1 00:00:01,376 --> 00:00:04,288 ♪ 2 00:00:09,027 --> 00:00:10,694 (Woman) * it's been a long time * 3 00:00:10,763 --> 00:00:13,097 Henry laughs when I sneeze. 4 00:00:13,165 --> 00:00:15,733 He thinks it's hilarious. 5 00:00:15,801 --> 00:00:18,602 He's starting to develop a personality. 6 00:00:18,670 --> 00:00:20,237 And I started thinking, you know, 7 00:00:20,304 --> 00:00:22,705 how I'm responsible for the person he grows up to be, 8 00:00:22,774 --> 00:00:25,341 whether he's gonna be empathetic or brave or... 9 00:00:25,409 --> 00:00:27,410 (Inhales deeply) Thoughtful. 10 00:00:27,478 --> 00:00:31,547 And then I remember how so many of these things 11 00:00:31,615 --> 00:00:34,918 might already be decided, inscribed on his DNA. 12 00:00:34,986 --> 00:00:37,619 You think nature trumps nurture? 13 00:00:37,687 --> 00:00:40,289 ♪ 14 00:00:40,356 --> 00:00:41,857 (Doorbell rings) 15 00:00:41,925 --> 00:00:43,826 I'm coming. 16 00:00:43,894 --> 00:00:47,129 ♪ 17 00:00:47,197 --> 00:00:49,064 Hey, buddy. 18 00:00:49,132 --> 00:00:51,000 I missed you. How was he? 19 00:00:51,067 --> 00:00:52,200 He was great. 20 00:00:52,268 --> 00:00:53,501 How are you? 21 00:00:53,568 --> 00:00:55,003 I'm great. 22 00:00:55,070 --> 00:00:58,206 Wow. Two greats. 23 00:00:58,274 --> 00:01:00,208 Hey, do you think the nanny would stay late tonight? 24 00:01:00,276 --> 00:01:02,610 Uh, probably. What for? 25 00:01:02,678 --> 00:01:04,478 So you can go to dinner with me. 26 00:01:04,546 --> 00:01:06,080 Is that your alternative therapy? 27 00:01:06,148 --> 00:01:07,282 - Yes. - No. 28 00:01:07,349 --> 00:01:08,615 Come on. What are you afraid of? 29 00:01:08,683 --> 00:01:10,450 I-- You are not taking this seriously. 30 00:01:10,518 --> 00:01:11,651 I take dinner very seriously. 31 00:01:11,719 --> 00:01:13,553 Our problem is not a lack of date nights. 32 00:01:13,621 --> 00:01:16,123 Our problem is that we need to learn how to communicate again. 33 00:01:16,191 --> 00:01:18,058 "Again" being the operative word here. 34 00:01:18,126 --> 00:01:20,760 We don't need a referee to help us get our mojo back. 35 00:01:20,829 --> 00:01:23,163 What if we just try to... 36 00:01:23,231 --> 00:01:25,965 Enjoy each other's company and laugh 37 00:01:26,033 --> 00:01:27,666 and remember that we love each other? 38 00:01:27,734 --> 00:01:30,102 Can't that be a way that we become us again? 39 00:01:30,170 --> 00:01:31,370 Come on. 40 00:01:31,438 --> 00:01:33,605 I am even willing... (Inhales deeply) 41 00:01:33,673 --> 00:01:35,074 To go to that thai restaurant that you love. 44 00:01:37,945 --> 00:01:40,245 That should tell you something. 45 00:01:40,313 --> 00:01:42,214 I'll think about it. 46 00:01:42,281 --> 00:01:43,348 I'll pick you up at 7:00. 47 00:01:43,415 --> 00:01:46,484 ♪ 48 00:01:49,989 --> 00:01:51,522 (Door closes) 49 00:01:51,590 --> 00:01:53,992 No, I-- It's just that Keisha can't get here early, 50 00:01:54,060 --> 00:01:55,993 and I couldn't get in touch with the backup nanny. 51 00:01:56,061 --> 00:01:58,262 And I thought since your company brought me both of them, 52 00:01:58,330 --> 00:02:00,231 that you might... 53 00:02:00,298 --> 00:02:03,100 Okay. Well, do you have any other nannies that are... 54 00:02:03,168 --> 00:02:04,869 (Fusses) Really amazing and super trustworthy 55 00:02:04,936 --> 00:02:08,105 that can get here right now, like, in the next ten minutes? 56 00:02:08,173 --> 00:02:09,539 I mean, clearly, you don't have them 57 00:02:09,607 --> 00:02:11,541 stacked up in the closet like robots. 58 00:02:11,609 --> 00:02:13,376 I get that. But I just thought... 59 00:02:13,443 --> 00:02:15,178 (Sighs) No, thank you. Okay. I'll figure it out. 60 00:02:15,246 --> 00:02:16,746 Thank you. Bye. (Cell phone beeps) 61 00:02:16,813 --> 00:02:18,714 - Everything okay? - No, not really. 62 00:02:18,782 --> 00:02:20,516 It's my first day back at work. 63 00:02:20,584 --> 00:02:22,785 I got paged to the ER, my nanny's not here, 64 00:02:22,853 --> 00:02:24,220 and I tried Violet, but she's got an early patient. 65 00:02:24,288 --> 00:02:25,588 You know what? Forget the walk. 66 00:02:25,655 --> 00:02:27,257 - I'm gonna take a shower. - Yeah. 67 00:02:27,324 --> 00:02:29,591 Mm. I gotta try Cooper. 68 00:02:29,658 --> 00:02:31,826 All right. Just... Give him to me. 69 00:02:31,895 --> 00:02:32,995 Really? 70 00:02:33,062 --> 00:02:34,363 Yeah, I'll take him. 71 00:02:34,430 --> 00:02:36,365 - Are you sure, Sam? - It's fine. It's fine. 72 00:02:36,432 --> 00:02:37,699 Oh, Sam. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 73 00:02:37,767 --> 00:02:39,667 - Stop. Hi, buddy boy. - Oh, go with Sam, Henry. 74 00:02:39,735 --> 00:02:41,469 His bottle's in the fridge, his blanket's in the dryer... 75 00:02:41,537 --> 00:02:43,571 - I got it. I got it. - And the nanny will be here in an hour, tops. 76 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:44,972 - I got it. I got it. - All right? Okay. Bye, Henry. Bye. 77 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,407 Say bye-bye to mama. 78 00:02:46,474 --> 00:02:47,909 (Makes kissing sounds) Bye-bye, Henry. 79 00:02:47,976 --> 00:02:50,711 Say see you later. 80 00:02:50,779 --> 00:02:55,216 Yeah, she has a way of doing that, doesn't she, 81 00:02:55,284 --> 00:02:56,284 getting you to agree to do things 82 00:02:56,351 --> 00:02:57,551 you don't really want to do? 83 00:02:57,619 --> 00:02:59,186 You gotta watch out for that. 84 00:02:59,254 --> 00:03:01,421 Come on, let's go watch some movies. 85 00:03:01,488 --> 00:03:03,156 (Beeps) (Male electronic voices) * Phinedroids and Ferbots * 86 00:03:03,224 --> 00:03:05,025 * Phinedroids and Ferbots * 87 00:03:05,092 --> 00:03:07,827 * Phinedroids and Ferbots, Phinedroids and Ferbots * 88 00:03:07,895 --> 00:03:09,062 Hey, Mase, it's getting late. 89 00:03:09,130 --> 00:03:10,596 You should probably get ready for school. 90 00:03:10,664 --> 00:03:12,832 * and we're stomping our feet * 91 00:03:12,900 --> 00:03:14,834 Mason. 92 00:03:14,902 --> 00:03:16,169 Mason. 93 00:03:16,237 --> 00:03:17,670 I heard you. 94 00:03:17,738 --> 00:03:19,138 And yet, you're not moving. 95 00:03:19,205 --> 00:03:20,506 There's, like, ten minutes left of the show. 96 00:03:20,574 --> 00:03:21,808 I'm not gonna ask you again. 97 00:03:21,875 --> 00:03:23,409 Mason, 98 00:03:23,477 --> 00:03:24,677 it's time to get dressed. 99 00:03:24,745 --> 00:03:25,812 I just told him that. 100 00:03:25,879 --> 00:03:27,580 Right now. 101 00:03:27,648 --> 00:03:30,249 * phinedroids and ferbots * 102 00:03:30,317 --> 00:03:31,216 (Whispers) You suck. 103 00:03:31,284 --> 00:03:33,518 What did you say to me? 104 00:03:33,586 --> 00:03:34,820 Did you hear that? 105 00:03:34,887 --> 00:03:36,054 Sure did. 106 00:03:36,121 --> 00:03:37,889 I'd probably say something about it 107 00:03:37,957 --> 00:03:40,358 if only I were actually his parent. 108 00:03:40,426 --> 00:03:42,594 * 109 00:03:42,662 --> 00:03:45,029 * Phinedroids * 110 00:03:45,097 --> 00:03:46,865 Reina Reyes, 26-year-old female. 111 00:03:46,933 --> 00:03:48,800 Primip at 35 weeks. 112 00:03:48,868 --> 00:03:49,934 Complaining of nausea and vomiting. 113 00:03:50,002 --> 00:03:51,269 Okay, get her on a fetal monitor. 114 00:03:51,337 --> 00:03:53,037 - My baby-- Is he coming? - One, two, three. 115 00:03:53,105 --> 00:03:54,272 Aah. 116 00:03:54,340 --> 00:03:55,974 Are you having contractions, Mrs. Reyes? 117 00:03:56,041 --> 00:03:57,375 - I-I don't know. (Pete) - Any bleeding? 118 00:03:57,443 --> 00:03:58,609 - It hurts. - Did your water break? 119 00:03:58,677 --> 00:04:00,078 Mnh-mnh. 120 00:04:00,145 --> 00:04:01,812 Any pain when you urinate, fevers, chills, back pain? 121 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,381 - No. - Let's get a metabolic panel, 122 00:04:03,449 --> 00:04:04,548 CBC, UA. 123 00:04:04,616 --> 00:04:06,183 This baby needs to come. 124 00:04:06,250 --> 00:04:07,650 Okay, you're not having contractions. 125 00:04:07,718 --> 00:04:09,886 You're not in labor, Mrs. Reyes. 126 00:04:09,954 --> 00:04:11,455 Are you sure? 127 00:04:11,522 --> 00:04:13,723 Yes, I am. Have you eaten anything recently? 128 00:04:13,791 --> 00:04:15,058 Um... 129 00:04:15,126 --> 00:04:17,260 I-I-I don't remember. 130 00:04:17,328 --> 00:04:18,761 (Whimpers) 131 00:04:18,829 --> 00:04:21,030 Mrs. Reyes, if you want us to help you and your baby, 132 00:04:21,098 --> 00:04:22,531 you're gonna have to tell us the truth. 133 00:04:22,599 --> 00:04:25,801 Did you eat anything? Did you take anything? 134 00:04:25,869 --> 00:04:28,837 They told me if I drink it, the baby comes. 135 00:04:28,905 --> 00:04:31,273 I keep drinking and trying more. 136 00:04:31,341 --> 00:04:32,508 What did you drink? 137 00:04:32,575 --> 00:04:35,111 Tía Carina cocoa. 138 00:04:35,178 --> 00:04:36,512 It's a folk medicine. 139 00:04:36,579 --> 00:04:37,945 It's a chocolate tablet you dissolve in hot milk. 140 00:04:38,014 --> 00:04:40,115 It's probably loaded with ergotamines. 141 00:04:40,182 --> 00:04:42,283 Causes smooth muscle contractions that mimic labor. 142 00:04:42,351 --> 00:04:43,985 In large doses, causes this. 143 00:04:44,053 --> 00:04:45,920 Mrs. Reyes, we're gonna have you drink some charcoal 144 00:04:45,988 --> 00:04:48,323 to help absorb the toxins. 145 00:04:48,391 --> 00:04:50,058 We're gonna keep you on IV fluids, 146 00:04:50,126 --> 00:04:51,559 and in a few hours, you should feel better. 