,980 --> 00:34:22,848
Everyone's different,
transgender or not.

988
00:34:22,850 --> 00:34:24,081
Do you think it's gonna
be, like, a little weird

989
00:34:24,083 --> 00:34:25,917
having to meet all these new kids?

990
00:34:25,919 --> 00:34:29,166
Um, I don't know. It
definitely is a little weird.

991
00:34:29,191 --> 00:34:30,955
'Cause you guys know I've become distant

992
00:34:30,957 --> 00:34:32,768
with my friends at school.

993
00:34:33,159 --> 00:34:35,746
So, what exactly happened
with your friends at school?

994
00:34:35,771 --> 00:34:38,271
Um, we've just kind of become distant.

995
00:34:38,564 --> 00:34:40,264
We're not talking as much,

996
00:34:40,266 --> 00:34:41,932
and I really have no one at school.

997
00:34:41,934 --> 00:34:44,118
Like, I'm silent every day.

998
00:34:44,803 --> 00:34:46,236
- You have us.
- Yeah.

999
00:34:46,238 --> 00:34:48,038
And I think this thing
that you're gonna go to

1000
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,040
to meet all those kids is gonna be good.

1001
00:34:50,042 --> 00:34:52,642
There's, like, a certain
unity with all of you, so...

1002
00:34:52,644 --> 00:34:53,776
Like, when it comes
to being transgender.

1003
00:34:53,778 --> 00:34:55,111
As a community.

1004
00:34:55,113 --> 00:34:57,328
♪ Can't have "community"
without "unity" ♪

1005
00:34:57,353 --> 00:34:59,481
♪ Unless you just want "comm" ♪

1006
00:35:00,179 --> 00:35:03,052
[Laughter]

1007
00:35:03,054 --> 00:35:04,169
Oh, my gosh.

1008
00:35:14,565 --> 00:35:17,165
So, you're looking forward
to going to this group?

1009
00:35:17,167 --> 00:35:18,299
Sure.

1010
00:35:18,301 --> 00:35:20,139
Jazz: We're driving to this GSA meeting

1011
00:35:20,164 --> 00:35:21,725
to meet all of the transgender kids,

1012
00:35:21,750 --> 00:35:24,051
and I know that my mom
has good intentions,

1013
00:35:24,053 --> 00:35:26,087
but I also think that
she should allow me

1014
00:35:26,089 --> 00:35:27,921
to meet people on my own accord

1015
00:35:27,923 --> 00:35:30,157
and just kind of do
what I feel like doing.

1016
00:35:30,159 --> 00:35:31,758
♪ Yeah ♪

1017
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,194
[Scatting]

1018
00:35:35,703 --> 00:35:36,570
Stop singing.

1019
00:35:36,595 --> 00:35:38,548
[Scatting continues]

1020
00:35:38,573 --> 00:35:39,398
Uh, Jazz...

1021
00:35:39,422 --> 00:35:41,099
♪ I don't care, I'm
a selfish bitch ♪

1022
00:35:41,101 --> 00:35:43,134
Stop! Jazz.

1023
00:35:43,136 --> 00:35:46,003
[Singing indistinctly]

1024
00:35:46,375 --> 00:35:50,076
All right, Jazz, I've
asked you nicely to stop.

1025
00:35:50,078 --> 00:35:52,311
Stop! Stop.

1026
00:35:52,313 --> 00:35:53,812
I don't want to raise my voice.

1027
00:35:53,814 --> 00:35:56,554
Ooh, girl! She got sassy.

1028
00:35:56,578 --> 00:35:58,131
I swear, you're pissing me off.

1029
00:35:58,156 --> 00:36:00,292
Then it sounds like...

1030
00:36:00,592 --> 00:36:03,793
[Singing indistinctly]

1031
00:36:03,928 --> 00:36:07,829
I know that she has no desire
to be out there socializing,

1032
00:36:07,831 --> 00:36:09,031
getting to know new people,

1033
00:36:09,033 --> 00:36:11,333
but I really have high
hopes for this meeting.

1034
00:36:11,335 --> 00:36:12,858
I don't know what else we have to say?

1035
00:36:12,883 --> 00:36:13,672
What do we have to say?

1036
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,847
Repeat the same thing
all over again? Yes.

1037
00:36:15,848 --> 00:36:17,748
And I really don't feel like doing that.

1038
00:36:17,750 --> 00:36:20,218
Unfortunately, she's
just in a nasty mood.

