1 00:00:02,376 --> 00:00:04,966 Lenny, it's your dad. pick up. 2 00:00:05,474 --> 00:00:07,934 Hey, what's going on there, little man? 3 00:00:08,836 --> 00:00:10,347 In a couple hours. 4 00:00:10,629 --> 00:00:12,243 Listen, has mommy left already? 5 00:00:13,802 --> 00:00:15,143 She wasn't home? 6 00:00:15,708 --> 00:00:18,027 No, she's not picking up her cell. 7 00:00:18,995 --> 00:00:19,793 What? 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,572 What are you eating? 9 00:00:23,193 --> 00:00:26,006 That doesn't sound like an apple. It sounds like a frito. 10 00:00:26,106 --> 00:00:27,573 Are you eating fritos? 11 00:00:28,470 --> 00:00:30,908 Okay, Lenny, I don't have the time for this right now. 12 00:00:31,008 --> 00:00:33,280 We'll talk about it when I get back, okay? Bye. 13 00:00:34,307 --> 00:00:37,579 The way she stuffs him with junk food drives me crazy. 14 00:00:40,663 --> 00:00:42,409 Hi, this is Amy. leave me a message. 15 00:00:42,509 --> 00:00:44,607 It's me, I'm at Paul's. Where the hell are you? 16 00:00:44,707 --> 00:00:46,025 what's going on? 17 00:01:01,140 --> 00:01:04,607 Transcript: FRM. Synchro VO: michvanilly. 18 00:01:14,738 --> 00:01:16,496 Why don't you sit down, Jake? 19 00:01:17,398 --> 00:01:19,248 I'm sure she'll be here in a moment. 20 00:01:19,762 --> 00:01:21,395 This time slot sucks. 21 00:01:22,916 --> 00:01:25,046 Hi, This is Amy. leave me a message. 22 00:01:25,166 --> 00:01:27,783 Don't fucking tell me you forgot we're due at Paul's. 23 00:01:27,883 --> 00:01:30,108 Call me back. Bye. 24 00:01:30,409 --> 00:01:34,309 She knows we have an appointment. We talked about it this morning. 25 00:01:39,774 --> 00:01:41,738 Sarah, what's up? Hi, it's Jake. 26 00:01:41,858 --> 00:01:42,697 Jake. 27 00:01:43,007 --> 00:01:44,274 Did she leave already? 28 00:01:45,279 --> 00:01:46,058 When? 29 00:01:46,969 --> 00:01:48,396 What do you mean? 30 00:01:50,650 --> 00:01:52,072 20 minutes or three hours? 31 00:01:53,875 --> 00:01:56,053 Do you know where she was going? 32 00:01:58,174 --> 00:02:00,120 Did she leave alone? 33 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,869 Alone... that means without anyone else. 34 00:02:03,874 --> 00:02:04,711 Oh, okay. 35 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,347 Good, good girl. See, that was easy, right? 36 00:02:07,467 --> 00:02:09,534 Fine fine. All right, thanks. Bye. 37 00:02:10,577 --> 00:02:11,968 Fuck her! 38 00:02:14,465 --> 00:02:16,681 Was that somebody from Amy's office? 39 00:02:18,145 --> 00:02:21,269 Yeah, they're all so full of themselves. I can't stand them. 40 00:02:21,529 --> 00:02:23,730 I'm sorry, what exactly does Amy do? 41 00:02:24,111 --> 00:02:27,701 She's Deputy VP something, whatever. 42 00:02:28,764 --> 00:02:30,904 She's all about work now. Lenny barely sees her. 43 00:02:36,113 --> 00:02:39,043 Are you comfortable being here 44 00:02:39,734 --> 00:02:41,221 with me without amy? 45 00:02:44,978 --> 00:02:46,044 I'm comfortable. 46 00:02:46,912 --> 00:02:50,895 But you said we shouldn't start until we're both here, right? so we wait. 47 00:02:51,015 --> 00:02:52,799 We can start at anytime you want. 48 00:02:53,297 --> 00:02:57,167 It's just... If you don't mind that Amy has to hear it all again. 49 00:02:57,442 --> 00:02:59,849 No, it's okay. We'll wait. 50 00:03:04,820 --> 00:03:06,648 I'm just getting the sense, 51 00:03:07,759 --> 00:03:10,510 jake, that this is difficult for you 52 00:03:10,630 --> 00:03:12,100 to be here without her. 53 00:03:13,863 --> 00:03:16,300 No, it's not difficult. 