147 00:04:51,627 --> 00:04:53,960 Can I ask, though, why did you drink it? 148 00:04:54,029 --> 00:04:55,962 (Monitor beeping rhythmically) 149 00:04:56,031 --> 00:04:58,832 They're deporting me. 150 00:04:58,900 --> 00:05:01,402 (Cries) But I want my baby to stay here. 151 00:05:01,469 --> 00:05:03,670 I want my baby to have a life. 152 00:05:07,575 --> 00:05:11,343 Sync and corrections by n17t01 www.addic7ed.com 153 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:14,914 She tried to self-induce? 154 00:05:14,982 --> 00:05:16,516 Yeah. If her baby's born here, he's a citizen. 155 00:05:16,583 --> 00:05:18,217 That way, if she's deported, he can stay. 156 00:05:18,285 --> 00:05:20,219 Stay, but be put in the system. 157 00:05:20,287 --> 00:05:21,988 She figures, she'll leave him somewhere 158 00:05:22,056 --> 00:05:23,023 he'll have a shot at a better life, 159 00:05:23,090 --> 00:05:24,323 and that's worth it. 160 00:05:24,391 --> 00:05:25,758 I just got off the phone with immigration. 161 00:05:25,825 --> 00:05:28,160 They issued a removal order for Reina Reyes, 162 00:05:28,227 --> 00:05:29,628 but she never showed up on her deportation date. 163 00:05:29,696 --> 00:05:31,063 So they want to put her on a plane 164 00:05:31,131 --> 00:05:32,531 back to El Salvador tomorrow. 165 00:05:32,598 --> 00:05:34,033 Well, she's not gonna deliver by then. 166 00:05:34,100 --> 00:05:35,167 We could induce. 167 00:05:35,234 --> 00:05:36,401 Pete, she's only 35 weeks. 168 00:05:36,469 --> 00:05:37,903 And it's not medically indicated. 169 00:05:37,971 --> 00:05:39,972 Mothers schedule deliveries for all kinds of reasons. 170 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,139 I worked with an OB who would induce 171 00:05:41,206 --> 00:05:42,940 if it threatened his Saturday tee time. 172 00:05:43,008 --> 00:05:44,642 We are talking about a baby 173 00:05:44,710 --> 00:05:46,510 that could have another month inside the womb. 174 00:05:46,578 --> 00:05:48,846 There's a 90% survival rate at 35 weeks. 175 00:05:48,914 --> 00:05:50,347 And there's a 10% mortality rate. 176 00:05:50,415 --> 00:05:51,683 And even if the baby does make it, 177 00:05:51,750 --> 00:05:53,051 we're talking about time in the incubator, 178 00:05:53,118 --> 00:05:55,352 surfactants to help lung growth. 179 00:05:55,420 --> 00:05:57,387 It's a very tough road. 180 00:05:57,454 --> 00:05:59,522 (Pete) Yeah, but, Addison, we're talking about a baby 181 00:05:59,590 --> 00:06:01,591 born in this hospital with us taking care of him. 182 00:06:01,659 --> 00:06:03,694 And you weigh that against Reina taking him to a place 183 00:06:03,761 --> 00:06:05,395 where it's gonna be tough to find clean water-- 184 00:06:05,462 --> 00:06:06,830 Believe me, I'm not arguing against birth mothers 185 00:06:06,898 --> 00:06:08,031 putting their babies in a position 186 00:06:08,099 --> 00:06:09,199 to have a better life. 187 00:06:09,266 --> 00:06:10,734 That's why I have Henry. 188 00:06:10,802 --> 00:06:12,535 It's just-- It's not right that we're discussing 189 00:06:12,603 --> 00:06:14,503 delivering a baby prematurely 190 00:06:14,571 --> 00:06:16,471 so that he doesn't live in poverty. 191 00:06:16,539 --> 00:06:17,940 It's an awful choice. 192 00:06:18,008 --> 00:06:19,575 It is, but, Addison, I worked in El Salvador, 193 00:06:19,642 --> 00:06:21,877 and I'm telling you, in rural areas, 194 00:06:21,945 --> 00:06:24,379 there is minimal access to health care. 195 00:06:24,447 --> 00:06:26,015 The infant mortality rate is triple ours. 196 00:06:26,083 --> 00:06:27,416 (Charlotte) Which is a tragedy, 197 00:06:27,483 --> 00:06:29,184 but there's not a lot we can do about that here. 198 00:06:29,251 --> 00:06:30,885 We're in the business of making sick people better 199 00:06:30,953 --> 00:06:33,421 and delivering babies for women who are ready to give birth. 200 00:06:33,488 --> 00:06:35,423 Now right now, Reina doesn't fit in either box. 201 00:06:35,490 --> 00:06:36,991 So either we discharge her-- 202 00:06:37,059 --> 00:06:39,260 - Or deliver the baby right now. (Addison) - Despite the fact that 203 00:06:39,328 --> 00:06:40,628 it's clearly not what's best for the baby? 204 00:06:40,696 --> 00:06:41,963 Isn't that Reina's call? 205 00:06:42,031 --> 00:06:44,465 (Sighs) 206 00:06:44,533 --> 00:06:47,367 (Indistinct conversations) 207 00:06:49,838 --> 00:06:51,138 Hi. 208 00:06:51,206 --> 00:06:52,305 Good to see you. 209 00:06:52,373 --> 00:06:53,506 Good to see you. 210 00:06:53,574 --> 00:06:54,641 - Hey, Dr. Cooper. - Hey. 211 00:06:54,709 --> 00:06:55,976 Mel. 212 00:06:56,044 --> 00:06:59,346 So Melody has been miserable all week. 213 00:06:59,413 --> 00:07:00,880 (Woman) First it was her throat, 214 00:07:00,948 --> 00:07:03,716 then she stopped eating, now her ears hurt. 215 00:07:03,784 --> 00:07:05,084 Okay, that's a lot of symptoms. 216 00:07:05,152 --> 00:07:06,452 (Man) And we tried the over-the-counter stuff, 217 00:07:06,519 --> 00:07:08,354 but nothing worked. 218 00:07:08,421 --> 00:07:10,089 - She just seems to be getting worse. - All right. 219 00:07:10,157 --> 00:07:11,958 Well, Mel, let's check you out. 220 00:07:12,025 --> 00:07:14,393 All right, I'll, uh, I'll wait here. 221 00:07:16,230 --> 00:07:17,996 I don't need you to come in with me, mom. 222 00:07:18,064 --> 00:07:20,966 I'm not a baby. 223 00:07:21,033 --> 00:07:22,134 You know what, Pam? 224 00:07:22,201 --> 00:07:23,468 Why don't I check out Mel, 225 00:07:23,535 --> 00:07:25,003 and if we do need you, we'll come get you? 226 00:07:25,071 --> 00:07:26,471 (Elevator bell dings) 227 00:07:26,538 --> 00:07:30,675 (Indistinct conversations continue) 228 00:07:30,743 --> 00:07:32,644 How are you feeling? 229 00:07:32,711 --> 00:07:34,678 Tired. 230 00:07:34,746 --> 00:07:36,346 Huge. 231 00:07:36,414 --> 00:07:38,783 Well, your weight gain is right where it should be 232 00:07:38,850 --> 00:07:40,317 for the third trimester. 233 00:07:40,385 --> 00:07:42,853 Any problems, any GI or GU complaints? 234 00:07:42,921 --> 00:07:45,022 No, everything feels normal... 235 00:07:45,090 --> 00:07:47,158 Which just seems cruel. 236 00:07:48,559 --> 00:07:49,826 Should I... 237 00:07:49,894 --> 00:07:51,261 (Sighs) 238 00:07:51,328 --> 00:07:52,628 Is there anything I should be doing 239 00:07:52,696 --> 00:07:56,299 to help my baby reach the optimal birth weight... 240 00:07:56,366 --> 00:07:57,500 For the transplants? 241 00:07:57,567 --> 00:07:58,902 Well, you're doing it. 242 00:07:58,969 --> 00:08:00,270 You're resting. You're eating right. 243 00:08:00,337 --> 00:08:01,771 If you keep taking care of yourself, 244 00:08:01,839 --> 00:08:06,175 this, uh, this baby will be able to help a lot of others. 245 00:08:08,077 --> 00:08:10,345 And when it's time for me to deliver? 246 00:08:10,413 --> 00:08:12,347 Well, my hope is that you'll deliver naturally at term, 247 00:08:12,415 --> 00:08:15,284 but sometimes women carrying anencephalic babies 248 00:08:15,351 --> 00:08:17,186 don't always get the signal from their bodies 249 00:08:17,253 --> 00:08:18,453 to go into labor. 250 00:08:18,521 --> 00:08:20,622 If that happens, I'll induce, 251 00:08:20,690 --> 00:08:21,956 once the baby is born, I'll-- 252 00:08:22,024 --> 00:08:23,257 I'll have you sign the consent forms, 253 00:08:23,325 --> 00:08:26,427 and then the transplant team will take over. 254 00:08:28,096 --> 00:08:31,098 Everybody at the practice is looking at me now, you know? 255 00:08:31,166 --> 00:08:33,467 Like they're afraid to say anything to the crazy lady 256 00:08:33,535 --> 00:08:35,703 who's carrying a baby with no brain to term. 257 00:08:35,770 --> 00:08:38,205 I'm sure they all want to support you. 258 00:08:38,272 --> 00:08:40,874 Maybe if you let them know what the plan is, that... 259 00:08:40,942 --> 00:08:42,542 No. 260 00:08:42,609 --> 00:08:44,010 I just... 261 00:08:44,078 --> 00:08:47,214 I can't handle talking about this with anyone but you. 262 00:08:48,615 --> 00:08:49,950 Okay? 263 00:08:50,017 --> 00:08:52,152 Okay. 264 00:09:00,727 --> 00:09:02,061 - Hey. - Hey. 265 00:09:02,128 --> 00:09:04,029 Thank you for watching Henry. 266 00:09:04,097 --> 00:09:06,031 I-I really appreciate it. 267 00:09:06,099 --> 00:09:07,266 - Yeah, no problem. - Was he fussy? 268 00:09:07,334 --> 00:09:08,967 No, it was fine. 269 00:09:09,034 --> 00:09:11,336 (Laughs) Did he do that thing where he stretches 270 00:09:11,403 --> 00:09:13,838 and he looks like a relaxed old man? 271 00:09:13,906 --> 00:09:16,341 You know, honestly, I didn't notice. 272 00:09:16,408 --> 00:09:19,077 You did... offer to watch him, Sam. 273 00:09:19,144 --> 00:09:20,945 Yeah. 274 00:09:21,013 --> 00:09:23,414 Well, you shouldn't have if it was just gonna piss you off. 275 00:09:23,482 --> 00:09:25,082 (Keys jangle) 276 00:09:25,149 --> 00:09:26,984 Sorry for the inconvenience. 277 00:09:29,087 --> 00:09:30,754 (Sighs) 278 00:09:30,821 --> 00:09:34,056 You know your parents are just looking out for you, right? 