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Previously on In Treatment.

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Thanks for seeing me.
I had no one else to talk to.

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- I thought my hour would be filled already.
- No.

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- I'm really glad that you called.
- Really?

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Losing a patient is such a big deal?

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Losing you is a big deal.

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I think it's time for you to know.

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Know what?

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That I have very deep feelings for you.

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What are you talking about,
you're going away for a few days?

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It's for a week, actually.

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With him?

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Where are you going?

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To Rome.

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- Daddy?
- (Water running)

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Hey.

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Lan's being an asshole.

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What?

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Your son. Asshole.

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Come on, Rosie. He's heading
back to school in, what? Two hours.

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Don't you at least want
to know what he did?

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Can you two not get along
for just one lousy weekend?

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- Is that not possible?
- He washed my iPod.

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I had some clothes on top of the machine,

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and he dumped them in
with his disgusting sports stuff

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and my iPod was in my pocket.

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- (Sighs) Oh, Jesus.
- I know.

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- I can't believe it.
- I know.

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Your brother's actually doing laundry?

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You know it's not funny.
He didn't even offer to pay me back.

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What am I supposed to do?
I can't live without my music.

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- Mm.
- (Beeping)

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- What? Who's that?
- Hm.

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Um...

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- Hello?
- Just... just one second.

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(Sighs)

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OK. You were saying?

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You know what I love?
There's nothing so important in your life

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that a text message doesn't take priority.

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My generation might have a slightly different
relationship with technology than yours.

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- Why don't you try reading a book?
- I'd actually rather die, but thanks.

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Come on, Dad. Give me a break.
It's a national holiday.

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OK.

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How can anybody type so fast?

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I... Here, let me see.

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No, Dad, no.

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- I just want to see it.
- Dad, no. It's private.

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OK, OK, you're right.

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What's "musm"?

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It's m-u-s-m.

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- It means "miss you so much".
- Oh.

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OK.

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So who's, uh...

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Who's missing you so much?

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I... I thought we were having a conversation.

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We really weren't.

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So who's missing you so much?

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Relax, Dad.

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- Just a friend.
- Boyfriend?

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Uh, a friend that's a boy.

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Oh, OK. So, uh...

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So, what's his name?

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He doesn't have a name.

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He doesn't have a name?

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No, actually he believes
that names are anchors

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- that weigh down the soul.
- Please tell me you're kidding.

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I'm kidding.

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His name is Noah.

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- Noah?
- Noah.

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- Oh. From school?
- No.

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From where?

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Just from around, not from school.

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OK, well, we're progressing.
Where else is he not from?

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- Does it really matter?
- Come on. Indulge me, Rosie, please.

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I met him at the centre,

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and, Dad, he's the most amazing musician.

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So he volunteers with you at the centre?

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No, he met there with Shelly
a couple of times.

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And what was he being treated for, talent?

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OK. When he was 16
he had a fight with his stepdad.

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Ah.

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So...

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- So how old is he now?
- He's 18.

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Anyway, he threw a rock through
one window of this guy's SUV

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and the asshole had him arrested
to teach him a lesson.

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And so the court ordered him
to go to one of the counsellors and...

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Dad, honestly, Shelly really
helped him to turn it around.

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He's like the gentlest, sweetest guy,

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and he writes these
amazing, beautiful songs.

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He didn't know how to deal
with his feelings before but...

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now he turns them into lyrics.

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Hm.

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18. So is he, um...

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is he all done with school?

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He works at Kinko's, OK?

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I know, really not great,
but I'm trying to get him a new job.

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In fact, I saw this entry-level job
in the classifieds today.

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Hm.

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What?

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You've always been really good at that -

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taking people under your wing.

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- What's wrong with that?
- Nothing, it's what I love about you.

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Sometimes, though, you know,
you can help the most by...

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establishing boundaries.

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- Boundaries?
- Well, he might be in...

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more need of a good friend than say...

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a girlfriend.

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OK. I get it.
You're worried that I'm sleeping with him.

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No, I'm not worried that
you're sleeping with him.

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Should I be?

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- Worried? Should you be worried?
- Mm-hm.

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- No, you shouldn't be worried.
- OK, fine. OK.

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The car window thing,
does he have a record?

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Dad, really...

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it was years ago.