54 00:03:17,638 --> 00:03:19,948 Hi, Molly. everything's fine. 55 00:03:21,679 --> 00:03:23,172 Can you hear me now? 56 00:03:23,420 --> 00:03:26,133 Great. Listen, do you know where Amy is? 57 00:03:26,487 --> 00:03:28,660 If I knew, I wouldn't be calling. 58 00:03:29,490 --> 00:03:30,767 She's not picking up. 59 00:03:33,096 --> 00:03:35,049 Do you or don't you know where she is? 60 00:03:37,632 --> 00:03:40,310 Molly, I'm in the middle of something, okay? 61 00:03:40,430 --> 00:03:42,714 All right, I'll let her know. Okay, bye. 62 00:03:43,416 --> 00:03:44,767 Her mother. Jesus. 63 00:03:46,343 --> 00:03:47,564 What do you mean? 64 00:03:47,855 --> 00:03:50,812 The way they talk? You can tell they're loaded. 65 00:03:51,244 --> 00:03:53,236 They got money coming out of their asses. 66 00:03:54,361 --> 00:03:56,334 - Amy too? - What do you think? 67 00:03:57,138 --> 00:03:59,158 She's lucky I keep things in perspective for her. 68 00:04:01,617 --> 00:04:02,620 Her mother. 69 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:06,434 Yes, Molly, what is it? 70 00:04:07,547 --> 00:04:08,901 An attack? 71 00:04:09,707 --> 00:04:11,005 An attack of what? 72 00:04:11,125 --> 00:04:14,299 Why do you always rush to the worst-case scenario? 73 00:04:14,984 --> 00:04:17,614 Well, fine, go on worrying. I'm not. 74 00:04:17,823 --> 00:04:18,799 Because. 75 00:04:19,377 --> 00:04:22,020 I'm not worried, molly. What are you gonna do about it? 76 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,434 That's the way it is. 77 00:04:23,813 --> 00:04:26,234 okay, Molly, I'm in the middle of something, okay? 78 00:04:26,354 --> 00:04:27,880 bye. Bye. 79 00:04:28,878 --> 00:04:31,501 Now I'm in trouble with her mother the hysteric. 80 00:04:32,108 --> 00:04:34,277 - She sounds anxious. - She's a wreck. 81 00:04:36,189 --> 00:04:38,634 Maybe she's skipping through the stages of... 82 00:04:39,090 --> 00:04:39,949 Anxiety. 83 00:04:43,170 --> 00:04:43,874 What? 84 00:04:44,607 --> 00:04:47,247 Well, it's like, 85 00:04:47,508 --> 00:04:49,473 let's say you arranged to meet somebody, 86 00:04:49,593 --> 00:04:51,450 a particular time at a particular place. 87 00:04:51,570 --> 00:04:54,801 and you arrive and they're not there. and you think to yourself, "oh, 88 00:04:54,921 --> 00:04:57,289 maybe I got the time or the place wrong. 89 00:04:57,409 --> 00:04:59,612 And then you get to the stage where you get angry 90 00:04:59,732 --> 00:05:01,614 and you say, "where the hell are they? 91 00:05:01,734 --> 00:05:03,097 They're supposed to be here." 92 00:05:03,505 --> 00:05:06,559 and then you get to the stage of anxiety 93 00:05:06,699 --> 00:05:08,980 where you're worried if something has 94 00:05:09,260 --> 00:05:10,631 happened to them. 95 00:05:15,067 --> 00:05:16,880 Okay, I'm outta here. I don't think-- 96 00:05:16,981 --> 00:05:19,410 I think you should stay a few more minutes. 97 00:05:20,234 --> 00:05:22,617 She was late last week, remember? 98 00:05:24,488 --> 00:05:26,161 Maybe I left my ringer off. 99 00:05:26,281 --> 00:05:28,767 No, you idiot, her mother just called you. 100 00:05:31,286 --> 00:05:32,210 Okay. 101 00:05:32,855 --> 00:05:33,913 Are you leaving? 102 00:05:34,033 --> 00:05:36,923 I'm gonna step outside. Maybe I can see something. 103 00:05:37,393 --> 00:05:39,801 Jake, why are you so worried? 104 00:05:40,566 --> 00:05:42,651 You mean what act of anxiety am I in? 105 00:05:44,267 --> 00:05:48,267 That's interesting. That you say act of anxiety. 106 00:05:49,422 --> 00:05:51,920 Because it's an act, not a stage. 107 00:05:52,897 --> 00:05:54,524 It's from that pretentious fag. 108 00:05:54,930 --> 00:05:57,202 So you're familiar with the works of Roland Barthes*? 109 00:05:57,813 --> 00:05:59,534 Surprise surprise. 