1 00:00:01,039 --> 00:00:03,050 Previously on In Treatment... 2 00:00:03,978 --> 00:00:07,418 We just argue nonstop. It's beginning to affect my work. 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,367 If they were to diagnose therapists whose marriages fell apart, 4 00:00:11,938 --> 00:00:14,643 how many cases of erotic transference would they find? 5 00:00:14,895 --> 00:00:18,213 I don't think my marriage to Kate is falling apart. 6 00:00:18,373 --> 00:00:22,235 Yes, I had a row with Laura... I mean with Kate. 7 00:00:22,486 --> 00:00:25,288 - Who's Laura? - The girl with the issue of... 8 00:00:25,877 --> 00:00:27,327 erotic transference. 9 00:00:27,740 --> 00:00:30,075 I didn't come here to talk about a patient. 10 00:00:30,327 --> 00:00:33,330 Did you come here to ask for my guidance? 11 00:00:33,581 --> 00:00:35,164 Or to talk to me as a friend? 12 00:00:35,416 --> 00:00:37,458 Are you seeking advice from a colleague? 13 00:00:37,710 --> 00:00:39,501 What role have you assigned me? 14 00:00:39,742 --> 00:00:42,566 I'm trying to figure it out, but I'm failing! 15 00:00:59,311 --> 00:01:01,861 No, he's not here. Please don't call back. 16 00:01:03,126 --> 00:01:05,476 Because he's dead. He died a year ago. 17 00:01:32,278 --> 00:01:38,911 Subtitles: FRM, swsub.com 18 00:01:48,627 --> 00:01:50,965 Thank you for getting back to me, Amy. I... 19 00:01:51,125 --> 00:01:52,756 I appreciate it. 20 00:01:56,618 --> 00:01:58,792 So I'll see you next week then. 21 00:01:59,999 --> 00:02:00,999 Same time. 22 00:02:02,124 --> 00:02:03,374 Thank you. Bye. 23 00:02:29,058 --> 00:02:30,013 It's... 24 00:02:31,501 --> 00:02:32,501 It's true. 25 00:02:34,375 --> 00:02:35,525 Kate's been... 26 00:02:38,998 --> 00:02:40,448 She's been seeing... 27 00:02:40,928 --> 00:02:41,905 this guy. 28 00:02:44,064 --> 00:02:47,047 Supermarket manager, employment agency guy... 29 00:02:47,287 --> 00:02:49,557 I forget what he does, but anyway, 30 00:02:50,624 --> 00:02:52,038 he's divorced, 31 00:02:52,596 --> 00:02:53,850 got a kid. 32 00:02:56,439 --> 00:02:58,989 She made sure to tell me all the details. 33 00:03:07,502 --> 00:03:10,487 - Did she say how long? - Everything's gone to hell... 34 00:03:10,934 --> 00:03:12,284 Patients, family. 35 00:03:13,376 --> 00:03:14,376 If I was... 36 00:03:15,061 --> 00:03:18,111 If I was into astrology, I'd say there was something 37 00:03:19,312 --> 00:03:22,179 cosmic going on, planets colliding somewhere. 38 00:03:26,253 --> 00:03:29,714 First, one of my patients... The pilot I was telling you about... 39 00:03:30,065 --> 00:03:31,722 He's leaving his wife. 40 00:03:32,145 --> 00:03:33,395 Just like that. 41 00:03:33,563 --> 00:03:36,613 She grinds her teeth in her sleep, so marriage over. 42 00:03:37,966 --> 00:03:41,690 And the 16-year-old, the gymnast? She's having an affair 43 00:03:42,878 --> 00:03:45,313 with this guy in his mid-40s, married guy... 44 00:03:45,906 --> 00:03:49,341 Her coach. At least I think that's what she's hinting at. 45 00:03:49,501 --> 00:03:52,443 And she also goes to the same school as my daughter 46 00:03:53,144 --> 00:03:55,708 so I had the pleasure of finding out that... 47 00:03:56,312 --> 00:03:59,462 Rosie was having a... A thing... 48 00:03:59,843 --> 00:04:01,810 with this boy at school. 49 00:04:03,127 --> 00:04:06,713 I don't even know what a thing is. I don't even know if it's true. 50 00:04:06,873 --> 00:04:08,723 I asked her. I got nowhere. 51 00:04:08,883 --> 00:04:10,888 She wouldn't tell me anything. 52 00:04:13,125 --> 00:04:14,575 And then finally... 53 00:04:24,999 --> 00:04:25,999 Is it me? 54 00:04:28,739 --> 00:04:30,089 Kate says it is. 55 00:04:30,249 --> 00:04:31,807 She says it's my fault. 56 00:04:32,187 --> 00:04:35,100 I don't see her, that's she's invisible. 