1039
00:36:20,220 --> 00:36:21,752
You never know what's gonna trigger her.

1040
00:36:21,754 --> 00:36:24,488
She could be tired,
could be the hormones.

1041
00:36:24,490 --> 00:36:25,889
And you know what? She's a teenager.

1042
00:36:25,891 --> 00:36:28,500
But when she's not in
the mood, we all suffer.

1043
00:36:31,116 --> 00:36:35,140
Jazz is going to be on a
LGBTQ friendly radio station.

1044
00:36:35,165 --> 00:36:38,172
She's never taken questions
from a national audience before.

1045
00:36:38,281 --> 00:36:39,539
You have a penis

1046
00:36:39,564 --> 00:36:41,564
and you might as well kill yourself.

1047
00:36:42,765 --> 00:36:45,476
I'm really exited to take
Jazz to Gender Bender tonight.

1048
00:36:45,500 --> 00:36:47,164
I don't really like
going to support groups

1049
00:36:47,189 --> 00:36:48,742
I just never know what to say.

1050
00:36:48,766 --> 00:36:50,437
My boobs look irregular.

1051
00:36:50,462 --> 00:36:51,461
I'm Cameron.

1052
00:36:51,486 --> 00:36:53,914
I have been starting
to consider top surgery.

1053
00:36:53,938 --> 00:36:57,148
I was truly willing just to end my life.

1054
00:37:07,504 --> 00:37:09,973
Did you, like, come out to
a group of people, or...?

1055
00:37:09,996 --> 00:37:11,529
Yeah, it was, like, an assembly.

1056
00:37:11,532 --> 00:37:13,465
- Really?
- Hi, Jazz.

1057
00:37:13,467 --> 00:37:15,634
- Hi. Nice to meet you.
- Thank you. You too.

1058
00:37:15,636 --> 00:37:18,026
Jazz: Now that we're
here for this GSA meeting,

1059
00:37:18,051 --> 00:37:19,951
I'm just gonna make the most of it.

1060
00:37:19,953 --> 00:37:21,586
Who wants to share a story first?

1061
00:37:24,457 --> 00:37:26,056
So let me ask you a question...

1062
00:37:26,058 --> 00:37:29,348
on our panel, we have
female-to-male transitions.

1063
00:37:29,371 --> 00:37:33,941
Why do you think that is that
we don't have any male-to-female?

1064
00:37:34,223 --> 00:37:39,661
Most M2Fs are afraid,
because you always hear about,

1065
00:37:39,663 --> 00:37:41,796
like, trans women getting murdered.

1066
00:37:41,798 --> 00:37:44,426
And you don't really hear
about trans men getting murdered

1067
00:37:44,451 --> 00:37:47,190
because femininity is looked down upon.

1068
00:37:47,215 --> 00:37:49,169
Didn't you used to go to my school?

1069
00:37:49,171 --> 00:37:52,138
I went there until my 8th grade year,

1070
00:37:52,140 --> 00:37:53,774
but I left because I didn't have, like,

1071
00:37:53,776 --> 00:37:55,308
the greatest experience.

1072
00:37:55,310 --> 00:37:57,177
Yeah, with your friends and all that.

1073
00:37:57,441 --> 00:37:58,526
You left me alone.

1074
00:37:58,551 --> 00:38:01,137
I'm sorry. You could
always come to my school.

1075
00:38:01,848 --> 00:38:03,835
Yeah, that's a possibility.

1076
00:38:03,837 --> 00:38:04,676
I don't know.

1077
00:38:04,746 --> 00:38:07,137
What happened was, there
was a couple of girls that,

1078
00:38:07,145 --> 00:38:08,545
when I came out as a lesbian...

1079
00:38:08,548 --> 00:38:10,214
I hadn't come out as trans yet...

1080
00:38:10,216 --> 00:38:12,316
they thought that I
was interested in them,

1081
00:38:12,318 --> 00:38:15,477
and I wasn't, but they
kind of excluded me,

1082
00:38:15,502 --> 00:38:17,431
and I felt very alone.

1083
00:38:18,559 --> 00:38:19,902
Hi. I'm Alex.

1084
00:38:20,575 --> 00:38:23,081
I only took two people
that I knew with me

1085
00:38:23,106 --> 00:38:25,082
from middle school to high school.

1086
00:38:25,418 --> 00:38:27,218
One girl just wouldn't accept me,

1087
00:38:27,220 --> 00:38:29,087
and she kept telling
other people that, like,

1088
00:38:29,089 --> 00:38:31,729
I wasn't a boy and,
like, that wasn't my name.