279 00:09:34,124 --> 00:09:36,859 By following me everywhere I go? 280 00:09:36,927 --> 00:09:38,127 That's what parents are supposed to do. 281 00:09:38,195 --> 00:09:40,062 All right. Your ears look good. 282 00:09:40,130 --> 00:09:41,830 Your glands are okay. 283 00:09:41,899 --> 00:09:43,332 Open your mouth and say "ahh." 284 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,466 Ahh. 285 00:09:44,534 --> 00:09:45,968 You're 10 years old. 286 00:09:46,036 --> 00:09:48,537 That means they got, like, eight more years to hassle you. 287 00:09:50,706 --> 00:09:52,673 All right, no fever, no swelling, no redness. 288 00:09:52,741 --> 00:09:55,076 If I didn't know better, I would think maybe 289 00:09:55,144 --> 00:09:57,545 somebody wants to ditch school today. 290 00:09:57,613 --> 00:09:59,647 You got a big test or something? 291 00:09:59,715 --> 00:10:01,082 Hey. 292 00:10:01,150 --> 00:10:03,251 You've been coming to me since you were 2 years old. 293 00:10:03,319 --> 00:10:05,120 You know you can tell me anything. 294 00:10:08,556 --> 00:10:10,690 They won't listen to me, Dr. Freedman. 295 00:10:10,758 --> 00:10:12,993 I keep telling them, but they don't believe me. 296 00:10:13,061 --> 00:10:14,962 What don't they believe? 297 00:10:16,864 --> 00:10:18,365 Hey. 298 00:10:18,433 --> 00:10:20,734 I can't help you unless you tell me what's going on. 299 00:10:22,502 --> 00:10:25,405 I'm a boy. 300 00:10:33,152 --> 00:10:34,152 Of course Melody's parents won't listen. 301 00:10:34,220 --> 00:10:35,821 Who wants to hear that? 302 00:10:35,888 --> 00:10:37,323 Look, parenting ain't easy, all right? That's the job. 303 00:10:37,390 --> 00:10:39,458 It's-- it's how you handle it that's the issue. 304 00:10:39,526 --> 00:10:41,460 Well, denying Melody's feelings isn't the answer. 305 00:10:41,528 --> 00:10:43,094 I mean, she says she's always known she was a boy. 306 00:10:43,162 --> 00:10:44,496 Even as a toddler, she felt like 307 00:10:44,564 --> 00:10:45,964 she was trapped in a girl's body. 308 00:10:46,032 --> 00:10:48,166 She used to line up to-- to go to the boys' bathroom. 309 00:10:48,234 --> 00:10:49,467 She wanted to play on the boys' sports teams. 310 00:10:49,535 --> 00:10:51,135 Well, isn't that just being a tomboy? 311 00:10:51,203 --> 00:10:52,704 - Could be GID. (Amelia) - She's 10. 312 00:10:52,771 --> 00:10:54,572 You can't diagnose Gender Identity Disorder in a kid. 313 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,141 Her prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed. 314 00:10:57,209 --> 00:10:58,609 Well, that doesn't mean she doesn't know how she feels. 315 00:10:58,677 --> 00:11:00,645 No, but it might mean she doesn't really understand it. 316 00:11:00,713 --> 00:11:03,681 Look, when Maya was 8, she said she wanted to be a fireman. 317 00:11:03,749 --> 00:11:05,415 She grew out of it. 318 00:11:05,483 --> 00:11:07,116 And Melody probably will, too. 319 00:11:07,184 --> 00:11:09,052 As soon as she hits puberty, the hormones will kick in, 320 00:11:09,119 --> 00:11:10,454 she'll start to develop, 321 00:11:10,521 --> 00:11:11,555 and she'll want to be around boys. 322 00:11:11,622 --> 00:11:13,022 She won't want to be one. 323 00:11:13,090 --> 00:11:14,358 Well, it's a little bit more complicated than that. 324 00:11:14,425 --> 00:11:16,460 Kids with GID experience a disconnect between 325 00:11:16,527 --> 00:11:17,927 their sex, which is anatomy, and their gender, 326 00:11:17,995 --> 00:11:19,663 which is emotions, behaviors, and everything else. 327 00:11:19,731 --> 00:11:21,296 And the longer they're forced to live with the wrong gender, 328 00:11:21,365 --> 00:11:22,732 the more damage is done. 329 00:11:22,799 --> 00:11:24,367 And the sooner they can integrate their external body 330 00:11:24,434 --> 00:11:26,435 with their internal image of themselves, 331 00:11:26,503 --> 00:11:27,870 the better they do. 332 00:11:27,937 --> 00:11:29,505 You're talking about Melody dressing up like a boy? 333 00:11:29,573 --> 00:11:31,173 For a start. 334 00:11:31,241 --> 00:11:33,141 Well, it's one thing if they allow her to do that at home, 335 00:11:33,209 --> 00:11:34,744 but once she steps foot in school, 336 00:11:34,811 --> 00:11:36,011 I mean, she's gonna open herself up to ridicule, 337 00:11:36,079 --> 00:11:37,545 possibly bullying-- 338 00:11:37,613 --> 00:11:38,680 Okay, so we're saying she's screwed either way? 339 00:11:38,748 --> 00:11:39,814 I mean, she lives like a boy 340 00:11:39,882 --> 00:11:41,148 and she risks getting 341 00:11:41,216 --> 00:11:42,350 the crap kicked out of her at school every day, 342 00:11:42,418 --> 00:11:43,951 or she lives like a girl and has to face 343 00:11:44,019 --> 00:11:45,820 the angst and depression of being caught in the wrong body? 344 00:11:45,888 --> 00:11:47,489 (Violet) Well, it's-- It's not just depression. 345 00:11:47,556 --> 00:11:49,724 I mean, kids with true GID often hurt themselves. 346 00:11:49,792 --> 00:11:51,325 They cut themselves, they do drugs, 347 00:11:51,394 --> 00:11:52,827 suicide rate is five times the national average. 348 00:11:52,895 --> 00:11:56,463 Okay, well, that means... You have to talk to her 349 00:11:56,531 --> 00:11:58,366 and make a diagnosis. 350 00:11:58,433 --> 00:11:59,633 And if it is GID, 351 00:11:59,701 --> 00:12:01,035 we need to explain it to the parents. 352 00:12:01,103 --> 00:12:03,404 Well, that's assuming they'll listen. 353 00:12:03,471 --> 00:12:05,139 (Addison) Well, 354 00:12:05,207 --> 00:12:06,740 I just can't help thinking 355 00:12:06,808 --> 00:12:09,175 that while I am obsessing over whether or not my nanny 356 00:12:09,243 --> 00:12:10,777 can work longer hours, 357 00:12:10,844 --> 00:12:14,680 this mother is trying to keep her kid alive. 358 00:12:14,748 --> 00:12:17,517 You have rich white lady guilt. 359 00:12:17,584 --> 00:12:19,986 Yes. No. 360 00:12:20,054 --> 00:12:21,821 I-- Come on, Violet. I have a mixed-race baby. 361 00:12:21,889 --> 00:12:24,391 I adopted him from a woman with limited options. 362 00:12:24,458 --> 00:12:25,757 - It's not like I don't get it. - I know. 363 00:12:25,825 --> 00:12:27,326 But it's hard. 364 00:12:27,394 --> 00:12:29,828 You have $10,000 worth of baby clothes in Henry's closet, 365 00:12:29,896 --> 00:12:32,331 and you have no way to help this woman who's actually desperate. 366 00:12:32,399 --> 00:12:34,266 (Sighs) Yes. 367 00:12:34,334 --> 00:12:35,734 And you're not comfortable inducing? 368 00:12:35,802 --> 00:12:37,136 I don't know. 369 00:12:37,203 --> 00:12:38,737 It's not ideal, but I mean, 370 00:12:38,805 --> 00:12:40,705 then neither is bringing the baby back to El Salvador. 371 00:12:40,773 --> 00:12:42,140 And when did Charlotte say immigration is coming? 372 00:12:42,207 --> 00:12:43,507 Uh, the next 24 hours. 373 00:12:43,575 --> 00:12:45,043 Oh, I'm so sorry. 374 00:12:45,110 --> 00:12:46,811 Yeah. 375 00:12:46,878 --> 00:12:50,614 Well, you can always take Pete's strategy 376 00:12:50,682 --> 00:12:52,317 and do nothing until it blows up in your face. 377 00:12:52,384 --> 00:12:53,451 What blew up in your face? 378 00:12:53,518 --> 00:12:54,885 Nothing. Nothing yet. 379 00:12:54,954 --> 00:12:56,887 No, he just wants to, uh, do the whole, 380 00:12:56,955 --> 00:12:58,288 you know, "put down the baggage thing," 381 00:12:58,356 --> 00:12:59,756 and, uh, I am wary. 382 00:12:59,824 --> 00:13:02,092 Okay, what exactly does that mean, put down the baggage? 383 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,261 It means he wants to go to dinner instead of therapy. 384 00:13:04,329 --> 00:13:06,029 Are the two mutually exclusive? 385 00:13:06,097 --> 00:13:07,998 To him they are. 386 00:13:08,066 --> 00:13:09,599 I-- Look, I... 387 00:13:09,667 --> 00:13:10,834 I don't feel like I can say no. 388 00:13:10,901 --> 00:13:12,169 I don't even want to say no, 389 00:13:12,236 --> 00:13:13,735 I just-- I want us to work, 390 00:13:13,803 --> 00:13:16,172 and I don't think that we can get there on our own anymore 391 00:13:16,239 --> 00:13:18,441 but... (Sighs) 392 00:13:18,508 --> 00:13:21,610 But maybe I can use the dinner to convince him to... 393 00:13:21,678 --> 00:13:25,047 Go back to therapy. 394 00:13:25,115 --> 00:13:27,416 (Laughs) 395 00:13:27,484 --> 00:13:30,452 (People speaking indistinctly) 396 00:13:30,519 --> 00:13:31,987 (Knocks on doorjamb) 397 00:13:32,054 --> 00:13:33,121 Hey, any chance you could pick up Mason after school today? 398 00:13:33,189 --> 00:13:34,489 Sure. 399 00:13:34,556 --> 00:13:36,091 I have this, uh, patient-- Melody, 10-year-old girl 400 00:13:36,158 --> 00:13:37,525 who thinks she's a little boy. 401 00:13:37,593 --> 00:13:39,694 Violet and I are gonna go over and talk to the parents. 402 00:13:39,761 --> 00:13:42,163 I cannot imagine dealing with that as a parent. 403 00:13:42,231 --> 00:13:43,931 Yeah, well, I wouldn't know about that. 404 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,400 Oh, come on, Charlotte. I apologized for saying that. 405 00:13:46,468 --> 00:13:48,035 No, you've been talking to me like you've apologized. 406 00:13:48,103 --> 00:13:49,569 You've been saying the things people say 407 00:13:49,637 --> 00:13:51,005 after they've apologized. 408 00:13:51,072 --> 00:13:53,374 But the actual apology, I never heard that. 409 00:13:53,441 --> 00:13:55,275 God, please don't do this. 410 00:13:55,343 --> 00:13:56,443 My son is barely talking to me. 411 00:13:56,511 --> 00:13:57,711 He doesn't listen to a word I say. 412 00:13:57,778 --> 00:13:59,413 He only responds to you. I'm a little pissed off. 413 00:13:59,481 --> 00:14:01,381 There's only child in our family, Cooper. 