57 00:04:35,377 --> 00:04:38,998 She says I don't see the kids either, they're invisible too. 58 00:04:39,158 --> 00:04:42,858 As far as I know, Rosie could be having sex with a drug addict. 59 00:04:43,312 --> 00:04:46,840 Everybody talks about her at school... at least that's what she said. 60 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,750 Who said? Kate said that? 61 00:04:49,624 --> 00:04:52,999 - I'm lost, Paul. - The girl, Sophie... the gymnast. 62 00:04:53,382 --> 00:04:57,153 - You talk about 10 things at once. - No, she's in the same grade as Rosie. 63 00:04:57,313 --> 00:04:59,179 Let's focus on Kate. 64 00:05:09,690 --> 00:05:11,740 What am I supposed to do, Gina? 65 00:05:13,190 --> 00:05:14,991 I mean, what... 66 00:05:15,921 --> 00:05:17,888 what am I supposed to do... 67 00:05:18,456 --> 00:05:19,293 now? 68 00:05:23,250 --> 00:05:25,589 Did she say what she thinks will happen now 69 00:05:25,749 --> 00:05:27,399 between the two of you? 70 00:05:28,224 --> 00:05:31,455 I don't know. She said it's... She said it's up to me. 71 00:05:31,911 --> 00:05:34,278 - What do you think that means? - You tell me. 72 00:05:34,438 --> 00:05:37,664 She's banging some insurance salesman and it's up to me? 73 00:05:38,084 --> 00:05:39,664 She gave me all the details. 74 00:05:39,824 --> 00:05:42,084 She blows him, she screws him... 75 00:05:42,909 --> 00:05:44,432 It's like a porno film. 76 00:05:44,672 --> 00:05:46,776 - She told you that? - Absolutely. 77 00:05:46,936 --> 00:05:49,186 - Why? - You know, my conception... 78 00:05:49,872 --> 00:05:51,222 maybe I should say 79 00:05:51,625 --> 00:05:54,375 my misconception of Kate is that everything... 80 00:05:56,377 --> 00:05:59,401 Everything about sex was always connected to 81 00:05:59,561 --> 00:06:00,812 intimacy for her. 82 00:06:01,435 --> 00:06:03,842 There was never anything weird or dirty about sex. 83 00:06:04,002 --> 00:06:05,952 It was always about intimacy. 84 00:06:06,830 --> 00:06:09,905 Now I feel if someone throws the word intimacy at me, 85 00:06:10,065 --> 00:06:12,255 I want to punch her in the mouth. 86 00:06:13,183 --> 00:06:14,504 Punch "her" in the mouth? 87 00:06:15,502 --> 00:06:17,552 - What? - You said punch "her." 88 00:06:21,875 --> 00:06:24,862 You know, all that bullshit that I thought meant 89 00:06:25,250 --> 00:06:26,627 intimacy to her... 90 00:06:26,787 --> 00:06:29,894 The candles, the backrubs, feeling safe. 91 00:06:32,127 --> 00:06:34,563 Meanwhile she's in her own porno film, 92 00:06:35,016 --> 00:06:36,294 fucking this... 93 00:06:37,448 --> 00:06:38,439 This guy. 94 00:06:42,052 --> 00:06:45,201 I'm trying to figure out why she would tell you graphic details. 95 00:06:45,999 --> 00:06:49,538 - Because she wanted to hurt me. - Did you ask for details? 96 00:06:54,687 --> 00:06:56,037 I just wanted to... 97 00:06:56,502 --> 00:06:59,552 I wanted to get a grasp of the situation, you know? 98 00:07:00,496 --> 00:07:03,218 She made sure you wouldn't ignore what she was saying. 99 00:07:06,438 --> 00:07:08,473 I think you knew what was going on. 100 00:07:09,749 --> 00:07:12,259 Last week when we spoke, I think you knew. 101 00:07:12,625 --> 00:07:15,675 I'm sure Kate sensed that as well... your suspicion. 102 00:07:16,190 --> 00:07:17,440 Maybe I'm wrong. 103 00:07:19,689 --> 00:07:20,689 I knew. 104 00:07:22,940 --> 00:07:23,940 I did know. 105 00:07:29,599 --> 00:07:32,477 You'd think that would make it easier, you know? 106 00:07:34,752 --> 00:07:36,902 Almost threw her out of the house. 107 00:07:38,313 --> 00:07:40,063 It was like, "You hurt me, 108 00:07:42,063 --> 00:07:45,417 "I'm gonna hurt you. Now just get the fuck out of here." 109 00:07:46,247 --> 00:07:48,293 I mean, there are a thousand ways 110 00:07:48,453 --> 00:07:50,516 that people can deal with these things. 111 00:07:50,767 --> 00:07:53,215 We could have gone to therapy, for example. 