110 00:06:05,290 --> 00:06:06,534 Her mother? 111 00:06:06,773 --> 00:06:08,032 Her mother. 112 00:06:17,326 --> 00:06:19,434 I'm late, sorry. 113 00:06:21,035 --> 00:06:22,951 Hi. Who's calling? 114 00:06:23,767 --> 00:06:26,481 - Why don't you answer the phone? - Where were you? 115 00:06:26,601 --> 00:06:28,350 I'm right here. What, were you worried? 116 00:06:28,470 --> 00:06:30,309 - You weren't picking up. - Really? 117 00:06:33,968 --> 00:06:36,499 I'm such an idiot. I switched it off during the meeting. 118 00:06:36,851 --> 00:06:38,860 I forgot to turn it back on again. 119 00:06:39,156 --> 00:06:41,033 Where were you? 120 00:06:41,532 --> 00:06:43,133 At work, where else? 121 00:06:43,401 --> 00:06:46,096 What were you doing in the meantime, mud wrestling? 122 00:06:48,509 --> 00:06:49,495 Wrestling. 123 00:06:50,368 --> 00:06:53,207 That's what it looks like. It's just a really bad time slot. 124 00:06:55,381 --> 00:06:56,132 What? 125 00:06:56,395 --> 00:06:58,467 Sarah said you left a long time ago. 126 00:06:58,791 --> 00:06:59,860 So? traffic. 127 00:07:00,172 --> 00:07:02,359 You were wearing a different outfit this morning. 128 00:07:03,317 --> 00:07:05,100 He noticed. I just bought it. 129 00:07:05,220 --> 00:07:07,345 You just went and bought yourself a suit? 130 00:07:07,445 --> 00:07:09,767 Yeah, I spilled coffee over myself during the meeting. 131 00:07:09,867 --> 00:07:12,310 - what meeting? - Are you gonna sit or what? 132 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,976 There was traffic. That's it. 133 00:07:22,342 --> 00:07:23,525 - 2:00. - What? 134 00:07:23,722 --> 00:07:25,452 Sarah said you left the office at 2:00. 135 00:07:25,572 --> 00:07:28,618 That's right. I told you I had a meeting. 136 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,844 - A meeting with whom? - What is with the interrogation? 137 00:07:31,964 --> 00:07:34,665 With reeves. What difference does it make? 138 00:07:35,806 --> 00:07:37,210 Who's Reeves, Amy? 139 00:07:38,689 --> 00:07:39,731 My boss. 140 00:07:40,661 --> 00:07:43,267 So where was it, this meeting? 141 00:07:43,955 --> 00:07:45,200 At a cafe. 142 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,092 Why are you wasting our time here with Paul on this bullshit? 143 00:07:48,212 --> 00:07:51,000 Well, you should've thought of that before you came in late. 144 00:07:52,478 --> 00:07:54,447 Is it usual 145 00:07:54,567 --> 00:07:56,000 for you to be late, Amy. 146 00:07:56,376 --> 00:07:59,190 Sometimes I'm fashionably late. 147 00:08:00,002 --> 00:08:01,734 Well, you've been late for 148 00:08:01,854 --> 00:08:03,694 all of our three sessions so far. 149 00:08:05,435 --> 00:08:07,031 I apologize. 150 00:08:08,224 --> 00:08:11,285 is your being late an indicator of not wanting to be here, perhaps? 151 00:08:12,008 --> 00:08:13,880 Don't flatter yourself. 152 00:08:15,965 --> 00:08:19,101 So, you're usually late, Amy, 153 00:08:19,627 --> 00:08:22,190 and this is usually your reaction, Jake. 154 00:08:23,692 --> 00:08:25,968 Is this his usual response? 155 00:08:26,508 --> 00:08:29,011 Yes. He's suspicious. 156 00:08:29,846 --> 00:08:32,348 Do you think perhaps Amy has something to hide, Jake? 157 00:08:35,469 --> 00:08:37,171 Is that why you were nervous earlier on? 158 00:08:37,291 --> 00:08:39,385 I wasn't nervous. 159 00:08:40,014 --> 00:08:41,056 Maybe it was you 160 00:08:41,291 --> 00:08:43,349 who was nervous to be alone with me. 161 00:08:43,469 --> 00:08:45,007 He's a bundle of nerves. 162 00:08:45,127 --> 00:08:47,655 - Well, perhaps if-- - Where'd you get the outfit? 163 00:08:48,209 --> 00:08:50,521 - Paul's talking. - Where'd you get the outfit? 