414 00:14:01,448 --> 00:14:03,616 So grow up and get over it. 415 00:14:05,119 --> 00:14:06,585 (Sighs) 416 00:14:08,755 --> 00:14:11,290 (People speaking indistinctly) 417 00:14:11,358 --> 00:14:12,925 I'm worried about Amelia. 418 00:14:12,993 --> 00:14:14,627 She's not seeing me for prenatal care. 419 00:14:14,694 --> 00:14:16,595 I don't even know if she's getting any medical attention-- 420 00:14:16,663 --> 00:14:18,863 I've got it covered. 421 00:14:18,931 --> 00:14:20,932 Oh, so you're her OB? 422 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:22,401 I've got it covered, Addison. 423 00:14:22,468 --> 00:14:24,036 That's it? 424 00:14:24,103 --> 00:14:25,703 You're not gonna tell me how she's doing physically, 425 00:14:25,771 --> 00:14:26,804 emotionally-- 426 00:14:26,872 --> 00:14:28,507 I am not discussing this with you. 427 00:14:28,574 --> 00:14:30,175 Okay, look, I respect that. I do. I do. 428 00:14:30,243 --> 00:14:31,676 I mean, Amelia's made it very clear 429 00:14:31,744 --> 00:14:33,645 that she doesn't want my help, but I just--I love her, 430 00:14:33,712 --> 00:14:35,346 and I-I want her to know that if she needs me-- 431 00:14:35,414 --> 00:14:37,916 If you want to tell Amelia something, tell her yourself. 432 00:14:37,983 --> 00:14:39,083 I'm not getting in the middle of it. 433 00:14:44,924 --> 00:14:47,692 (Indistinct conversations) 434 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:48,960 ¿Usted ha visitado a Santa Ana? 435 00:14:49,028 --> 00:14:51,161 Hace muchos años. 436 00:14:51,228 --> 00:14:52,395 Hey. 437 00:14:52,463 --> 00:14:54,031 - Hey. - How are you feeling? 438 00:14:54,098 --> 00:14:57,167 Fine. But I'm running out of time. 439 00:14:57,234 --> 00:14:58,735 Reina was just telling me about the village where she's from. 440 00:14:58,803 --> 00:15:01,038 I helped set up a clinic in that area years ago. 441 00:15:01,105 --> 00:15:03,907 I know this clinic, but it's just a building now. 442 00:15:03,975 --> 00:15:05,676 When I was little, the doctors left, 443 00:15:05,743 --> 00:15:08,010 and it was hard for us to get any medicines. 444 00:15:08,079 --> 00:15:09,479 Wait. What? 445 00:15:09,547 --> 00:15:11,281 I spent a year down there. We made so much progress. 446 00:15:11,348 --> 00:15:12,815 But the crime and the poverty 447 00:15:12,883 --> 00:15:14,384 and the hurricanes-- 448 00:15:14,452 --> 00:15:16,586 You could not do anything about that. 449 00:15:16,653 --> 00:15:18,088 No one can. 450 00:15:18,155 --> 00:15:19,822 If I could make a life for my baby at home, 451 00:15:19,890 --> 00:15:21,524 I would not have come here. 452 00:15:21,592 --> 00:15:23,158 But I can't. 453 00:15:23,226 --> 00:15:24,560 No, I know, Reina, 454 00:15:24,627 --> 00:15:27,262 and I can't imagine how hard this is for you, truly. 455 00:15:27,330 --> 00:15:29,531 But I do need you to understand the risks your baby would face 456 00:15:29,599 --> 00:15:30,865 if you had him now. 457 00:15:30,933 --> 00:15:33,402 I do. I promise you. 458 00:15:33,470 --> 00:15:36,371 But I want you to understand the risk 459 00:15:36,439 --> 00:15:38,206 if I don't have him now. 460 00:15:47,968 --> 00:15:49,501 Hey. 461 00:15:49,569 --> 00:15:50,869 You all right? 462 00:15:50,938 --> 00:15:53,405 Ooh. I am trying so hard not to be angry right now. 463 00:15:53,472 --> 00:15:54,839 Uh-oh. Addison? 464 00:15:54,907 --> 00:15:57,309 Huh. Who else? 465 00:15:57,376 --> 00:15:58,543 She drops by this morning, 466 00:15:58,610 --> 00:16:00,245 asks me if I can look after Henry. 467 00:16:00,313 --> 00:16:01,413 Really? 468 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:02,747 Yeah, man. 469 00:16:02,815 --> 00:16:05,116 I mean, she didn't "ask me" ask me, 470 00:16:05,184 --> 00:16:06,451 but, you know, the nanny was late, 471 00:16:06,518 --> 00:16:08,118 she couldn't find anybody else to cover. 472 00:16:08,186 --> 00:16:10,254 What am I supposed to say, no? 473 00:16:10,322 --> 00:16:12,089 It's just like when you were together. 474 00:16:12,157 --> 00:16:13,457 Y-- 475 00:16:13,524 --> 00:16:15,125 That's not funny, man. 476 00:16:15,193 --> 00:16:17,161 I mean, I shouldn't even be an option, right? 477 00:16:17,228 --> 00:16:18,362 I'm the ex. 478 00:16:18,430 --> 00:16:20,364 (Sighs) 479 00:16:20,432 --> 00:16:21,531 That Henry is a cute little baby, though. 480 00:16:21,599 --> 00:16:24,000 And we circle back. 481 00:16:24,068 --> 00:16:26,569 You know what? You're right. 482 00:16:27,838 --> 00:16:29,205 She wanted that baby. 483 00:16:29,273 --> 00:16:31,507 She should handle him on her own. 484 00:16:31,575 --> 00:16:33,642 Hey... stop trying to be the bad guy. 485 00:16:33,710 --> 00:16:35,744 It's not really you. 486 00:16:43,453 --> 00:16:44,586 Hey. 487 00:16:44,653 --> 00:16:45,887 Hey. 488 00:16:45,955 --> 00:16:48,490 Reina really put us on the spot earlier, huh? 489 00:16:48,557 --> 00:16:49,924 Yeah, well, I get it. 490 00:16:49,993 --> 00:16:51,793 You know, she's a mother advocating for her child. 491 00:16:51,861 --> 00:16:53,628 Oh, it's so frustrating. 492 00:16:53,696 --> 00:16:55,030 You know, we opened a clinic near where Reina lived 493 00:16:55,098 --> 00:16:56,630 in Santa Ana. 494 00:16:56,698 --> 00:16:58,132 We staffed it, we trained people, 495 00:16:58,200 --> 00:16:59,633 and in a region that's that deprived, 496 00:16:59,701 --> 00:17:01,802 even the slightest changes make a huge difference. 497 00:17:01,870 --> 00:17:03,804 You know, a little access to preventative care 498 00:17:03,872 --> 00:17:05,639 - and medicine, it's... - I know. 499 00:17:05,707 --> 00:17:08,409 I left there thinking that the problem was solved. 500 00:17:08,477 --> 00:17:10,978 Is there any chance that Reina would want to stay here, 501 00:17:11,046 --> 00:17:13,113 fight the deportation, try to make a life? 502 00:17:13,180 --> 00:17:14,447 I asked her that. She said she tried. 503 00:17:14,515 --> 00:17:15,681 She traveled all the way up through Mexico, 504 00:17:15,749 --> 00:17:17,150 she snuck across the border, 505 00:17:17,218 --> 00:17:18,318 immediately applied for asylum, 506 00:17:18,386 --> 00:17:19,619 but she lost her hearing and her appeal. 507 00:17:19,686 --> 00:17:21,087 So she's out of options. 508 00:17:21,155 --> 00:17:22,922 What if we sponsor her, 509 00:17:22,990 --> 00:17:24,891 and do whatever it takes, get her a job? 510 00:17:24,958 --> 00:17:26,926 That's not really the way the process works. 511 00:17:26,994 --> 00:17:28,895 I just... I don't know. 512 00:17:28,962 --> 00:17:31,063 If I induce her, then I'm gonna feel responsible for 513 00:17:31,131 --> 00:17:33,132 a woman leaving her baby. 514 00:17:33,199 --> 00:17:34,867 This is not on you, Addison. 515 00:17:41,909 --> 00:17:43,208 Physically, Melody is fine. 516 00:17:43,276 --> 00:17:44,443 She has no infections. 517 00:17:44,511 --> 00:17:45,644 Her blood work came back totally normal. 518 00:17:45,711 --> 00:17:48,079 But emotionally, I am a little concerned, 519 00:17:48,147 --> 00:17:50,415 which is why I asked Dr. Turner to join us. 520 00:17:50,482 --> 00:17:52,717 We may have noticed some things about your daughter 521 00:17:52,785 --> 00:17:53,952 that might be a little concerning 522 00:17:54,020 --> 00:17:55,119 or hard to understand-- 523 00:17:55,187 --> 00:17:56,655 What are you talking about? 524 00:17:56,722 --> 00:17:59,123 We understand her just fine. 525 00:18:00,992 --> 00:18:03,360 Well, Melody feels like she's a boy 526 00:18:03,428 --> 00:18:05,095 trapped in a girl's body. 527 00:18:05,163 --> 00:18:06,530 Not that again. 528 00:18:06,598 --> 00:18:08,231 No, Melody's always loved make-believe. 529 00:18:08,299 --> 00:18:10,300 From the time she was little, she would always do these plays 530 00:18:10,368 --> 00:18:11,702 where she was the cowboy, the cowgirl, the horse. 531 00:18:11,770 --> 00:18:13,704 She'd dress up, do different voices. 532 00:18:13,772 --> 00:18:15,839 I'm not sure if this is make-believe. 533 00:18:15,907 --> 00:18:18,575 Sh-she may have something called GID-- 534 00:18:18,642 --> 00:18:20,610 Gender Identity Disorder. 535 00:18:20,678 --> 00:18:23,546 Or she's just confused, going through a stage. 536 00:18:23,614 --> 00:18:25,514 Maybe. Maybe. 537 00:18:25,583 --> 00:18:27,383 I-I won't really know until I have a chance to speak with her 538 00:18:27,451 --> 00:18:29,418 and to do that, I need your permission. 539 00:18:29,486 --> 00:18:33,088 Well, if she does have this GID... 540 00:18:33,155 --> 00:18:35,657 Is there anything you can do to cure it? 541 00:18:35,725 --> 00:18:38,193 Well, that wouldn't really be our approach to this. 542 00:18:38,260 --> 00:18:41,797 Therapy would be more about helping Melody adjust 543 00:18:41,864 --> 00:18:43,264 to her new reality. 544 00:18:43,332 --> 00:18:44,766 (Cooper) And in addition to therapy, 545 00:18:44,834 --> 00:18:46,434 there are hormone-blocking drugs that could 546 00:18:46,502 --> 00:18:48,269 stave off puberty for her 547 00:18:48,337 --> 00:18:50,170 so that she would have some time to deal with these issues. 548 00:18:50,238 --> 00:18:51,639 Well, Dr. Freedman, that-- 549 00:18:51,707 --> 00:18:53,574 (Pam) This is a joke, right? 