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Tell me you never made
a stupid mistake when you were a kid.

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No, I... I just wanted to be clear, that's all.

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Did he serve time for the car window thing?

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OK, you know what? I have to go
because Noah is robbing a bank

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and I promised I'd drive
the getaway car, so I'll see you.

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- Wait, Rosie.
- No, seriously, Dad, I've got to go.

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Rosie, wait...

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Please, Rosie, look.
Rosie, I'm sorry.

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I just wanted to find out
who the boy is, that's all.

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I don't think you do, Dad.

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You want the basic facts -
the who, the what and the where.

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Like that's all that matters.
You always ask all the wrong questions.

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OK. OK.

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So tell me,

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what questions should I be asking?

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"Is he nice to you?"

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You know, "Can you
talk to him about stuff?"

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"Does he make you feel better
about your life?"

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I was... hoping we'd get around to that.

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What, after the interrogation?

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I want to be able to talk
to you about stuff, Dad,

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but not like this.

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I mean, what's next?

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Oh, I know, the part where you say

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you just don't want me
doing something I'll regret later.

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I don't talk like that, do I?
You make me sound like I'm some sort of...

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Like I'm a grandmother or something.

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Well, yeah, you do.

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Do I?

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It's like if...

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If you knew I was gonna
do something really stupid

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with another guy,

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not Noah, you know,
some other guy, some jerk...

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Mm-hm?

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I mean, you would want to stop me
from doing it. Is that it?

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Yeah, I'd try to help you
look at the risks, yeah.

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Yeah.

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You know, if...

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Like, if I was gonna take off... with him...

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you know, like...

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take off to Rome.

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What do you know about Rome?

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I called her cellphone.

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She picked up,

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and I heard in the background

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some guy say something like,

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"Where do you want him
to put the tray, babe?"

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Then I heard her shushing him,
and then her voice got all echoey,

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like she went into the bathroom
to finish the conversation.

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That was that.

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He sounded really gross, like,
he called her "babe".

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So much for "I just need a little break
from car-pooling," right?

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I mean, Dad, here you are
trying to stop me from making a mistake

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and she is sleeping with someone
that isn't you.

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I don't understand why.
Why is she doing that?

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Look, Rosie, we...

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we are trying to work this out together.

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Dad, she is screwing another guy.
Did this just happen out of the blue?

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Rosie, look, it's taken a really long time
for your mother and me to get to this point.

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What your mother did or didn't do isn't...

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Wait. Are you saying that
what she's doing isn't wrong?

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No, what I'm saying is that it's...

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it's a symptom of something else
that's going on.

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OK. Well, whatever it is, can you fix it?

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Rosie, I... I am trying to work on it.

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How hard? Because this whole
weekend with lan home, it's like,

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"dum-da-dum", everything is fine,
everything is normal.

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Lan is completely oblivious.

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What do you want me to do,
break her car windows?

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Dad, it worked.
His stepdad never fucked with him after that.

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Well, it's... it's...

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It's a bit extreme, don't you think?

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Another man is taking
your wife to Rome.

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Isn't that pretty extreme?

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Why is she doing this to us?

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Rosie...

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Just please tell me
that you will fix it, OK?

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Please, tell me that you'll fix this.

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(Sighs)

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Hey.

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Hey. You know where
my good down pillow went?

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I want to take it with me
and Mom said you might know where it is.

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Yeah. I, uh, I sometimes nap down here.

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OK.

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So, are you, um...

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are you all set to go?

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Uh, yeah, pretty much.

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Would you mind hanging on
for about 15 minutes

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until your mom and Max get back?

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She just called me from
the sporting goods store.

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Yeah, definitely.

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I've never heard anyone so excited
about getting to wear a cup.

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(Paul laughs)

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He'd be really, happy if you...

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if you went to see him
in one of his games.

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It'd mean a lot to him

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to have his brother come down
and watch him play.

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Even if you had to
cut out of school one Friday.

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You know you sound
exactly like Mom, right?

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- Do I?
- How do you do that, anyway?

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You got her voice coming out of your body.

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It's like, um... what you call it? Uh...

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- Ventriloquism.
- Yeah. Yeah, that.

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So why no morning patient?

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I thought everyone's always
fighting for those early slots.

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Oh, it changes, you know.
They come, they go.

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I've had a few patients that... that have left.