164 00:08:50,641 --> 00:08:52,381 I told you, I spilled coffee on myself 165 00:08:52,501 --> 00:08:55,837 - so I went and bought it. - Which cafe did you go to? 166 00:08:55,957 --> 00:08:58,561 Do you see what I have to deal with here? 167 00:09:02,848 --> 00:09:05,298 The bakery next to the office. 168 00:09:05,725 --> 00:09:08,964 I had an espresso. He had a mint tea. 169 00:09:09,084 --> 00:09:11,501 I had an almond croissant. He had toast. 170 00:09:11,601 --> 00:09:12,995 - There's no shopping in that area. - So? 171 00:09:13,095 --> 00:09:14,879 So what, you drove to a mall? Where to? 172 00:09:14,999 --> 00:09:16,419 So what if I did? 173 00:09:18,166 --> 00:09:20,204 - All the way to a mall. - Yeah. 174 00:09:27,406 --> 00:09:29,442 How much do we owe you, Paul? 175 00:09:29,542 --> 00:09:31,735 - what is the matter with you? - how much do we owe you? 176 00:09:31,835 --> 00:09:32,730 why? 177 00:09:32,830 --> 00:09:34,399 Because we're wasting our time, that's why. 178 00:09:34,499 --> 00:09:36,906 - She went to finalize the abortion. - I didn't finalize anything. 179 00:09:37,006 --> 00:09:39,850 While we've been sitting here waiting to talk about whether or not 180 00:09:39,950 --> 00:09:43,200 we should have an abortion, she'meeting with Kornreich to work out details. 181 00:09:43,300 --> 00:09:45,236 - I didn't work out any details. - You're lying. 182 00:09:45,336 --> 00:09:46,538 I bought a suit. 183 00:09:47,618 --> 00:09:49,567 Did you or did you not see Kornreich? 184 00:09:59,364 --> 00:10:00,868 I did see him. 185 00:10:01,411 --> 00:10:03,400 But I didn't work out anything. 186 00:10:03,977 --> 00:10:05,564 so what were you doing there? 187 00:10:06,501 --> 00:10:08,616 he told both of us that he couldn't do anything 188 00:10:08,736 --> 00:10:11,529 till he ran some tests. So he took some blood from me. 189 00:10:11,649 --> 00:10:14,587 - And you call me suspicious. - Do you see why I hide things from you? 190 00:10:14,707 --> 00:10:16,483 Because you react like a madman. 191 00:10:16,603 --> 00:10:19,247 It isn't an abortion. It's in case we decide to have an abortion. 192 00:10:19,367 --> 00:10:21,312 Did Kornreich ask what I thought about all this 193 00:10:21,412 --> 00:10:23,923 - or is your opinion and his enough? - Oh, god, here we go. 194 00:10:24,023 --> 00:10:26,084 The man's been giving me fertility treatments for five years. 195 00:10:26,184 --> 00:10:27,481 Can I talk to him? 196 00:10:27,601 --> 00:10:30,459 If you were wearing this outfit I'm sure he was happy to talk to you. 197 00:10:30,985 --> 00:10:32,969 Did he look under it? 198 00:10:34,083 --> 00:10:37,234 Did he check you before taking your blood? 199 00:10:39,417 --> 00:10:42,204 - You're such a shithead. - When she curses, Paul, 200 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,300 you know she's lying. 201 00:10:50,075 --> 00:10:51,897 I think, Jake, what Amy 202 00:10:52,686 --> 00:10:54,798 might be trying to say is that 203 00:10:55,418 --> 00:10:57,801 she can't talk to you about this abortion 204 00:10:58,147 --> 00:11:00,738 because you suspect anything that she says. 205 00:11:05,020 --> 00:11:06,629 I'm the one at fault here? 206 00:11:06,729 --> 00:11:08,077 I'm the one at fault? 207 00:11:08,197 --> 00:11:10,549 She arranges a meeting with her OB behind my back 208 00:11:10,669 --> 00:11:12,601 and I'm the one at fault here? 209 00:11:12,819 --> 00:11:15,706 Tell me something, is she paying you behind my back too? 210 00:11:15,826 --> 00:11:18,973 Oh, right. I bribed him so I can have an abortion. 