112 00:07:54,624 --> 00:07:57,095 I mean, not everybody has to fuck around. 113 00:08:03,937 --> 00:08:04,987 What's that? 114 00:08:06,926 --> 00:08:08,755 Coldex Night. 115 00:08:11,124 --> 00:08:13,974 They're supposed to be stronger than Coldex Day. 116 00:08:14,871 --> 00:08:18,781 I've had two of them already. They kind of make you a bit stoned. 117 00:08:18,941 --> 00:08:20,619 Do you want some tea? 118 00:08:20,998 --> 00:08:23,674 - Water would be good, thanks. - Sure. 119 00:08:34,759 --> 00:08:37,008 I had a session yesterday with that... 120 00:08:37,645 --> 00:08:38,594 Thanks. 121 00:08:42,063 --> 00:08:44,213 With that couple who called me a... 122 00:08:44,865 --> 00:08:46,854 Who called me a murderer. 123 00:08:47,363 --> 00:08:49,335 In the middle of the session, 124 00:08:50,064 --> 00:08:53,014 she runs to the bathroom and she starts to bleed. 125 00:08:53,624 --> 00:08:55,674 - What happened? - Miscarriage. 126 00:08:55,877 --> 00:08:57,864 - My God. - It was pretty scary. 127 00:08:58,115 --> 00:08:59,961 - How is she? - I think she's fine. 128 00:09:00,201 --> 00:09:02,906 I just spoke to her at the hospital. They're running some tests, 129 00:09:03,066 --> 00:09:04,631 but she seems to be okay. 130 00:09:05,834 --> 00:09:07,509 At least I'm not a murderer. 131 00:09:07,750 --> 00:09:11,504 Though I wouldn't be surprised if the husband blamed me for everything. 132 00:09:11,664 --> 00:09:14,419 You know, stress as a result of therapy. 133 00:09:15,941 --> 00:09:17,091 It's possible. 134 00:09:19,718 --> 00:09:20,779 Ironically, 135 00:09:21,947 --> 00:09:25,089 they'd both just kind of worked out their problem. 136 00:09:25,249 --> 00:09:29,032 They weren't arguing, which for them, is a major accomplishment. 137 00:09:30,001 --> 00:09:31,407 And he said to me: 138 00:09:31,567 --> 00:09:33,965 "This is our last session." 139 00:09:35,063 --> 00:09:36,063 And then... 140 00:09:37,061 --> 00:09:39,121 Then it happened. 141 00:09:42,689 --> 00:09:45,152 Anyway, I was trying to get the blood out of the couch, 142 00:09:45,312 --> 00:09:47,862 'cause when she got up, she left a stain, 143 00:09:48,315 --> 00:09:50,265 and Kate walks into the room. 144 00:09:51,009 --> 00:09:53,307 And she looks around and she says... 145 00:09:54,378 --> 00:09:57,751 "What goes on in this office?" 146 00:10:02,091 --> 00:10:03,221 Anyway... 147 00:10:04,765 --> 00:10:06,157 Quite a week. 148 00:10:08,003 --> 00:10:09,153 Quite a week. 149 00:10:10,312 --> 00:10:12,083 Ultimatums from two women. 150 00:10:13,774 --> 00:10:14,911 Kate and Laura. 151 00:10:15,151 --> 00:10:17,538 - Laura? - She tells you she's in love with you. 152 00:10:18,812 --> 00:10:21,575 What's... What are we going back to that for? 153 00:10:21,916 --> 00:10:24,326 I was talking about something completely different. 154 00:10:24,588 --> 00:10:27,840 You don't think it's relevant? You describe two women attacking you. 155 00:10:28,626 --> 00:10:30,968 Two women? What about three women? 156 00:10:32,803 --> 00:10:34,461 Does it feel like I'm attacking? 157 00:10:36,516 --> 00:10:39,753 Maybe that's why you're taking pills to protect yourself against me. 158 00:10:40,439 --> 00:10:41,646 I have a cold, see? 159 00:10:41,886 --> 00:10:44,319 Last week you called me a sleepy spider, 160 00:10:44,765 --> 00:10:45,691 in wait. 161 00:10:48,626 --> 00:10:49,987 Were you... 162 00:10:50,498 --> 00:10:52,145 Were you insulted by that? 163 00:10:55,751 --> 00:10:57,001 I take it back. 164 00:10:58,001 --> 00:10:59,665 You're not sleepy. 165 00:11:05,547 --> 00:11:08,464 Would you agree that your relationship with Kate has been... 166 00:11:09,309 --> 00:11:13,232 a wall between you and your patients so that you're safe, 167 00:11:14,354 --> 00:11:16,055 you're not attracted to them? 168 00:11:18,028 --> 00:11:20,857 Attraction's... It's not a problem. 