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Really? Cured?

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- Well...
- Congrats.

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- Is that weird?
- What?

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You spend all this time with these people
helping them and then they're gone.

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Is it like me going off to college again?

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"Goodbye, good luck,
don't be a stranger"?

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I think you're forgetting I was the one
who encouraged you to go to college.

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Because of Chloe.

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- Not because of...
- No, it's cool.

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You were right about her, you know. Uh...

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We weren't meant for each other.

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I just... I couldn't see it.

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Well, I don't remember
it had anything to do with...

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OK, Dad! You know, I...

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(Sighs)

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I don't even know if I even loved her.

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Maybe I did. I... (Sighs)

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- What do you think?
- I don't know.

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I don't know the answer to that.
Do you ever talk to her?

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She called once and left a message.
I left her a message... blah blah blah.

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Hm.

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So, um, are you seeing anybody
at the moment?

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No.

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Lots of girls right now...
It's just not happening for me.

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If I'm having a midlife crisis at 20,

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does that mean I'm not
going to live past 40?

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It's not a midlife crisis, believe me.

250
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You would know, wouldn't you?

251
00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,358
Yeah.

252
00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,918
So, how many girls are we talking about?

253
00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,148
Come on, Dad.

254
00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,589
No, I just want a... like a...

255
00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:26,030
Approximately how many?
I'm curious.

256
00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,275
I don't know. Maybe, like, uh...

257
00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:30,474
four or five.

258
00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,308
Four or five. Wow.
You slept with five girls?

259
00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,438
Is that just counting this year?

260
00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,232
Look, five is nothing, OK?

261
00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,157
Henry, my roommate,

262
00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,270
he told me that if anyone asks

263
00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,117
- to just round up.
- (Laughs)

264
00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,516
- Apparently five is total loserville.
- Really?

265
00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:51,551
- Wow.
- The truth is I get bored.

266
00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:56,792
Three months, you know,
that's as long as they ever last.

267
00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:00,230
Chloe was nine months,

268
00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,271
but, I mean...

269
00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,598
Well, the last two didn't really count
cos she was away and I was away.

270
00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,710
And anyway, I was...

271
00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:10,876
I was cheating on her with Maggie.

272
00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,673
You remember Maggie, right,
the violin player?

273
00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,676
Yeah. You were cheating...

274
00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,951
You were cheating
on Chloe with Maggie?

275
00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,553
What can I say, man?
There was a lot of beer involved.

276
00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:32,918
Have you...

277
00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,235
Have you spoken to Rosie lately?

278
00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:37,510
- About what?
- Uh, well...

279
00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,152
Um... (Clears throat)

280
00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,311
I think that, um...

281
00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:45,238
I think you should know that...

282
00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:49,193
Well, there's...
there's been some stuff going on between...

283
00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:53,398
between your mother and me, and...

284
00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,000
I thought maybe...

285
00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,349
maybe Rosie had mentioned it?

286
00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,197
What kind of stuff?

287
00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:03,991
I don't know. We've...

288
00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,438
We've been having problems.

289
00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,789
You guys are always having problems.

290
00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:12,353
Really? You think so?

291
00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:15,437
Yeah, what else is new?

292
00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,789
Well, this stuff is new,

293
00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:19,558
and, uh...

294
00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,509
Well, it's...
it's something that

295
00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,552
we really have to... to work on.

296
00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,756
Well, it sounds big.

297
00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,990
You didn't sleep with
someone else, did you?

298
00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,519
No, no, no.

299
00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,151
Did Mom?

300
00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:40,993
Look, lan, I...

301
00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,398
Is Mom having an affair?

302
00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,559
No, she's not. It's, um...

303
00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,349
It's me, actually.

304
00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,595
I've...

305
00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,392
I... I met somebody, and...

306
00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:01,035
But we're not having an affair.

307
00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,875
Wow. Um...

308
00:17:10,360 --> 00:17:11,713
Do I know her?

309
00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,149
No, I don't think so.

310
00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,232
Is she a patient?

311
00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,794
No. No, she's not a patient.

312
00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:27,832
Well...

313
00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,236
Are you happy
or are you miserable about it?

314
00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:35,316
I can't tell.

315
00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:36,998
I'm both.

316
00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:40,271
I know it sounds crazy,
but there's a part of me that...