211 00:11:20,596 --> 00:11:22,119 And on the other hand, 212 00:11:22,239 --> 00:11:23,845 Amy, you may be responsible 213 00:11:23,965 --> 00:11:26,042 for Jake's suspicions because you behave 214 00:11:26,162 --> 00:11:28,067 like somebody who's got something to hide. 215 00:11:28,471 --> 00:11:29,514 Because you lie. 216 00:11:29,634 --> 00:11:31,986 Because you won't allow me to have any doubt. 217 00:11:32,334 --> 00:11:33,868 What do you mean by that? 218 00:11:33,988 --> 00:11:35,871 well, you can see it for yourself. 219 00:11:36,190 --> 00:11:38,471 He won't even consider an abortion as an option. 220 00:11:38,591 --> 00:11:41,400 And look at him. Do you hear how he talks to me? 221 00:11:41,606 --> 00:11:43,297 Well, perhaps his, uh-- 222 00:11:44,132 --> 00:11:47,297 His aggressive attitude reflects his need to be 223 00:11:48,282 --> 00:11:50,324 more aware of what's happening to you, 224 00:11:50,536 --> 00:11:51,959 to be part of your decision, 225 00:11:52,079 --> 00:11:54,445 to understand your thought processes. 226 00:11:55,563 --> 00:11:56,802 Maybe it's a... 227 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:00,056 It's an expression of his love for you. 228 00:12:03,890 --> 00:12:04,726 Love? 229 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:06,801 God. 230 00:12:08,557 --> 00:12:12,033 - Cursing me out's all about love? - I didn't curse. 231 00:12:12,153 --> 00:12:13,532 And you're a liar. 232 00:12:14,457 --> 00:12:16,087 I'll go and see Dr. Kornreich tomorrow 233 00:12:16,187 --> 00:12:18,866 and I'll discuss it with him and I will make a decision. 234 00:12:19,363 --> 00:12:22,706 Amy, can you tell us what... 235 00:12:24,142 --> 00:12:26,913 What the most important issues for you are? 236 00:12:27,033 --> 00:12:28,763 We've been through that here, Paul. 237 00:12:28,883 --> 00:12:30,878 I don't know if I want to be pregnant again. 238 00:12:31,177 --> 00:12:34,632 She doesn't want to have the baby. I don't know if I want another baby. 239 00:12:34,934 --> 00:12:38,010 I'm not sure. I told you, I'm tired. 240 00:12:38,130 --> 00:12:40,658 Are you capable of thinking of anything but yourself? 241 00:12:41,136 --> 00:12:43,559 - It's my pregnancy. - Our pregnancy. It's ours. 242 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:44,911 - Oh, really? - That's right. 243 00:12:45,031 --> 00:12:46,714 And the hemorrhoids, are those yours too? 244 00:12:46,814 --> 00:12:49,020 And the nine months of morning sickness, whose are those? 245 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:51,594 And the extra 50 lbs, are those yours too? 246 00:12:51,714 --> 00:12:54,235 Have you spoken to Dr. Kornreich about 247 00:12:54,613 --> 00:12:58,067 terminating this pregnancy that you've wanted for so long? 248 00:13:00,871 --> 00:13:01,614 Yes. 249 00:13:06,157 --> 00:13:07,576 I don't think, 250 00:13:08,431 --> 00:13:10,251 I'll be able to love another baby. 251 00:13:12,491 --> 00:13:14,004 I'm angry at him already. 252 00:13:14,124 --> 00:13:16,934 I feel like it's forcing itself into the middle of things. 253 00:13:17,322 --> 00:13:20,090 ever since I became pregnant, I've felt the hormones raging, 254 00:13:20,190 --> 00:13:23,075 driving me insane. And I know I'll have postpartum 255 00:13:23,195 --> 00:13:25,814 because that's what happened last time. I see it coming 256 00:13:25,934 --> 00:13:27,423 and it paralyzes me. 257 00:13:35,563 --> 00:13:37,736 I won't be able to take care of this child. 258 00:13:43,666 --> 00:13:45,018 I won't love him. 259 00:13:50,595 --> 00:13:54,126 I don't know what I'm capable of, you know? I scare myself. 260 00:13:55,628 --> 00:13:57,200 I scare myself to death. 261 00:14:11,369 --> 00:14:13,022 So, was that convincing enough? 262 00:14:20,732 --> 00:14:21,822 You're insane. 