169 00:11:24,623 --> 00:11:28,568 Freud, Messer, Davies, all the big guys, 170 00:11:29,063 --> 00:11:32,143 they all talk about how attraction is inevitable, it's part of therapy. 171 00:11:32,829 --> 00:11:36,380 But if you brush it under the rug, the message you're giving to the patient 172 00:11:36,540 --> 00:11:39,799 is that their feelings are perverse, are dangerous. 173 00:11:39,959 --> 00:11:42,313 Their feelings? I'm talking about your feelings. 174 00:11:43,441 --> 00:11:47,420 I'm not worried that Laura will try and break down the wall on her own. 175 00:11:48,012 --> 00:11:49,979 I'm worried that you want her to. 176 00:11:50,512 --> 00:11:52,236 The wall? 177 00:11:53,914 --> 00:11:55,903 What is this metaphor? 178 00:11:56,868 --> 00:11:59,365 - My wife is a wall? - You don't agree? 179 00:12:00,186 --> 00:12:02,090 I'm not hiding from my patients. 180 00:12:04,123 --> 00:12:07,479 - That essay that Bolas wrote about... - Forget about Bolas. 181 00:12:08,875 --> 00:12:12,201 Every time we go deeper, you reach for some theory... 182 00:12:13,252 --> 00:12:16,438 These male therapists tormented by lust for their patients. Right? 183 00:12:17,565 --> 00:12:20,482 I mention Laura and that's who you start quoting. 184 00:12:20,642 --> 00:12:22,895 But why are we even talking about Laura? 185 00:12:23,055 --> 00:12:25,249 Because I want you to hear what you're saying. 186 00:12:25,750 --> 00:12:27,875 That you're surrounded by women who demand 187 00:12:28,035 --> 00:12:30,412 that you respond and love and 188 00:12:30,572 --> 00:12:32,965 be angry and feel, 189 00:12:33,205 --> 00:12:35,256 that you face your feelings. 190 00:12:46,082 --> 00:12:48,292 Did I mention that Laura is... 191 00:12:49,151 --> 00:12:50,816 Is getting married in June? 192 00:12:56,548 --> 00:12:58,156 So Laura's over. 193 00:12:58,316 --> 00:13:01,339 That's finished. 194 00:13:05,725 --> 00:13:08,664 If anyone wants to pull down a wall, it's Kate. 195 00:13:10,604 --> 00:13:12,770 - Why? - Secrecy. She... 196 00:13:13,864 --> 00:13:16,776 She hates it. She hates that I can't share it. 197 00:13:16,936 --> 00:13:18,969 - You mean work? - She resents my office. 198 00:13:19,209 --> 00:13:22,468 It's like enemy territory to her. She's always trying to make it 199 00:13:22,628 --> 00:13:25,025 her space... a piece of it. 200 00:13:25,185 --> 00:13:27,322 Like "Let's get a new sofa." 201 00:13:27,482 --> 00:13:30,460 - Or new blinds or a rug or something. - Do you let her? 202 00:13:30,620 --> 00:13:32,322 - No, I don't. - Why not? 203 00:13:32,482 --> 00:13:35,350 Because I agree with her. It's not her space. 204 00:13:43,826 --> 00:13:47,392 There was a time when I used to talk about my patients, when Ian was a kid. 205 00:13:48,614 --> 00:13:51,460 I would share... share details. 206 00:13:51,700 --> 00:13:54,935 - With Kate. You don't mean Ian. - Both of them at the dinner table. 207 00:13:58,220 --> 00:14:00,970 I see that look of horror on your face. 208 00:14:01,210 --> 00:14:04,502 No, I was pretty discreet actually. I never mentioned any names. 209 00:14:04,662 --> 00:14:07,086 If someone mentioned rats, I'd say, 210 00:14:07,246 --> 00:14:09,833 "I had a patient with a fear of rats, 211 00:14:10,550 --> 00:14:13,346 "dreamed about rats every night." You know, stuff like that. 212 00:14:13,597 --> 00:14:15,561 - You don't do that now? - No. 213 00:14:15,721 --> 00:14:18,101 But I remember when Ian was about 10, 214 00:14:18,363 --> 00:14:21,411 he asked me, "Dad, what's an alcoholic?" 215 00:14:22,113 --> 00:14:24,517 And I told him about this patient of mine 216 00:14:24,677 --> 00:14:27,761 who needed a drink actually to get out of bed in the morning. 217 00:14:30,029 --> 00:14:33,609 One day this man came up to the office and he was... 218 00:14:34,108 --> 00:14:37,973 kind of staggering and Ian said, "Dad, is that the alcoholic?" 