550 00:18:53,642 --> 00:18:55,977 You want us to stop our daughter from growing up 551 00:18:56,044 --> 00:18:57,745 because she told you some ridiculous story 552 00:18:57,813 --> 00:18:59,513 - about being a boy? - I know this is a lot to take in. 553 00:18:59,581 --> 00:19:00,881 I won't listen to any more of this. 554 00:19:00,949 --> 00:19:04,518 You have to leave right now. 555 00:19:08,889 --> 00:19:10,957 And stay the hell away from our daughter. 556 00:19:11,025 --> 00:19:15,294 ♪ 557 00:19:15,362 --> 00:19:17,263 (Man) * days in our lives * 558 00:19:17,331 --> 00:19:19,799 ♪ you know ♪ 559 00:19:19,867 --> 00:19:23,035 A man who has lived and worked all over the world 560 00:19:23,103 --> 00:19:24,369 has eaten practically everything, 561 00:19:24,437 --> 00:19:26,772 and yet, cannot stand the one thing I always crave. 562 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:28,440 Yeah, well, you work in a thai village 563 00:19:28,508 --> 00:19:30,075 and eat nothing but massaman curry for a month 564 00:19:30,143 --> 00:19:31,810 and see if you still like it. 565 00:19:31,878 --> 00:19:33,411 Remember, we came here every other day 566 00:19:33,479 --> 00:19:34,947 the first few weeks we were together? 567 00:19:35,015 --> 00:19:36,281 How could I forget? 568 00:19:36,349 --> 00:19:37,548 Why did you do that? 569 00:19:37,616 --> 00:19:39,751 Because I... Got to be with you. 570 00:19:39,818 --> 00:19:41,285 It was worth it. 571 00:19:41,353 --> 00:19:43,921 Why are you doing it now? 572 00:19:43,989 --> 00:19:45,222 ♪ 573 00:19:45,290 --> 00:19:46,924 Are you wooing me? 574 00:19:46,992 --> 00:19:48,425 Well, I really didn't get to finish doing that 575 00:19:48,493 --> 00:19:49,661 that first time around, did I? 576 00:19:49,728 --> 00:19:50,995 Uh, yeah, right. 577 00:19:51,063 --> 00:19:53,163 Well, let's see, um, sex... 578 00:19:53,230 --> 00:19:54,430 Mm-hmm. 579 00:19:54,498 --> 00:19:57,034 Baby, horrific attack... (Laughs) 580 00:19:57,101 --> 00:20:00,236 Prolonged absence due to emotional devastation, 581 00:20:00,304 --> 00:20:02,238 and then, you know, marriage. (Laughs) 582 00:20:02,306 --> 00:20:04,174 (Laughs) 583 00:20:04,241 --> 00:20:06,743 Maybe that's our problem. 584 00:20:06,811 --> 00:20:08,378 Or it's just our way. 585 00:20:08,445 --> 00:20:11,446 (Laughs) 586 00:20:11,514 --> 00:20:12,915 You know, I'm glad we're doing this. I am. 587 00:20:12,983 --> 00:20:15,084 I-I heard what you said in therapy, and I-- and I get it. 588 00:20:15,152 --> 00:20:16,652 We should have fun. 589 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,654 But you have to understand, 590 00:20:18,722 --> 00:20:21,057 we still have work to do. 591 00:20:21,124 --> 00:20:22,257 ♪ 592 00:20:22,325 --> 00:20:23,525 Right? 593 00:20:23,593 --> 00:20:27,896 ♪ oh, the other day ♪ 594 00:20:27,963 --> 00:20:31,800 ♪ they lost it in their heads ♪ 595 00:20:31,867 --> 00:20:33,234 I missed this. 596 00:20:33,302 --> 00:20:35,070 Me, too. 597 00:20:35,137 --> 00:20:37,739 I miss you. 598 00:20:37,807 --> 00:20:39,174 I miss us. 599 00:20:39,241 --> 00:20:41,875 ♪ and I tracked and kept receipts ♪ 600 00:20:41,943 --> 00:20:46,368 ♪ for the day they turn the bastards on their head ♪ 601 00:20:49,994 --> 00:20:51,428 Hey, your shoelace is untied there, buddy. 602 00:20:51,496 --> 00:20:52,995 It's fine. 603 00:20:53,062 --> 00:20:54,263 It's not fine. You're gonna-- You're gonna trip. 604 00:20:54,331 --> 00:20:55,297 You're gonna hurt yourself. Mason, hey. 605 00:20:55,365 --> 00:20:56,732 Cooper. 606 00:20:56,799 --> 00:20:58,066 I understand that you're upset your mom is gone, 607 00:20:58,135 --> 00:20:59,668 I know you're struggling with a lot of feelings, 608 00:20:59,736 --> 00:21:01,537 but that doesn't mean you don't have to listen to me. 609 00:21:01,605 --> 00:21:03,139 I'm your father, and when I tell you to do something, 610 00:21:03,206 --> 00:21:04,473 I expect you to listen. 611 00:21:04,541 --> 00:21:06,842 Just leave me alone. 612 00:21:06,909 --> 00:21:08,576 - Mason. - Let him go. 613 00:21:08,644 --> 00:21:10,612 (Children speaking indistinctly) 614 00:21:10,679 --> 00:21:12,013 He's such a little jerk. 615 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:13,714 No, he is in pain, and he's taking it out on you. 616 00:21:13,782 --> 00:21:15,983 Okay, Charlotte, please don't lecture me about children, okay? 617 00:21:16,051 --> 00:21:17,752 I've been dealing with them my entire career. 618 00:21:17,819 --> 00:21:20,188 Other people's children, ten minutes at a time, 619 00:21:20,256 --> 00:21:21,822 when they need your help. 620 00:21:21,890 --> 00:21:24,625 This is your kid. It's different. 621 00:21:24,692 --> 00:21:26,426 And now you're the expert? 622 00:21:26,494 --> 00:21:28,828 I know that sometimes kids can be a royal pain in the ass 623 00:21:28,896 --> 00:21:31,431 and it's the job of the parent to love them anyway. 624 00:21:31,499 --> 00:21:34,301 You're not gonna fix Mason. 625 00:21:34,369 --> 00:21:36,703 All you can do is give him some structure and be patient, 626 00:21:36,771 --> 00:21:39,005 no matter how hard that is for you. 627 00:21:39,073 --> 00:21:41,307 (Bell rings) 628 00:21:41,375 --> 00:21:42,841 (Jangles keys) 629 00:21:45,546 --> 00:21:48,414 (People speaking indistinctly) 630 00:21:54,521 --> 00:21:55,688 How's it going? 631 00:21:55,755 --> 00:21:57,556 Fine. 632 00:21:57,623 --> 00:21:58,590 (Gasps) 633 00:21:58,658 --> 00:21:59,824 Are you okay? 634 00:21:59,892 --> 00:22:00,925 (Pants) 635 00:22:00,993 --> 00:22:02,093 What's wrong? 636 00:22:02,161 --> 00:22:04,262 Nothing. 637 00:22:04,330 --> 00:22:06,264 I'm fine. 638 00:22:09,535 --> 00:22:11,869 Hey, Pete. Where were you last night? 639 00:22:11,937 --> 00:22:13,204 You cut out early. 640 00:22:13,271 --> 00:22:14,405 Dinner. 641 00:22:14,472 --> 00:22:15,739 Business or pleasure? 642 00:22:15,807 --> 00:22:17,241 Uh, Violet. 643 00:22:17,309 --> 00:22:20,644 Oh, so, uh, you two are doing all right? 644 00:22:20,712 --> 00:22:21,978 I think we're better than all right. 645 00:22:22,046 --> 00:22:23,547 I think maybe we're back. 646 00:22:23,615 --> 00:22:24,748 Who's back? 647 00:22:24,816 --> 00:22:26,049 Pete and Violet. 648 00:22:26,117 --> 00:22:27,351 What? How'd that happen? 649 00:22:27,419 --> 00:22:29,785 Last night we went out and just... 650 00:22:31,555 --> 00:22:34,023 Look, there's a time to talk and there's a time to... 651 00:22:34,091 --> 00:22:35,225 Not talk. 652 00:22:35,292 --> 00:22:36,859 Enough said. 653 00:22:36,927 --> 00:22:38,595 Yeah, but this is Violet, though. She's all about talk. 654 00:22:38,662 --> 00:22:40,196 Sometimes. 655 00:22:40,264 --> 00:22:42,131 All right, look, I'm-- I'm not rooting against you, 656 00:22:42,199 --> 00:22:44,433 and I hope that you get everything out of this 657 00:22:44,500 --> 00:22:46,301 that you want, but in my experience, 658 00:22:46,369 --> 00:22:48,270 you know, you can use sex to get back, 659 00:22:48,338 --> 00:22:50,439 but once you're there, you end up having the same problems 660 00:22:50,506 --> 00:22:51,773 you left behind the first time. 661 00:22:51,841 --> 00:22:53,342 You're just bitter 'cause you wound up 662 00:22:53,409 --> 00:22:54,543 watching Addison's baby. 663 00:22:54,611 --> 00:22:56,411 What? Really? 664 00:22:56,479 --> 00:22:57,679 I had no choice. 665 00:22:57,747 --> 00:22:59,180 Look, you two are big boys, 666 00:22:59,249 --> 00:23:00,581 you can make your own decisions, but me, 667 00:23:00,649 --> 00:23:03,517 I never go back to the same well twice. 668 00:23:08,990 --> 00:23:11,859 (People speaking indistinctly) 669 00:23:16,431 --> 00:23:19,032 Immigration came to the hospital for her? 670 00:23:19,100 --> 00:23:21,201 They have a removal order and want to take her right now. 671 00:23:21,269 --> 00:23:22,602 Said they have their own medical facility 672 00:23:22,670 --> 00:23:23,737 and can handle everything. 673 00:23:23,805 --> 00:23:25,005 Charlotte-- 674 00:23:25,073 --> 00:23:26,406 (Lowered voice) I am repeating not agreeing. 675 00:23:26,474 --> 00:23:27,941 (Sighs) 676 00:23:28,009 --> 00:23:30,043 Addison, you know the official position of this hospital 677 00:23:30,111 --> 00:23:31,278 is that you can't induce a woman early 678 00:23:31,345 --> 00:23:32,545 without medical indication. 679 00:23:32,613 --> 00:23:33,946 I know. I know. What's your position? 680 00:23:34,014 --> 00:23:36,548 I think that no matter what our lawyers, 681 00:23:36,616 --> 00:23:38,350 or those agents, or anyone else says, 682 00:23:38,418 --> 00:23:40,119 you are her doctor. 683 00:23:40,187 --> 00:23:43,389 (Woman speaking indistinctly over PA) 684 00:23:45,826 --> 00:23:48,460 Reina, I'm going to break your water. 685 00:23:48,528 --> 00:23:50,796 And then I'm gonna put you on an oxytocin IV. 686 00:23:50,863 --> 00:23:52,230 That will start your labor. 687 00:23:52,298 --> 00:23:54,399 It may take a couple of hours, 688 00:23:54,466 --> 00:23:57,635 but by the end of the day, your son will be born. 689 00:23:57,703 --> 00:23:59,004 You ready? 690 00:23:59,071 --> 00:24:00,272 I'm ready. 691 00:24:04,743 --> 00:24:07,611 (People speaking indistinctly) 692 00:24:09,881 --> 00:24:12,850 He kicked. 693 00:24:12,918 --> 00:24:14,885 My baby, he, um, he kicked like any other baby, 694 00:24:14,953 --> 00:24:16,453 like a normal baby. 695 00:24:16,521 --> 00:24:19,290 Uh, maybe-- maybe we should do some more tests 696 00:24:19,357 --> 00:24:20,824 or, uh, a second ultrasound? 