263 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,013 Why, because I want to be able to make my own decision? 264 00:14:25,133 --> 00:14:26,959 - Deranged. - really? 265 00:14:27,079 --> 00:14:28,314 well, if that's the case, 266 00:14:28,434 --> 00:14:30,023 and assuming you're mentally healthy, 267 00:14:30,143 --> 00:14:33,417 why are you in such a hurry to have another child with me? 268 00:14:40,777 --> 00:14:42,633 Maybe you could explain it to her, Paul. 269 00:14:42,733 --> 00:14:44,924 Maybe you could explain that it's abnormal for a woman 270 00:14:45,024 --> 00:14:48,361 to make up such a crazy speech about being depressed. 271 00:14:48,461 --> 00:14:50,786 I want to get you and Kornreich and everybody off my back 272 00:14:50,886 --> 00:14:53,736 so I can make my own decision. And you know what? If playing the part 273 00:14:53,856 --> 00:14:56,501 of the depressed wife will do it, great. There. 274 00:15:04,945 --> 00:15:07,159 I'm sorry I made all that up. 275 00:15:08,218 --> 00:15:09,127 Really? 276 00:15:11,939 --> 00:15:12,848 What? 277 00:15:13,367 --> 00:15:14,458 Did you make it up? 278 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,225 I told you, she's a born liar. 279 00:15:17,526 --> 00:15:18,909 I lied and I apologize. 280 00:15:19,029 --> 00:15:21,703 What? I'll go kneel in the corner and pray for forgiveness. 281 00:15:21,823 --> 00:15:25,000 Isn't it possible that something in this... 282 00:15:26,031 --> 00:15:28,347 Fake narrative of yours 283 00:15:29,191 --> 00:15:31,850 has more than a grain of truth? 284 00:15:32,010 --> 00:15:34,061 Those fears sounded very real to me. 285 00:15:34,496 --> 00:15:36,614 All of a sudden, he's a therapist. 286 00:15:36,734 --> 00:15:39,701 Maybe I'm hearing what she's trying to tell you, Jake. 287 00:15:40,378 --> 00:15:41,944 What am I trying to say to him? 288 00:15:42,594 --> 00:15:44,363 That you're terrified. 289 00:15:44,866 --> 00:15:47,267 You're terrified of having this child. 290 00:15:49,726 --> 00:15:51,125 Can't you hear that? 291 00:15:52,449 --> 00:15:55,541 she's exaggerating her fears so that you will hear her, 292 00:15:55,820 --> 00:15:57,876 so that you will listen to her. 293 00:16:02,547 --> 00:16:03,567 What do you mean? 294 00:16:03,687 --> 00:16:06,601 He means that it's abnormal for a woman 295 00:16:06,721 --> 00:16:09,123 who's spent five years in fertilization treatments 296 00:16:09,243 --> 00:16:13,038 to want to get rid of the baby because she's afraid of hemorrhoids. 297 00:16:19,686 --> 00:16:20,465 It... 298 00:16:21,714 --> 00:16:23,191 It seems to me that 299 00:16:24,261 --> 00:16:27,416 both of you have a wide range of emotions 300 00:16:27,660 --> 00:16:31,069 in respect to this pregnancy. 301 00:16:31,379 --> 00:16:32,529 Perhaps, Jake, 302 00:16:33,327 --> 00:16:36,100 you're not confronting your fears 303 00:16:37,261 --> 00:16:39,627 about not wanting another baby. 304 00:16:40,397 --> 00:16:42,219 And you, Amy, on the other hand, 305 00:16:42,339 --> 00:16:44,048 if you weren't so busy fending him off, 306 00:16:45,034 --> 00:16:49,260 you might find within yourself arguments for wanting another child. 307 00:16:51,434 --> 00:16:53,832 Why is it so hard for the two of you 308 00:16:54,170 --> 00:16:57,498 to understand that a woman may choose to put her career or her body 309 00:16:57,729 --> 00:17:00,606 or whatever ahead of having a child? 310 00:17:01,422 --> 00:17:03,192 I think what I'm trying to say 311 00:17:03,352 --> 00:17:07,280 is that I don't think the issue is as clear-cut 312 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,100 - as both of you want to admit. - Bullshit! 