219 00:14:40,410 --> 00:14:41,842 You were careless. 220 00:14:46,738 --> 00:14:48,688 This situation now, I think... 221 00:14:49,987 --> 00:14:51,891 There's more at stake. 222 00:14:52,051 --> 00:14:54,679 - Do you agree? - Because we're talking about a woman? 223 00:14:54,930 --> 00:14:56,467 Sexual attraction. 224 00:15:04,483 --> 00:15:06,539 Can I ask you a question? 225 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:11,288 You're in the middle of a session and a patient needed to use the bathroom 226 00:15:11,833 --> 00:15:13,665 and your bathroom is blocked up. 227 00:15:14,421 --> 00:15:17,035 Would you let them use the bathroom in your house? 228 00:15:17,286 --> 00:15:20,731 - Did that happen? - Laura said that she had to pee. 229 00:15:21,656 --> 00:15:24,587 And I told her, "Well, the toilet's blocked up." 230 00:15:25,234 --> 00:15:27,640 So she headed for the door of the house and... 231 00:15:28,228 --> 00:15:31,435 I freaked out. I jumped up and I stopped her. 232 00:15:32,139 --> 00:15:35,838 I'm keeping your metaphor going here. I hope you appreciate that about the... 233 00:15:35,998 --> 00:15:38,069 She tried to scale the wall. 234 00:15:39,310 --> 00:15:42,530 There's always a patient who wants to know about you... 235 00:15:44,190 --> 00:15:46,533 More about your private self. 236 00:15:48,632 --> 00:15:49,847 Anyway... 237 00:15:52,773 --> 00:15:55,073 - What did you do? - I jumped up. I panicked. 238 00:15:55,233 --> 00:15:58,660 - What made you panic? - She was doing it on purpose, I felt. 239 00:15:59,504 --> 00:16:02,929 I thought, "Why can't she hold it for another 10 minutes?" 240 00:16:09,199 --> 00:16:10,944 Why did I panic? 241 00:16:14,299 --> 00:16:16,000 I don't know really. 242 00:16:18,173 --> 00:16:20,923 Has that ever happened with another patient? 243 00:16:21,841 --> 00:16:23,509 Sophie, the gymnast... 244 00:16:24,087 --> 00:16:25,937 She came in last week and... 245 00:16:26,337 --> 00:16:29,287 it had been raining and she was completely soaked. 246 00:16:29,835 --> 00:16:33,150 So I let her change into my daughter's clothes. 247 00:16:33,712 --> 00:16:35,962 That didn't make you uncomfortable? 248 00:16:37,107 --> 00:16:39,676 It's a lot more intimate than using the bathroom... 249 00:16:39,836 --> 00:16:41,470 Rosie's clothes. 250 00:16:43,519 --> 00:16:47,336 She had casts on both her arms from the accident. 251 00:16:48,306 --> 00:16:51,271 And she held up her hands like this and she said, 252 00:16:52,126 --> 00:16:53,392 "Undress me." 253 00:16:54,335 --> 00:16:56,290 So, I got Kate to come in and help her. 254 00:16:56,450 --> 00:16:58,874 - How old did you say she was? - 16. 255 00:16:59,331 --> 00:17:01,514 She's the girl who's sleeping with her adult coach? 256 00:17:01,765 --> 00:17:03,850 She might be sleeping with her coach. 257 00:17:04,112 --> 00:17:06,483 It's a loaded situation, her asking you to undress her. 258 00:17:06,643 --> 00:17:08,220 She was messing with me. 259 00:17:09,745 --> 00:17:11,831 You had no problem handling that? 260 00:17:11,991 --> 00:17:15,549 You had Kate help her, undress her, give her your daughter's clothes. 261 00:17:15,709 --> 00:17:18,169 But when Laura needs to use the bathroom, you freak out. 262 00:17:18,329 --> 00:17:20,431 - Why is that? - Laura is a woman. 263 00:17:20,591 --> 00:17:22,660 Sophie's just a... she's just a child. 264 00:17:22,922 --> 00:17:25,229 Shouldn't that make it easier? 265 00:17:33,526 --> 00:17:37,015 You know, there was... There was a part of me 266 00:17:37,461 --> 00:17:40,179 that really wanted Laura to go through the door, 267 00:17:41,458 --> 00:17:43,118 to see where I live. 268 00:17:43,568 --> 00:17:47,101 - Maybe to... to see Kate. - You wanted that? 269 00:17:48,401 --> 00:17:50,151 Was that what scared you? 270 00:17:51,839 --> 00:17:54,192 Did you discuss what Laura told you last week? 271 00:17:55,709 --> 00:17:58,793 She said that the reason that she was going to marry this guy, 272 00:17:58,953 --> 00:18:02,930 this boyfriend Andrew, was because I told her I wasn't interested. 