697 00:24:20,891 --> 00:24:23,559 Why don't you, uh, why don't you have a seat? 698 00:24:23,627 --> 00:24:26,129 Don't look at me like that. I know what I felt. 699 00:24:26,197 --> 00:24:27,697 My baby... 700 00:24:27,764 --> 00:24:29,098 (Sighs) 701 00:24:30,734 --> 00:24:32,168 (Exhales) Oh, my God. 702 00:24:32,236 --> 00:24:35,905 I am a crazy person. 703 00:24:37,907 --> 00:24:41,043 I'm a neurosurgeon. I know what is going on. 704 00:24:42,445 --> 00:24:44,479 It just felt so real. 705 00:24:44,547 --> 00:24:47,282 It is real. 706 00:24:47,350 --> 00:24:49,151 Your baby is real. 707 00:24:51,855 --> 00:24:53,787 I've been focusing so hard on the end goal, 708 00:24:53,856 --> 00:24:55,489 I just-- I haven't... 709 00:24:55,557 --> 00:25:01,195 Stopped to think about what it would be like... 710 00:25:01,263 --> 00:25:05,099 What it would feel like when he started moving inside me. 711 00:25:16,177 --> 00:25:17,944 Do you feel that? 712 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,381 Yes. 713 00:25:21,448 --> 00:25:22,682 I do. 714 00:25:25,185 --> 00:25:28,087 That's my son. 715 00:25:33,693 --> 00:25:35,627 How did she get here? 716 00:25:35,695 --> 00:25:36,795 She took the bus. 717 00:25:36,863 --> 00:25:37,963 And her parents? 718 00:25:38,031 --> 00:25:39,131 They think she's at school. 719 00:25:39,199 --> 00:25:40,266 We need to call them. 720 00:25:40,333 --> 00:25:41,532 I know. 721 00:25:43,502 --> 00:25:44,502 What if we waited a little while before we called 'em? 722 00:25:44,569 --> 00:25:45,836 Cooper. 723 00:25:45,905 --> 00:25:47,038 It would give you a chance to be with Mel alone, 724 00:25:47,106 --> 00:25:48,672 make a real diagnosis. 725 00:25:48,740 --> 00:25:49,840 I need her parents' permission. 726 00:25:49,909 --> 00:25:50,909 Well, you're not gonna get it, Violet. 727 00:25:50,976 --> 00:25:52,176 I mean, you were there. 728 00:25:52,244 --> 00:25:53,544 They won't believe us or her. 729 00:25:53,612 --> 00:25:56,547 Well, talking to Melody behind their backs 730 00:25:56,615 --> 00:25:58,348 is only gonna address half the problem, 731 00:25:58,416 --> 00:25:59,983 and it might make things more difficult for Melody at home. 732 00:26:00,051 --> 00:26:02,152 Well, it's better than nothing. 733 00:26:02,220 --> 00:26:03,954 Melody is not Mason. 734 00:26:04,022 --> 00:26:05,422 What is that supposed to mean? 735 00:26:05,489 --> 00:26:07,057 I think you are frustrated that you can't help Mason 736 00:26:07,125 --> 00:26:08,491 with his grieving, 737 00:26:08,559 --> 00:26:10,193 and so you're pushing too hard to save Melody. 738 00:26:10,261 --> 00:26:12,262 - Come on. - Hormone-blocking drugs? 739 00:26:12,330 --> 00:26:14,063 - It's a real option. - It's way down the line, Cooper, 740 00:26:14,131 --> 00:26:15,798 and it's not the first thing you say 741 00:26:15,865 --> 00:26:17,633 to two terrified parents who are afraid to admit 742 00:26:17,700 --> 00:26:18,834 that their daughter-- 743 00:26:18,902 --> 00:26:20,202 Okay, I get that, Violet, but these people 744 00:26:20,270 --> 00:26:21,971 have turned their backs on their daughter, 745 00:26:22,039 --> 00:26:24,040 and the more they ignore how she feels, 746 00:26:24,107 --> 00:26:26,708 the more she's gonna withdraw. 747 00:26:26,776 --> 00:26:28,777 We need to do something. 748 00:26:35,168 --> 00:26:36,668 My mom and dad were fighting about me last night. 749 00:26:36,736 --> 00:26:39,205 He said he wanted to know about the pills that could help me. 750 00:26:39,272 --> 00:26:41,107 But she wouldn't listen. 751 00:26:41,174 --> 00:26:43,542 Then she started yelling. 752 00:26:43,610 --> 00:26:45,111 (Sighs) 753 00:26:45,178 --> 00:26:48,447 So if I take the pills, 754 00:26:48,515 --> 00:26:50,281 will I become a boy? 755 00:26:50,349 --> 00:26:51,749 Well, it's not that simple, Mel. 756 00:26:51,817 --> 00:26:54,419 The drugs won't turn you into anything. 757 00:26:54,487 --> 00:26:57,255 But they will stop you from maturing into a woman 758 00:26:57,323 --> 00:27:00,191 until you decide who you are. 759 00:27:00,259 --> 00:27:01,326 I know who I am. 760 00:27:01,393 --> 00:27:03,361 I-I know you think you do, 761 00:27:03,429 --> 00:27:05,563 but sometimes, things can be confusing. 762 00:27:05,631 --> 00:27:07,697 I'm not confused. 763 00:27:07,765 --> 00:27:10,234 During the day, I have to be a girl. 764 00:27:12,003 --> 00:27:13,370 But at night, 765 00:27:13,438 --> 00:27:16,373 when I close my eyes and I dream... 766 00:27:18,209 --> 00:27:20,577 I'm a boy... 767 00:27:20,645 --> 00:27:22,579 Doing boy things. 768 00:27:22,647 --> 00:27:24,480 (Voice breaking) And then when I wake up, 769 00:27:24,548 --> 00:27:28,718 for a second, I'm still a boy. 770 00:27:28,786 --> 00:27:30,654 But then my mom comes in 771 00:27:30,721 --> 00:27:33,056 and lays out clothes for the day. 772 00:27:33,124 --> 00:27:35,859 It's usually a dress or glittery shoes. 773 00:27:35,926 --> 00:27:38,894 It's always the same. 774 00:27:38,962 --> 00:27:41,229 I refuse to wear it, 775 00:27:41,297 --> 00:27:43,032 she gets mad, 776 00:27:43,099 --> 00:27:46,201 and we fight, and I lose TV. 777 00:27:46,269 --> 00:27:50,806 She doesn't understand how it makes me feel. 778 00:27:50,874 --> 00:27:53,008 How does it make you feel? 779 00:27:53,076 --> 00:27:55,376 Wearing girl clothes, 780 00:27:55,443 --> 00:27:57,545 acting like a girl at school... 781 00:27:57,612 --> 00:27:59,446 (Cries) 782 00:27:59,514 --> 00:28:01,081 I hate it. 783 00:28:01,149 --> 00:28:02,983 It's like... 784 00:28:03,051 --> 00:28:07,120 I'm pretending all the time 785 00:28:07,188 --> 00:28:09,856 and I can't stop. 786 00:28:09,924 --> 00:28:11,524 No one will let me. 787 00:28:11,592 --> 00:28:14,460 (Cries) 788 00:28:16,230 --> 00:28:18,397 It's okay to cry, Melody. 789 00:28:18,464 --> 00:28:21,133 Even boys cry sometimes. 790 00:28:21,201 --> 00:28:24,336 (Sobs) 791 00:28:24,404 --> 00:28:26,806 (Door opens) 792 00:28:26,873 --> 00:28:28,974 I'm sorry. Are we interrupting? 793 00:28:29,042 --> 00:28:30,542 Uh, could you just give us a second? 794 00:28:30,610 --> 00:28:33,611 What's wrong with you? 795 00:28:33,679 --> 00:28:35,780 Nothing. What's wrong with you? 796 00:28:35,848 --> 00:28:37,949 My mom died. 797 00:28:38,017 --> 00:28:41,052 I'm a boy and nobody believes me. 798 00:28:43,589 --> 00:28:44,923 You want to come play? 799 00:28:58,002 --> 00:28:59,669 (Indistinct conversations) 800 00:28:59,738 --> 00:29:01,538 (People speaking indistinctly) 801 00:29:01,606 --> 00:29:03,073 Hey. Do you have a second? 802 00:29:03,141 --> 00:29:04,608 I have a delivery. Can it wait? 803 00:29:04,675 --> 00:29:05,975 Oh, yeah, yeah. It's nothing really. 804 00:29:06,043 --> 00:29:07,509 I just... yeah, it's-- It's nothing. 805 00:29:07,577 --> 00:29:09,311 All right. Out with it. 806 00:29:09,379 --> 00:29:11,614 Uh, I think Pete and I, we did a bad thing. 807 00:29:11,681 --> 00:29:13,082 A bad thing like? 808 00:29:13,150 --> 00:29:14,350 We had sex. 809 00:29:14,417 --> 00:29:15,852 Ooh, that's an interesting way 810 00:29:15,919 --> 00:29:17,887 of convincing him to go back to therapy. 811 00:29:17,955 --> 00:29:19,856 No, I know, but, you know, maybe it's a start. 812 00:29:19,923 --> 00:29:21,123 A start toward? 813 00:29:21,190 --> 00:29:22,557 Trying to fix things Pete's way. 814 00:29:22,625 --> 00:29:24,592 Acting from what I feel instead of what I think. 815 00:29:24,660 --> 00:29:25,794 Can you do that? 816 00:29:25,862 --> 00:29:26,928 I can try. 817 00:29:26,996 --> 00:29:28,296 Should you do that? 818 00:29:28,364 --> 00:29:29,765 Maybe not. (Chuckles) 819 00:29:29,832 --> 00:29:31,532 I did say it was a bad thing, didn't I? (Laughs) 820 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:32,834 (Laughs) Oh. 821 00:29:32,902 --> 00:29:34,369 It's so much easier telling other people 822 00:29:34,436 --> 00:29:36,304 what to do with their lives. 823 00:29:36,372 --> 00:29:37,738 She's dilated, plus-2 station. 824 00:29:37,806 --> 00:29:39,774 I just need a big push. 825 00:29:39,841 --> 00:29:41,175 (Groans) I'm trying. 826 00:29:41,243 --> 00:29:43,043 You're doing great. Just bear down. 827 00:29:43,111 --> 00:29:44,211 Come on. (Grunts) 828 00:29:44,279 --> 00:29:45,345 - Okay, I've got the head. - Almost there. 829 00:29:45,413 --> 00:29:46,747 (Whimpers) 830 00:29:46,815 --> 00:29:48,849 (Baby crying) Is he here? 831 00:29:48,917 --> 00:29:50,885 He's here. 832 00:29:50,952 --> 00:29:52,452 (Continues crying) 833 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,255 Is he okay? Is everything okay? 834 00:29:55,322 --> 00:29:58,825 He's fine. He's a healthy beautiful boy. 835 00:29:58,893 --> 00:29:59,959 (Crying) 836 00:30:00,027 --> 00:30:01,360 He's amazing. 837 00:30:01,428 --> 00:30:05,531 (Continues crying) 838 00:30:05,599 --> 00:30:07,967 You want to hold him? 839 00:30:08,035 --> 00:30:11,736 (Continues crying) For as long as I can. 840 00:30:11,805 --> 00:30:13,371 (Fussing) 841 00:30:13,439 --> 00:30:16,809 (Laughs) Te quiero, cielito. 842 00:30:16,876 --> 00:30:19,344 (Crying) 843 00:30:19,412 --> 00:30:20,645 (Woman speaks indistinctly) 844 00:30:20,713 --> 00:30:22,314 Everything okay? 845 00:30:22,381 --> 00:30:24,116 Great. 846 00:30:24,184 --> 00:30:26,818 The immigration guy is still hanging around? 847 00:30:26,885 --> 00:30:31,055 You don't feel like she's ready to be moved yet, do you? 848 00:30:34,492 --> 00:30:36,593 Not today. 