313 00:17:10,429 --> 00:17:12,595 total bullshit. You're talking to two people 314 00:17:12,715 --> 00:17:15,851 who spent five years in fertility treatments. 315 00:17:16,189 --> 00:17:19,041 Do you know what it's like? Five years? 316 00:17:19,420 --> 00:17:22,229 For five years they've injected me and hurt me 317 00:17:22,349 --> 00:17:25,250 and drawn things out of me and told me when to eat and when to sleep 318 00:17:25,370 --> 00:17:27,250 and when to breathe and when to fuck. 319 00:17:27,350 --> 00:17:29,441 Do you know how many hands went in and out of my body during 320 00:17:29,541 --> 00:17:31,221 during the last five years? 321 00:17:32,226 --> 00:17:33,251 For nothing. 322 00:17:34,261 --> 00:17:37,282 And when we stopped the treatments, and not because I wanted to, 323 00:17:37,382 --> 00:17:40,437 because the doctor told us to, the whole world, including him, 324 00:17:40,787 --> 00:17:43,565 comforted me and said, "oh, you know, maybe it's for the best." 325 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:45,467 and you know what? 326 00:17:45,567 --> 00:17:47,949 They actually managed to convince me. 327 00:17:48,963 --> 00:17:50,926 So here I am and it's a year later and 328 00:17:51,046 --> 00:17:52,746 I feel happier and I've lost the weight. 329 00:17:52,866 --> 00:17:55,305 And for the first time I can actually see myself 330 00:17:55,425 --> 00:17:57,180 as someone who... Someone who... 331 00:17:57,300 --> 00:17:59,715 Someone who'd never have a baby with a shithead. 332 00:18:03,330 --> 00:18:04,764 You are so primitive. 333 00:18:04,884 --> 00:18:05,902 Primitive? 334 00:18:10,272 --> 00:18:13,347 Back when she was cheating with me on her first husband, Paul, 335 00:18:13,467 --> 00:18:15,264 I was sexy. 336 00:18:15,490 --> 00:18:18,481 But now I'm primitive. 337 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,937 I still find you sexy. Not as sexy as Reeve right? 338 00:18:23,734 --> 00:18:25,536 You're wrong, believe me. 339 00:18:25,656 --> 00:18:27,328 You know, for a pathological liar, 340 00:18:27,448 --> 00:18:30,147 you sure say "believe me" a lot. 341 00:18:30,267 --> 00:18:34,217 I'm a liar and deranged and egotistical. Anything else? 342 00:18:34,337 --> 00:18:37,364 Just admit that you don't want to have my child. 343 00:18:37,484 --> 00:18:39,751 We already have a child, remember? 344 00:18:39,871 --> 00:18:41,114 Yes, I do. 345 00:18:41,234 --> 00:18:43,667 He's at home having ding dongs for dinner. 346 00:18:54,742 --> 00:18:56,547 you know what? It seems to me that 347 00:18:56,667 --> 00:18:58,989 you're not really talking about a child. 348 00:18:59,109 --> 00:19:01,669 You're really talking about your inability to accept 349 00:19:02,007 --> 00:19:04,167 each other for who you are. 350 00:19:04,287 --> 00:19:06,375 You know, I don't understand what you're doing. 351 00:19:06,495 --> 00:19:08,734 Excuse me, but I just don't get it. 352 00:19:08,988 --> 00:19:12,285 we came here a couple of weeks ago because we couldn't make a decision. 353 00:19:12,385 --> 00:19:14,647 And as time goes by, you try to convince us 354 00:19:14,767 --> 00:19:17,547 that we're not indecisive but that we have problems. 355 00:19:17,647 --> 00:19:19,675 You haven't helped us to decide whether to have the baby or not 356 00:19:19,775 --> 00:19:21,808 but you've done a great job of getting us to fight. 357 00:19:21,909 --> 00:19:23,906 - I think what's com... - We didn't come here in order 358 00:19:24,006 --> 00:19:25,209 to bring things out. 359 00:19:25,309 --> 00:19:28,030 We came here to decide whether to keep the baby or not keep it, that's all. 360 00:19:28,130 --> 00:19:30,547 But it's not a yes or no answer. 