1089
00:38:31,754 --> 00:38:32,857
She was a nice person.

1090
00:38:32,859 --> 00:38:35,125
Like, I used to be really
good friends with her,

1091
00:38:35,127 --> 00:38:36,493
and I... I just...

1092
00:38:36,495 --> 00:38:38,395
it's sad that I had to, like, lose her.

1093
00:38:38,397 --> 00:38:39,384
Yeah.

1094
00:38:40,165 --> 00:38:41,599
There was this one situation

1095
00:38:41,601 --> 00:38:43,467
where I had become close with this girl,

1096
00:38:43,469 --> 00:38:46,558
and it was time for me to tell
her that I was transgender.

1097
00:38:47,139 --> 00:38:50,140
And based on her religion,
she decided not to accept me,

1098
00:38:50,142 --> 00:38:53,732
and we had to start completely
not talking to each other.

1099
00:38:54,223 --> 00:38:55,812
Jazz: You know, being transgender kids,

1100
00:38:55,814 --> 00:38:57,880
we've had similar experiences,

1101
00:38:57,882 --> 00:39:00,883
like discrimination
and the loss of friends.

1102
00:39:00,885 --> 00:39:02,685
You know, high school is really hard.

1103
00:39:02,687 --> 00:39:06,089
Kids are always selfish and
worried about themselves,

1104
00:39:06,091 --> 00:39:08,123
and we're all trying
to figure each other out

1105
00:39:08,125 --> 00:39:11,644
and ourselves out, and it really
is difficult to be a teenager,

1106
00:39:11,669 --> 00:39:14,970
and being transgender on top of
that makes it that much harder.

1107
00:39:15,132 --> 00:39:16,230
Lucas: I had a lot of
people come up to me

1108
00:39:16,255 --> 00:39:18,577
that actually didn't like
me before I transitioned

1109
00:39:18,602 --> 00:39:19,823
come up to me and
say, like, "oh, my god.

1110
00:39:19,848 --> 00:39:20,816
Now that you're trans,

1111
00:39:20,821 --> 00:39:22,801
I want to be, like,
best friends with you."

1112
00:39:22,832 --> 00:39:24,998
Like, "I've never had
a trans friend before."

1113
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,099
And it's like, "well, you
still don't," but, um...

1114
00:39:27,102 --> 00:39:28,301
[Laughter]

1115
00:39:28,303 --> 00:39:29,703
Has anything like that
ever happened to you,

1116
00:39:29,705 --> 00:39:31,705
like somebody kind of fake-friends you

1117
00:39:31,707 --> 00:39:33,340
just because of the experience?

1118
00:39:33,342 --> 00:39:36,176
There's been people like that
who have said similar things

1119
00:39:36,178 --> 00:39:38,245
like, "wow. It's so cool
that you're inspiring people.

1120
00:39:38,247 --> 00:39:39,647
We should be best friends."

1121
00:39:39,649 --> 00:39:41,981
And then you'll talk more with them,

1122
00:39:41,983 --> 00:39:44,150
and you'll realize that
they want to be your friend

1123
00:39:44,152 --> 00:39:47,858
for the wrong reason, and
it's not okay that way.

1124
00:39:48,523 --> 00:39:51,323
Dating as a trans person was hard

1125
00:39:51,325 --> 00:39:53,426
because I had someone
that I was interested in

1126
00:39:53,428 --> 00:39:55,061
and was also interested in me

1127
00:39:55,063 --> 00:39:57,112
that told me that they
couldn't because I was trans.

1128
00:39:57,137 --> 00:39:58,864
They didn't want to go to prom with me

1129
00:39:58,866 --> 00:40:01,199
because of how their
parents would think.

1130
00:40:01,201 --> 00:40:04,036
I haven't really delved into
the world of dating that much.

1131
00:40:04,038 --> 00:40:06,605
I'm still, like, shy
and stuff, but, um...

1132
00:40:06,607 --> 00:40:08,707
She's not really shy normally, though.

1133
00:40:08,686 --> 00:40:10,388
- [Laughter]
- Well, when it comes to dating.