849 00:30:36,661 --> 00:30:38,329 I'll let him know. 850 00:30:38,396 --> 00:30:39,931 (People speak indistinctly) 851 00:30:39,998 --> 00:30:41,764 Thank you. 852 00:30:41,833 --> 00:30:43,233 I'm gonna give you two some time. 853 00:30:43,301 --> 00:30:45,501 Thank you so much, Dr. Montgomery. 854 00:30:47,872 --> 00:30:48,839 (Laughs) 855 00:30:51,675 --> 00:30:53,509 (People speak indistinctly) 856 00:30:53,577 --> 00:30:55,312 Reina, are you sure you want to leave him here? 857 00:30:55,379 --> 00:30:56,479 I mean-- 858 00:30:56,547 --> 00:30:57,847 At home, I have no one. 859 00:30:57,914 --> 00:31:00,049 My parents are dead, 860 00:31:00,116 --> 00:31:02,351 and my brother, he left home a long time ago. 861 00:31:02,418 --> 00:31:04,486 And the baby's father is... 862 00:31:04,554 --> 00:31:07,556 He disappeared. 863 00:31:07,623 --> 00:31:10,059 If I could go back... 864 00:31:10,126 --> 00:31:12,594 I love my baby, but... 865 00:31:12,662 --> 00:31:15,263 I would do my life differently. 866 00:31:15,331 --> 00:31:17,398 But that is not possible, 867 00:31:17,466 --> 00:31:20,869 so... for me, no looking back. 868 00:31:20,936 --> 00:31:24,772 (Cooing) 869 00:31:28,543 --> 00:31:31,144 (Children laughing) 870 00:31:31,212 --> 00:31:34,714 (Mason and Melody speaking indistinctly) 871 00:31:37,318 --> 00:31:38,518 Hey. 872 00:31:38,586 --> 00:31:39,719 (Melody laughs) 873 00:31:39,787 --> 00:31:41,054 Yes! 874 00:31:41,122 --> 00:31:43,690 Does Melody know you called her parents? 875 00:31:43,758 --> 00:31:45,524 I couldn't bring myself to tell her. 876 00:31:45,592 --> 00:31:46,959 Cooper. 877 00:31:47,027 --> 00:31:48,294 I didn't want to risk her running away again. 878 00:31:48,362 --> 00:31:50,296 No! So close. (Elevator bell dings) 879 00:31:50,364 --> 00:31:52,331 Okay, showtime. 880 00:31:52,399 --> 00:31:54,100 - A second chance. - Fine. 881 00:31:54,167 --> 00:31:55,501 (Pam) We're here to see Dr. Freedman. 882 00:31:55,568 --> 00:31:56,635 (Cooper) Hi. 883 00:31:56,703 --> 00:31:58,170 Where is she? 884 00:31:58,238 --> 00:31:59,338 She's, uh, playing. 885 00:31:59,406 --> 00:32:00,472 She's okay? 886 00:32:00,540 --> 00:32:02,073 She's fine. She's fine. 887 00:32:02,141 --> 00:32:03,909 Good, because she and I are gonna have a little talk. 888 00:32:03,976 --> 00:32:06,344 Y-you know, you cannot berate your daughter into 889 00:32:06,412 --> 00:32:07,812 changing her mind. 890 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,347 The only thing you can do is support her 891 00:32:09,415 --> 00:32:11,249 and help her navigate these feelings. 892 00:32:11,317 --> 00:32:12,683 She's just a child. 893 00:32:12,751 --> 00:32:14,052 Who feels that she's trapped in the wrong body. 894 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:15,453 And I know that sounds crazy to you, 895 00:32:15,521 --> 00:32:17,121 but I have spoken to her, 896 00:32:17,188 --> 00:32:19,523 and she-- Well, she came to us for help, and I-- 897 00:32:19,590 --> 00:32:21,258 And I couldn't not talk to her. 898 00:32:21,326 --> 00:32:23,093 I just-- I just couldn't. But the important thing is, 899 00:32:23,161 --> 00:32:25,629 now I believe that-- That she's not confused 900 00:32:25,696 --> 00:32:26,997 and that she's not imagining this. 901 00:32:27,065 --> 00:32:28,899 Well, what are we supposed to do? 902 00:32:28,967 --> 00:32:30,000 Don't encourage them Michael. 903 00:32:30,068 --> 00:32:31,668 Well, what if they're right? 904 00:32:31,736 --> 00:32:33,069 We need to help her. 905 00:32:33,137 --> 00:32:34,170 I don't have to listen to this anymore. 906 00:32:34,238 --> 00:32:35,738 Where is she? 907 00:32:35,806 --> 00:32:38,474 She's in here. 908 00:32:41,711 --> 00:32:44,047 Mel. 909 00:32:44,114 --> 00:32:46,015 Melody, we're going home. 910 00:32:46,083 --> 00:32:48,418 But I-I-I don't want to. 911 00:32:48,485 --> 00:32:49,852 I don't care what you want. 912 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:50,853 Don't yell at her. 913 00:32:50,921 --> 00:32:52,354 (Cooper) Uh, Mase. 914 00:32:52,422 --> 00:32:53,622 Who is this? 915 00:32:53,690 --> 00:32:55,724 - Th-this is my son. (Violet) - And he's right. 916 00:32:55,792 --> 00:32:58,461 Nothing's gonna be solved by yelling. 917 00:32:59,996 --> 00:33:01,129 Dad, do something. 918 00:33:01,197 --> 00:33:02,465 Come on! 919 00:33:02,532 --> 00:33:03,632 Pam, Pam, Pam. 920 00:33:03,700 --> 00:33:05,233 Ow! 921 00:33:05,301 --> 00:33:06,868 I understand that you're angry and frustrated and scared. 922 00:33:06,936 --> 00:33:08,970 Melody is not happy, and you don't know how to help her. 923 00:33:09,037 --> 00:33:10,572 But we do. We can help, okay? 924 00:33:10,639 --> 00:33:11,840 We don't have to listen to you. 925 00:33:11,907 --> 00:33:13,007 No, you have to listen to Melody. 926 00:33:13,075 --> 00:33:14,576 (Cooper) Your job is to protect her 927 00:33:14,643 --> 00:33:17,411 and love her and help her, no matter what. 928 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,213 But first... 929 00:33:19,281 --> 00:33:21,349 You have to try to understand her. 930 00:33:21,416 --> 00:33:23,784 Don't you tell me how to raise my daughter. 931 00:33:23,852 --> 00:33:24,852 You're hurting me! 932 00:33:24,919 --> 00:33:25,986 Pam. 933 00:33:26,053 --> 00:33:29,957 (Crying) 934 00:33:30,024 --> 00:33:32,493 (Crying) This is my little girl. 935 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,695 Do you hear me? She's my little girl! 936 00:33:34,762 --> 00:33:36,964 (Continues crying) 937 00:33:37,031 --> 00:33:39,231 Don't cry, mommy. 938 00:33:44,437 --> 00:33:46,171 You don't have to do this alone. 939 00:33:46,239 --> 00:33:49,609 We can help you two understand what's going on with Melody 940 00:33:49,676 --> 00:33:52,077 and-- and help her transition to be the person 941 00:33:52,145 --> 00:33:53,545 that she is inside. 942 00:33:53,613 --> 00:33:56,882 (Continues crying) 943 00:33:56,949 --> 00:33:58,517 She's right. 944 00:33:58,584 --> 00:34:00,018 (Sniffles) 945 00:34:00,085 --> 00:34:01,452 She's right. 946 00:34:05,257 --> 00:34:07,893 (Footsteps approach) 947 00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,895 Violet, oh, I have an amazing idea. 948 00:34:10,962 --> 00:34:12,563 A-act-actually, I-- 949 00:34:12,631 --> 00:34:15,866 No, no, no. Remember that place in Carmel that you love 950 00:34:15,934 --> 00:34:17,300 with the cabins? 951 00:34:17,368 --> 00:34:19,136 Let's drive up there with Lucas this weekend. 952 00:34:19,203 --> 00:34:21,104 Just the three of us. We would love it-- 953 00:34:21,172 --> 00:34:23,373 - Pete, no, no, Pete, Pete-- - We could spend some time together-- 954 00:34:23,441 --> 00:34:25,308 No, we're-- We're not gonna do that. 955 00:34:25,376 --> 00:34:28,344 I mean, what we've been trying to do here, 956 00:34:28,412 --> 00:34:30,379 this whole "put down the baggage 957 00:34:30,447 --> 00:34:32,415 and have fun and be us again," it's-- 958 00:34:32,482 --> 00:34:34,450 It's-- it's seductive 959 00:34:34,518 --> 00:34:36,920 and I can't say I haven't... 960 00:34:36,987 --> 00:34:38,354 I haven't loved it. 961 00:34:38,422 --> 00:34:40,657 But going forward, it's not gonna be enough. 962 00:34:40,724 --> 00:34:44,225 You know, having sex and talking about starting over, 963 00:34:44,293 --> 00:34:46,061 it's just not gonna be-- It's not gonna fix 964 00:34:46,128 --> 00:34:48,931 whatever's fundamentally wrong with our relationship. 965 00:34:48,998 --> 00:34:50,398 Violet, why do we have to keep looking back? 966 00:34:50,466 --> 00:34:52,400 Can't we just deal with the now? 967 00:34:52,468 --> 00:34:55,270 Because we don't even know what happened... Pete. 968 00:34:55,337 --> 00:34:58,072 We-- we have to go back and figure that out. 969 00:34:58,139 --> 00:35:00,007 And we had just started to scratch the surface 970 00:35:00,075 --> 00:35:03,143 and... (Sighs) 971 00:35:03,211 --> 00:35:05,046 You need to do the work. 972 00:35:05,113 --> 00:35:07,548 We... 973 00:35:07,616 --> 00:35:11,318 We need to do the work. 974 00:35:17,424 --> 00:35:18,825 I thought you understood. 975 00:35:18,893 --> 00:35:20,426 I do. I do understand. 976 00:35:20,494 --> 00:35:22,996 And if you were to tell me that you wanted to leave your baby 977 00:35:23,064 --> 00:35:24,464 because you weren't emotionally prepared to raise him, 978 00:35:24,531 --> 00:35:26,032 I would be the first one 979 00:35:26,100 --> 00:35:27,266 saying that you're doing the right thing, 980 00:35:27,334 --> 00:35:28,835 but you do want to raise him. 981 00:35:28,903 --> 00:35:30,769 And even though I admire 982 00:35:30,837 --> 00:35:32,838 your willingness to sacrifice so that 983 00:35:32,906 --> 00:35:34,039 he has a better chance at life than you had, 984 00:35:34,107 --> 00:35:36,609 I just-- I feel like there has to be 985 00:35:36,676 --> 00:35:37,876 a better way. 986 00:35:37,944 --> 00:35:39,277 There is no other way. 987 00:35:39,345 --> 00:35:41,480 What-- what if you went back temporarily, 988 00:35:41,547 --> 00:35:42,748 and then you reapplied for-- 989 00:35:42,816 --> 00:35:45,183 It would take years if it ever happened. 990 00:35:45,251 --> 00:35:46,351 What if I went with you? 991 00:35:46,419 --> 00:35:47,952 What? Pete. 992 00:35:48,020 --> 00:35:51,289 I-- I've spent time there. I know my way around. 