273 00:18:04,275 --> 00:18:07,121 I know what you're thinking, but I made it really clear. 274 00:18:07,383 --> 00:18:08,745 I said nothing 275 00:18:09,485 --> 00:18:11,428 is going to happen between us. 276 00:18:12,108 --> 00:18:13,898 - Good. - I'm... I'm just... 277 00:18:14,775 --> 00:18:17,858 I'm not going to play along. This is not going to happen. 278 00:18:19,273 --> 00:18:20,423 In your mind, 279 00:18:20,790 --> 00:18:23,805 is there any possibility that the affair could become a reality? 280 00:18:26,102 --> 00:18:27,481 No, in your mind. 281 00:18:28,156 --> 00:18:31,831 Look, I have to admit sometimes, it's... It's flattering. 282 00:18:33,734 --> 00:18:36,640 I can't help but enjoy the feeling. 283 00:18:37,733 --> 00:18:39,168 But I told her no. 284 00:18:39,607 --> 00:18:41,457 I said, "This cannot happen. 285 00:18:41,919 --> 00:18:44,502 "You cannot go through that door. There are limits." 286 00:18:44,910 --> 00:18:47,994 Is that what upset you, that she was testing you? 287 00:18:48,424 --> 00:18:50,374 It's not that abstract. 288 00:18:53,172 --> 00:18:54,839 She's a beautiful woman. 289 00:18:55,421 --> 00:18:59,043 She says she wants to have sex with me. 290 00:19:00,487 --> 00:19:02,005 I know what's in her head, 291 00:19:02,165 --> 00:19:05,648 so I don't want her going through the door and maybe bumping into Kate. 292 00:19:05,900 --> 00:19:07,848 But you said you did want that. 293 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,654 Some part of you wanted that. 294 00:19:15,388 --> 00:19:16,952 The point I'm making is that 295 00:19:17,112 --> 00:19:19,762 I want Laura to understand that we can survive this, 296 00:19:19,922 --> 00:19:23,030 that any attraction that comes up between us I can handle. 297 00:19:23,297 --> 00:19:25,824 I am not going to let this derail the therapy. 298 00:19:25,984 --> 00:19:27,838 Her wanting to sleep with you? 299 00:19:28,089 --> 00:19:29,590 How did she put it exactly? 300 00:19:31,199 --> 00:19:32,960 That she knows that... 301 00:19:33,545 --> 00:19:34,698 I want her. 302 00:19:35,681 --> 00:19:37,689 She said that she wants to... 303 00:19:39,420 --> 00:19:43,254 to fuck me and that she knows that I want to fuck her too. 304 00:19:44,978 --> 00:19:46,921 That's a lot to stave off, 305 00:19:47,858 --> 00:19:51,447 - that kind of intensity. - She can be very direct... Laura. 306 00:19:52,423 --> 00:19:54,393 Maybe that's why I panicked. 307 00:19:59,923 --> 00:20:01,747 Here's what I think, Paul, 308 00:20:02,107 --> 00:20:05,784 and you can accept this or tell me I'm interfering again, but 309 00:20:07,416 --> 00:20:09,532 given the situation with Kate, 310 00:20:10,737 --> 00:20:14,158 I think we... we might explore the option 311 00:20:14,611 --> 00:20:16,844 of transferring Laura to another therapist. 312 00:20:17,858 --> 00:20:20,201 - What? - Just hear me out on this. 313 00:20:20,361 --> 00:20:23,312 Because Laura thinks she wants to sleep with me? 314 00:20:23,618 --> 00:20:26,548 Last week you thought we were already having sex. 315 00:20:26,708 --> 00:20:29,399 I thought you had an affair and you were trying to justify it. 316 00:20:29,725 --> 00:20:32,474 - Thanks, Gina. - I was wrong. I'm sorry. 317 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,564 I jumped to conclusions. 318 00:20:35,296 --> 00:20:36,846 You've reassured me. 319 00:20:37,318 --> 00:20:39,325 But now this situation with Kate... 320 00:20:39,922 --> 00:20:42,890 How emotional you are and the pressure you're under. 321 00:20:43,050 --> 00:20:44,387 Listen to yourself. 