1134
00:40:10,412 --> 00:40:13,292
But I definitely think
that's unfair to you

1135
00:40:13,317 --> 00:40:14,584
because they should be looking at you

1136
00:40:14,586 --> 00:40:15,684
for who you are on the inside,

1137
00:40:15,686 --> 00:40:17,519
and I know that one day, I have hope

1138
00:40:17,521 --> 00:40:19,754
that I'll find someone who
just loves and accepts me

1139
00:40:19,756 --> 00:40:22,290
for who I am and I can
love and accept, as well,

1140
00:40:22,292 --> 00:40:25,066
and I hope all of you find
someone like that, so...

1141
00:40:25,091 --> 00:40:26,757
Yeah, cool. Thank you.

1142
00:40:27,355 --> 00:40:29,332
I'm the president of
my school's GSA now.

1143
00:40:29,357 --> 00:40:31,605
- Ooh, ooh!
- Yay.

1144
00:40:31,635 --> 00:40:33,378
She's the president, so you
guys have to do field trips.

1145
00:40:33,403 --> 00:40:35,183
Well, next year I'll be the president.

1146
00:40:35,208 --> 00:40:36,105
Whatever.

1147
00:40:36,130 --> 00:40:39,131
We can hook up, do some
fun activities together.

1148
00:40:39,514 --> 00:40:40,538
Yeah.

1149
00:40:40,563 --> 00:40:41,973
[Laughter]

1150
00:40:42,012 --> 00:40:43,544
No, I'm really thankful to my mom

1151
00:40:43,546 --> 00:40:45,637
for pushing me to go to this meeting.

1152
00:40:45,662 --> 00:40:49,393
I definitely wasn't fully
on board to go at first.

1153
00:40:49,418 --> 00:40:50,984
I was just kind of like, "eh, whatever."

1154
00:40:50,986 --> 00:40:52,636
Okay, we're doing a hug line.

1155
00:40:52,661 --> 00:40:54,028
- So nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

1156
00:40:54,030 --> 00:40:56,663
- Really nice to meet you.
- Good luck with everything.

1157
00:40:56,665 --> 00:40:59,058
Jazz: But I definitely
thought they were cool kids,

1158
00:40:59,075 --> 00:41:01,485
and maybe we could be
friends, but I don't know.

1159
00:41:01,487 --> 00:41:03,253
I don't really want
to try to make friends.

1160
00:41:03,254 --> 00:41:04,897
I just kind of want it to happen.

1161
00:41:05,724 --> 00:41:08,557
Jeanette: Overall, I think that
the GSA meeting went pretty well.

1162
00:41:08,559 --> 00:41:10,559
I definitely think, as a parent,

1163
00:41:10,561 --> 00:41:13,395
that I should keep pushing
Jazz to put herself out there

1164
00:41:13,397 --> 00:41:15,197
and be in more social situations.

1165
00:41:15,199 --> 00:41:16,565
I worry about her.

1166
00:41:16,567 --> 00:41:19,201
We're social beings, and
being alone in your room,

1167
00:41:19,203 --> 00:41:21,403
hour after hour, day after day,

1168
00:41:21,405 --> 00:41:23,987
it's just not the way
to go through life.

1169
00:41:24,874 --> 00:41:27,686
She needs to learn how
to navigate the world.

1170
00:41:31,047 --> 00:41:33,247
Jazz: Next time on "I Am Jazz"...

1171
00:41:33,249 --> 00:41:35,917
Noelle: I'm really excited to
take Jazz to Gender Bender tonight

1172
00:41:35,919 --> 00:41:37,700
just because it's my friends,

1173
00:41:37,725 --> 00:41:39,457
and that brings her closer to my life.

1174
00:41:39,465 --> 00:41:41,709
Jazz: Meeting people for the
first time is always super-awkward.

1175
00:41:41,711 --> 00:41:43,276
I just never know what to say.

1176
00:41:43,278 --> 00:41:45,813
My boobs look irregular. I
don't know how to describe it.

1177
00:41:45,815 --> 00:41:49,007
Like, they're not porn-star,
traditional breasts.

1178
00:41:49,051 --> 00:41:51,987
I'm doing this cool radio
show. It's called "The Qiew."

1179
00:41:52,012 --> 00:41:53,812
We have another caller on the line.

1180
00:41:53,814 --> 00:41:55,981
Man: How do you even approach dating?

1181
00:41:55,983 --> 00:41:58,816
I mean, you may as well kill
yourself back where I come from

1182
00:41:58,818 --> 00:42:01,251
and try to date at
school in your condition.

1183
00:42:01,253 --> 00:42:03,253
You [Bleep].

1184
00:42:03,277 --> 00:42:05,277
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