993 00:35:51,357 --> 00:35:54,025 I could help you and the baby get settled, make a life. 994 00:35:54,093 --> 00:35:55,494 It would... 995 00:35:55,561 --> 00:35:57,028 How could you do that? 996 00:35:57,096 --> 00:35:59,030 You have a family 997 00:35:59,098 --> 00:36:00,698 and your life is here. 998 00:36:02,601 --> 00:36:03,734 Well, there's no other way, is there? 999 00:36:11,168 --> 00:36:14,070 (Knock on door) 1000 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,081 - Hi. - Hey. 1001 00:36:26,149 --> 00:36:27,549 What's going on? 1002 00:36:27,617 --> 00:36:31,553 Um, I'm... 1003 00:36:31,621 --> 00:36:33,856 I'm gonna leave for a while. 1004 00:36:33,923 --> 00:36:35,958 What? 1005 00:36:36,026 --> 00:36:37,760 Wh-where are you going? 1006 00:36:37,827 --> 00:36:40,362 El Salvador. There's a clinic there I used to work-- 1007 00:36:40,429 --> 00:36:41,996 What the hell are you talking about? 1008 00:36:42,064 --> 00:36:44,666 I want to fix it. I-I feel like-- 1009 00:36:44,733 --> 00:36:47,269 You should feel like you have something to fix right here-- 1010 00:36:47,336 --> 00:36:50,305 Us, our marriage. 1011 00:36:50,373 --> 00:36:52,574 I'm standing right in front of you, Pete. 1012 00:36:52,642 --> 00:36:54,876 Your son is sleeping right upstairs. 1013 00:36:54,943 --> 00:36:57,778 You can't just run away. 1014 00:36:57,845 --> 00:37:00,481 Please. 1015 00:37:00,549 --> 00:37:02,683 Please do not do this. 1016 00:37:05,287 --> 00:37:08,589 (People speaking indistinctly) 1017 00:37:08,657 --> 00:37:10,257 Hey, hey, Amelia. 1018 00:37:10,325 --> 00:37:12,458 Look, I know you hate me, 1019 00:37:12,526 --> 00:37:14,460 but... this isn't the end of the road for us. 1020 00:37:14,528 --> 00:37:16,496 We're family and we always will be. I just... 1021 00:37:16,564 --> 00:37:19,031 I just need you to know, I think... 1022 00:37:19,099 --> 00:37:20,633 You're amazing. 1023 00:37:20,701 --> 00:37:22,134 You're stronger than I could ever be. 1024 00:37:22,203 --> 00:37:25,137 I don't know how you're getting through this. 1025 00:37:25,206 --> 00:37:27,540 And I'm here for you for whatever you need, 1026 00:37:27,608 --> 00:37:30,676 even if what you need is someone to hate. 1027 00:37:30,743 --> 00:37:32,277 Dr. Montgomery, we need you right away. 1028 00:37:39,652 --> 00:37:41,320 What happened? 1029 00:37:41,387 --> 00:37:43,088 I came in to take Reina and the baby back to the room, 1030 00:37:43,155 --> 00:37:44,388 but they were gone. 1031 00:37:44,456 --> 00:37:46,324 We searched the whole ward, but... 1032 00:37:46,391 --> 00:37:47,858 If she cut off the tags or tried to take him out, 1033 00:37:47,926 --> 00:37:49,360 the alarms would've sounded, and there's nothing. 1034 00:37:49,428 --> 00:37:52,230 Well, she's not stealing. It's her baby. 1035 00:37:52,297 --> 00:37:55,099 But she shouldn't be leaving yet, should she? 1036 00:37:55,166 --> 00:37:56,800 She's the mother. 1037 00:37:56,868 --> 00:37:58,836 It's her choice. 1038 00:38:06,244 --> 00:38:07,544 (Man speaks indistinctly on TV) 1039 00:38:07,612 --> 00:38:09,412 (Man) Doctor, Quint's map. 1040 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,013 How did you come by it, lad? 1041 00:38:11,081 --> 00:38:13,283 Why he gave it to me, sir, when he sent me for help. 1042 00:38:13,351 --> 00:38:14,917 He said that we'd share. 1043 00:38:14,985 --> 00:38:16,785 (Lock clicks) Share what? 1044 00:38:16,853 --> 00:38:19,087 You don't know? Pirate treasure, man. 1045 00:38:19,155 --> 00:38:21,390 It's gold. 1046 00:38:21,458 --> 00:38:23,359 (Man speaking indistinctly) 1047 00:38:23,426 --> 00:38:24,860 Hey, fellas. 1048 00:38:24,927 --> 00:38:25,927 (Cooper) - Hey. - Hi. 1049 00:38:25,995 --> 00:38:27,763 (Speaks indistinctly) 1050 00:38:27,830 --> 00:38:29,164 You want to join us? 1051 00:38:29,232 --> 00:38:31,600 It's okay. You two look comfortable. 1052 00:38:31,668 --> 00:38:33,200 Come on. Come watch. 1053 00:38:33,269 --> 00:38:34,636 (Man speaking indistinctly) 1054 00:38:34,703 --> 00:38:36,871 Well, all right then. 1055 00:38:36,938 --> 00:38:41,008 Master Roland, you're a trump, young Hawkins. 1056 00:38:41,076 --> 00:38:43,311 Mark my words, you will share. 1057 00:38:43,379 --> 00:38:47,815 (Man speaking indistinctly) 1058 00:38:47,883 --> 00:38:51,017 (Lowered voice) I really am sorry. 1059 00:38:51,085 --> 00:38:52,919 I know. 1060 00:38:52,987 --> 00:38:55,789 (Man speaking indistinctly) 1061 00:38:59,827 --> 00:39:02,228 Hey, guys. Sorry I'm a little late. 1062 00:39:02,297 --> 00:39:05,665 Hope I didn't miss bath time. 1063 00:39:05,732 --> 00:39:06,999 Keisha? 1064 00:39:07,066 --> 00:39:08,567 Henry? 1065 00:39:08,635 --> 00:39:10,869 (Singsongy) Hello. 1066 00:39:10,937 --> 00:39:13,138 (Normal voice) You guys upstairs? 1067 00:39:14,608 --> 00:39:18,177 Are you up there? 1068 00:39:20,113 --> 00:39:22,246 Keisha? 1069 00:39:22,315 --> 00:39:23,548 Keisha. 1070 00:39:23,616 --> 00:39:26,284 (Sam) * what * 1071 00:39:26,352 --> 00:39:27,952 ♪ you are ♪ 1072 00:39:28,020 --> 00:39:29,220 Oh. 1073 00:39:29,288 --> 00:39:33,157 ♪ up above ♪ 1074 00:39:33,225 --> 00:39:34,426 Hi, sweetie. 1075 00:39:34,493 --> 00:39:36,027 ♪ the world so... ♪ 1076 00:39:36,094 --> 00:39:37,361 Hey. 1077 00:39:37,429 --> 00:39:39,596 There we go. Mama's here. 1078 00:39:39,664 --> 00:39:41,832 Hey. 1079 00:39:41,899 --> 00:39:43,033 - There's mama. - Hi, little one. 1080 00:39:43,100 --> 00:39:44,401 Yeah. 1081 00:39:44,469 --> 00:39:45,803 (Fussing) 1082 00:39:45,870 --> 00:39:47,571 Your nanny cut out early, so... 1083 00:39:47,639 --> 00:39:48,972 Ahh. 1084 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,907 You need to find better child care. 1085 00:39:50,975 --> 00:39:52,042 Thank you. 1086 00:39:52,109 --> 00:39:53,909 Yeah. (Speaks indistinctly) 1087 00:39:53,977 --> 00:39:56,278 (Henry coos) 1088 00:39:56,347 --> 00:39:58,080 Thank you. 1089 00:39:58,148 --> 00:40:01,451 (Tyler Lyle) * all the way home * 1090 00:40:01,518 --> 00:40:04,053 ♪ I will follow love ♪ 1091 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,521 (Knock on door) 1092 00:40:05,589 --> 00:40:06,656 ♪ all the way home ♪ 1093 00:40:06,724 --> 00:40:08,023 Do you have those consent forms? 1094 00:40:08,091 --> 00:40:10,124 Yes. 1095 00:40:10,192 --> 00:40:12,828 ♪ though it breaks my back ♪ 1096 00:40:12,895 --> 00:40:16,164 ♪ and leaves me all alone ♪ 1097 00:40:16,232 --> 00:40:17,232 ♪ I ♪ 1098 00:40:17,299 --> 00:40:20,702 Can I sign them now? 1099 00:40:20,770 --> 00:40:22,871 You don't have to do that yet. 1100 00:40:22,938 --> 00:40:24,806 ♪ though it breaks my back ♪ 1101 00:40:24,874 --> 00:40:26,975 I want to sign them now. 1102 00:40:27,042 --> 00:40:28,676 ♪ all alone ♪ 1103 00:40:28,744 --> 00:40:32,013 ♪ I will follow love ♪ 1104 00:40:32,081 --> 00:40:34,682 ♪ all the way home ♪ 1105 00:40:34,750 --> 00:40:36,817 ♪ though ♪ 1106 00:40:36,886 --> 00:40:41,688 ♪ I'm sad you've gone away ♪ 1107 00:40:41,756 --> 00:40:43,523 ♪ I hear love ♪ 1108 00:40:43,591 --> 00:40:45,458 ♪ it goes by different names ♪ 1109 00:40:45,526 --> 00:40:47,160 If you change your mind, 1110 00:40:47,228 --> 00:40:50,230 if you want to... just hold him for whatever time he has 1111 00:40:50,298 --> 00:40:52,799 and forget the rest, you can do that. 1112 00:40:52,867 --> 00:40:55,369 ♪ and it put me in my grave ♪ 1113 00:40:55,436 --> 00:40:57,403 You can wait until he's born to decide. 1114 00:40:57,470 --> 00:40:58,670 ♪ ...Follow love ♪ 1115 00:40:58,738 --> 00:41:01,908 I can't wait. 1116 00:41:01,975 --> 00:41:03,776 Once he's born... 1117 00:41:03,843 --> 00:41:07,280 ♪ think of all the friends that you have known ♪ 1118 00:41:07,347 --> 00:41:09,715 I'm worried I won't be strong enough. 1119 00:41:09,783 --> 00:41:12,285 ♪ every blade of grass ♪ 1120 00:41:12,352 --> 00:41:15,387 ♪ every face that kissed you back ♪ 1121 00:41:15,454 --> 00:41:16,888 ♪ all the sunsets ♪ 1122 00:41:16,956 --> 00:41:18,756 ♪ and pouring rain ♪ 1123 00:41:18,824 --> 00:41:21,759 ♪ every joy and holy pain ♪ 1124 00:41:21,827 --> 00:41:25,263 ♪ every kiss and bloody stain ♪ 1125 00:41:25,331 --> 00:41:28,266 ♪ are the proof that we have lived ♪ 1126 00:41:28,334 --> 00:41:31,936 (Crying) 1127 00:41:32,003 --> 00:41:34,571 ♪ and every flash of light you've seen ♪ 1128 00:41:34,639 --> 00:41:37,007 ♪ every color every dream ♪ 1129 00:41:37,075 --> 00:41:39,109 I'm a scientist. 1130 00:41:39,177 --> 00:41:41,245 I know there are more than 20,000 genes 1131 00:41:41,313 --> 00:41:42,879 in the human genome. 1132 00:41:42,948 --> 00:41:44,315 Everything from hair color 1133 00:41:44,382 --> 00:41:46,582 to the likelihood of getting certain kinds of cancers, 1134 00:41:46,650 --> 00:41:48,151 the genes that are responsible 1135 00:41:48,218 --> 00:41:49,585 for the development of your brain-- 1136 00:41:49,653 --> 00:41:52,655 They're all in there. 1137 00:41:52,722 --> 00:41:54,557 But I know... 1138 00:41:54,624 --> 00:41:56,960 Nurture beats nature. 1139 00:41:58,795 --> 00:42:02,030 Because Henry looks at me with love. 1140 00:42:02,098 --> 00:42:04,166 I'm his mom, and he knows it. 1141 00:42:04,233 --> 00:42:07,269 And no protein code in his brain told him to think that. 1142 00:42:07,337 --> 00:42:10,816 ♪ will follow you ♪ 1143 00:42:10,884 --> 00:42:13,273 ♪ all the way home ♪ 1144 00:42:13,414 --> 00:42:18,140 Sync and corrections by n17t01 www.addic7ed.com