322 00:20:44,547 --> 00:20:47,738 You're injured. You're vulnerable. You're angry. 323 00:20:49,050 --> 00:20:51,074 This isn't me being stubborn, Paul. 324 00:20:51,234 --> 00:20:54,035 I think we should just discuss the possibility 325 00:20:54,195 --> 00:20:56,874 that Laura's better off with a different therapist. 326 00:20:57,136 --> 00:21:00,225 - A female therapist, you mean. - Yeah, preferably. 327 00:21:00,385 --> 00:21:02,922 - You, for instance? - No, I'm retired, remember? 328 00:21:03,184 --> 00:21:04,767 This is so typical of you. 329 00:21:05,045 --> 00:21:08,933 You always begin by saying "I hate to say this, but... 330 00:21:10,031 --> 00:21:11,052 "But..." 331 00:21:11,362 --> 00:21:14,700 And you lay some pronouncement on me that you've already been thinking about 332 00:21:14,860 --> 00:21:18,114 before you've come into the session. This isn't a debate club, you know? 333 00:21:18,355 --> 00:21:21,517 It's not like we take a position and we hunt for ways to support it. 334 00:21:21,677 --> 00:21:24,410 That's not what I'm doing. I'm listening. 335 00:21:25,295 --> 00:21:28,406 You have Kate on one side and you have Laura on the other. 336 00:21:28,657 --> 00:21:31,817 But they're two totally different situations, Gina. 337 00:21:37,988 --> 00:21:40,639 Are you saying that I pushed Kate into this situation? 338 00:21:40,799 --> 00:21:43,249 That I created this environment at home 339 00:21:44,671 --> 00:21:47,341 so that Kate could go fuck an insurance agent 340 00:21:47,592 --> 00:21:50,139 because really I'm in love with Laura? 341 00:21:50,433 --> 00:21:53,139 Isn't that your theory? Your notes somewhere? 342 00:21:53,390 --> 00:21:55,652 - Look at how you're reacting. - How am I reacting? 343 00:21:59,924 --> 00:22:03,274 I am not sending Laura to another therapist. 344 00:22:03,619 --> 00:22:04,922 End of story. 345 00:22:05,639 --> 00:22:07,875 I can handle whatever comes up in the sessions. 346 00:22:08,035 --> 00:22:11,631 That's why I'm here... Because I want you to help me to handle it. 347 00:22:11,791 --> 00:22:13,993 We just need to discuss this, Paul. 348 00:22:14,255 --> 00:22:16,340 I don't want to pawn her off on somebody else. 349 00:22:16,580 --> 00:22:18,254 But what's best for Laura? 350 00:22:18,414 --> 00:22:21,229 Honestly, if it wasn't for Kate cheating... 351 00:22:23,261 --> 00:22:25,139 I wouldn't be here, Gina. 352 00:22:30,171 --> 00:22:33,452 And we haven't talked about your comment the last time. 353 00:22:34,448 --> 00:22:37,451 - I was pretty pissed off about that. - About what? 354 00:22:37,611 --> 00:22:41,387 You made a crack about my father leaving my mother for a patient. 355 00:22:41,986 --> 00:22:44,036 What was that supposed to mean? 356 00:22:44,279 --> 00:22:47,816 That I can't treat Laura because of what my father did years ago? 357 00:22:47,976 --> 00:22:49,706 I'm not my father, for Christ's sake. 358 00:22:49,946 --> 00:22:53,074 No, you're not your father. I'm suggesting a pattern 359 00:22:53,234 --> 00:22:55,791 - that might be threatening to you. - Are you 360 00:22:55,951 --> 00:22:59,324 or are you not, Gina, saying that because of my father, 361 00:22:59,484 --> 00:23:01,934 that I'm in danger of having an affair? 362 00:23:05,860 --> 00:23:06,860 My gut... 363 00:23:09,685 --> 00:23:11,559 You can't answer it, can you? 364 00:23:14,323 --> 00:23:15,470 No, I can't. 365 00:23:22,396 --> 00:23:26,315 If I remember correctly, you were faced with the same scenario yourself. 366 00:23:26,976 --> 00:23:29,448 So maybe this really isn't about my father. 367 00:23:29,608 --> 00:23:31,458 Maybe it's about you, Gina. 368 00:23:32,044 --> 00:23:35,360 Don't forget I was the one who referred Charlie to you. 369 00:23:36,420 --> 00:23:39,470 I remember he called me after one of your sessions. 