361 00:19:31,095 --> 00:19:32,664 Tell me, how do you sleep at night? 362 00:19:32,764 --> 00:19:34,781 What, do you think I should have problems sleeping at night? 363 00:19:34,901 --> 00:19:37,687 If we're talking about a separation here then you should lose some sleep. 364 00:19:37,787 --> 00:19:39,497 But I wasn't talking about a separation. 365 00:19:39,617 --> 00:19:43,257 - Why are we talking about a separation? - we came here to talk about a pregnancy 366 00:19:43,357 --> 00:19:46,035 and we end up talking about all these other things. Relationship yes, 367 00:19:46,135 --> 00:19:49,467 relationship no... I'm sick of it. Yes to the pregnancy or no. 368 00:19:49,567 --> 00:19:50,988 to have an abortion or not have it. 369 00:19:51,088 --> 00:19:52,437 Just fucking say it already. 370 00:19:52,537 --> 00:19:54,966 To keep the child or don't keep it. Tell us what you think. 371 00:19:55,066 --> 00:19:56,879 You want me to give you an answer right now? 372 00:19:56,979 --> 00:19:58,634 I want a yes or a no. 373 00:19:59,033 --> 00:20:00,804 I think you should have an abortion. 374 00:20:05,270 --> 00:20:06,158 Really? 375 00:20:06,975 --> 00:20:08,825 Go ahead, have an abortion. 376 00:20:11,679 --> 00:20:13,397 Is that what you think? 377 00:20:19,623 --> 00:20:21,792 Do you see what's happened here? 378 00:20:22,121 --> 00:20:24,059 Do you see how you shoved me into a corner? 379 00:20:25,351 --> 00:20:27,210 Do you see how I had to give you the answer 380 00:20:27,330 --> 00:20:28,911 that you didn't want to hear? 381 00:20:29,031 --> 00:20:31,316 This is exactly what you do with Amy. 382 00:20:33,144 --> 00:20:36,154 I can't tell you whether or not to have an abortion. 383 00:20:38,362 --> 00:20:40,158 Yes, you can. You just did. 384 00:20:40,747 --> 00:20:42,064 I don't have an answer. 385 00:20:42,164 --> 00:20:44,147 You just gave us an answer. You said to get an abortion. 386 00:20:44,247 --> 00:20:46,801 You could've said many things but you told us to have an abortion, right? 387 00:20:46,901 --> 00:20:49,321 You did. You had an opinion and you let it slip out. 388 00:20:49,441 --> 00:20:51,769 - You're murdering our child. - Stop. Leave him alone. 389 00:20:51,869 --> 00:20:53,829 Let's go. You got what you came here for, right? 390 00:20:53,929 --> 00:20:55,809 There's nothing else to do here. Let's stop wasting... 391 00:20:55,909 --> 00:20:58,551 You know why I can't tell you whether or not you should have an abortion? 392 00:20:58,651 --> 00:21:01,358 It has nothing to do with whether I'm a psychotherapist or not, 393 00:21:01,458 --> 00:21:04,244 whether I'm allowed or whether I'm not allowed. 394 00:21:04,828 --> 00:21:07,223 This is a personal decision for you both. 395 00:21:07,323 --> 00:21:09,412 It is a personal and moral decision 396 00:21:09,630 --> 00:21:12,364 that you must take yourselves. 397 00:21:12,801 --> 00:21:15,353 All I can do is help you to confront your feelings 398 00:21:15,453 --> 00:21:18,067 so that you come to a correct decision 399 00:21:18,167 --> 00:21:19,472 for you both. 400 00:21:20,667 --> 00:21:22,634 That's all I can do. 401 00:21:22,940 --> 00:21:23,992 That's it. 402 00:22:31,567 --> 00:22:32,881 Goodbye, Amy. 403 00:23:16,943 --> 00:23:20,118 Hello, you've reached the office of Dr. Gina Toll. 404 00:23:20,218 --> 00:23:23,701 Please leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. 405 00:23:25,161 --> 00:23:26,667 Gina, it's Paul. 406 00:23:26,926 --> 00:23:28,133 Paul Weston. 407 00:23:28,710 --> 00:23:30,834 I know it's been quite a while. 408 00:23:32,803 --> 00:23:33,714 I'll... 409 00:23:35,029 --> 00:23:36,467 I'll try again later.