370 00:23:40,045 --> 00:23:41,995 And he confessed to me that... 371 00:23:42,924 --> 00:23:46,405 that he was in love with you. No, actually he went further. 372 00:23:47,047 --> 00:23:49,878 He said that you were in love with each other. 373 00:23:50,899 --> 00:23:53,134 Maybe he was wrong, I don't know. 374 00:23:53,732 --> 00:23:56,760 Either way, you needed to face that, and you didn't. 375 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,770 You just ran off to England. 376 00:23:59,607 --> 00:24:02,757 You know what? I could not believe when that happened. 377 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,970 That was a wake-up call for me, 378 00:24:07,675 --> 00:24:09,625 watching you behave like that. 379 00:24:10,836 --> 00:24:13,361 - I didn't run away. - Come on, 380 00:24:13,521 --> 00:24:16,753 a sabbatical with David? At that moment? 381 00:24:24,924 --> 00:24:26,927 By the way, is that what your novel is about? 382 00:24:28,954 --> 00:24:30,049 I figured. 383 00:24:30,982 --> 00:24:33,322 You failed the same test yourself, Gina, 384 00:24:33,482 --> 00:24:35,332 but you abandoned a patient. 385 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:41,134 He tried to get hold of you over the years, didn't he? 386 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,070 A few letters. 387 00:24:46,235 --> 00:24:47,485 I didn't answer. 388 00:24:49,751 --> 00:24:51,786 You do know that he died a few months ago? 389 00:24:56,170 --> 00:24:57,570 Prostate cancer. 390 00:25:00,918 --> 00:25:04,431 It was right after David and I couldn't go to another funeral. 391 00:25:04,591 --> 00:25:06,870 I just couldn't... I couldn't face it. 392 00:25:13,610 --> 00:25:17,260 It's funny, you know? I was talking about Charlie the other day 393 00:25:18,296 --> 00:25:19,856 to a patient of mine. 394 00:25:20,281 --> 00:25:23,968 I was saying that I... I'd been to his funeral and that I was... 395 00:25:24,766 --> 00:25:27,196 I couldn't feel sadness. 396 00:25:29,173 --> 00:25:32,023 And I was, you know, beating myself up about it. 397 00:25:36,797 --> 00:25:38,347 The truth is, I was... 398 00:25:39,809 --> 00:25:42,076 I was so disillusioned with you, Gina, 399 00:25:43,296 --> 00:25:45,434 for keeping you on as a supervisor. 400 00:25:45,594 --> 00:25:49,673 After what you pulled with Charlie, I should have just walked out then. 401 00:25:51,922 --> 00:25:54,688 You know that he never ever got over you? 402 00:26:06,296 --> 00:26:08,546 Since we're digging for the truth... 403 00:26:14,536 --> 00:26:16,871 May I ask how you really feel about Laura? 404 00:26:17,465 --> 00:26:21,310 I haven't heard a clear answer. Not what you're going to do about her, 405 00:26:21,470 --> 00:26:22,711 but how you feel. 406 00:26:22,962 --> 00:26:26,506 Do you mean, am I attracted to her? 407 00:26:26,757 --> 00:26:28,257 - Are you? - Come on, Gina. 408 00:26:28,498 --> 00:26:31,259 If I transferred every patient I was attracted to at some point, 409 00:26:31,419 --> 00:26:33,574 I wouldn't have any patients left. 410 00:26:35,549 --> 00:26:39,219 And it's not your place to say I should transfer a patient. 411 00:26:39,379 --> 00:26:42,202 It's like me telling that couple they should have an abortion. 412 00:26:42,362 --> 00:26:44,212 It's not what therapists do. 413 00:26:44,420 --> 00:26:47,840 We don't tell people how to run their lives. 414 00:26:49,672 --> 00:26:53,376 I'm suggesting that we talk about stopping Laura's therapy 415 00:26:53,536 --> 00:26:54,910 and look at your reaction. 416 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,287 Paul, do you really need another pill? 417 00:27:00,447 --> 00:27:03,861 I know. Tomorrow's Saturday. I can sleep all day Sunday. 418 00:27:04,639 --> 00:27:08,020 I don't really care if they knock me out or not, really. 419 00:27:12,573 --> 00:27:15,753 What you're going through with Kate is so complicated.