317
00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,197
that wishes I...

318
00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,993
I didn't feel the way I do,
and then there's...

319
00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,508
- (Sighs)
- Are you in love with her?

320
00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,230
I don't know. I'm not sure.

321
00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:58,192
So...

322
00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,674
Are you and Mom splitting up?

323
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:06,350
We're... we're trying
to work it out at the moment.

324
00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,517
Well, maybe it's for the best.

325
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:20,359
You guys have been married
longer than I've been alive.

326
00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,197
That's pretty good.

327
00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:26,239
I'd say you're entitled to have some fun.

328
00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:27,793
Didn't I say that to you?

329
00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,318
- When?
- When you first went to school.

330
00:18:32,360 --> 00:18:35,750
About Chloe, I said,
"You're 18 years of age now

331
00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:38,678
"and you're entitled to have some fun."
Remember that?

332
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,871
So what? I told you you were
probably right about it.

333
00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,672
Why don't you take your own advice?

334
00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,792
But that's a completely
different situation.

335
00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,354
You were just a kid.
I've been married over 20 years.

336
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:53,439
It's ridiculous. You don't know
what you're talking about, really.

337
00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,835
All right, I'm sorry.
What do you want me to say?

338
00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,393
"You're an asshole shithead?"

339
00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,795
Maybe you should say
I'm an asshole shithead,

340
00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,638
because I think that's
what you're thinking.

341
00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,194
Whatever, Dad. This is stupid.

342
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,471
Look, lan, you know, when...

343
00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:12,628
I know when my parents split up, I...

344
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,477
I had to struggle for a long time.

345
00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,354
- In some ways I'm not even sure I ever...
- Well, I'm not you, Dad.

346
00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,277
What do you want me to say?

347
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:21,912
"Please don't leave"?

348
00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:24,838
"What are you doing to our family?"
I mean...

349
00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,348
Or maybe you just...
you want me to stop you?

350
00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:31,313
Look, I get it, OK? I get why
you'd want to be with someone else.

351
00:19:31,360 --> 00:19:34,511
I can understand how after 23 years
you'd get tired of stuff -

352
00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,950
all the nagging
and all those long-suffering,

353
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,276
silent-but-deadly looks
she gives you when you let her down.

354
00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,550
I mean, she does it to Rosie, to me -

355
00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:47,309
everything from some tone in your voice
to leaving a wet towel on the bed...

356
00:19:47,360 --> 00:19:49,476
They're issues
that you have with her.

357
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,988
They're not necessarily mine.

358
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:53,758
You think it's so different with you?

359
00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:58,351
You don't feel like she's always
just... disappointed or something?

360
00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,356
I mean, the woman has got a martyr complex.

361
00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,392
- I don't know how you can deal with it.
- I...

362
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,839
Martyr?

363
00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:09,158
That woman put her career on hold
for 15 years for you.

364
00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,272
She took you to baseball games.
She took you to guitar lessons.

365
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,072
She was always there for you.

366
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:19,074
I think she's entitled to some
kind of gratitude, don't you think?

367
00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:22,718
I know.

368
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,352
I... (Sighs)

369
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,789
I didn't mean to...

370
00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,279
Just... whatever.

371
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,676
Don't say that word to me, "whatever".
God, I hate that word.

372
00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:34,358
"Whatever". It's such a cop-out.

373
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,836
- What do you want me to say?
- I want you to have a little respect

374
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,075
for your mother,
is that too much to ask?

375
00:20:40,120 --> 00:20:43,510
I do, but is it so impossible that
I can be genuinely on your side?

376
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,633
But you don't have to take sides, lan.
I'm not asking you to take sides.

377
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:56,832
Maybe it wasn't fair of me to...
I know this is a lot for you to deal with...

378
00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:59,599
That's a cop-out, OK?
You can't have it both ways, Dad.

379
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:02,837
I'm old enough to tell,
but I'm too young to understand it?

380
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,873
- Don't patronise me.
- I don't mean to patronise you. I don't.

381
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:12,357
You know, something like this
takes a long time to process.

382
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,551
I know you have these feelings.
I just wanted us to be able to...

383
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,477
to talk about them, you know?

384
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,232
This isn't about me.

385
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,397
It's not about what I feel or why I feel it.
It's about you.

386
00:21:25,120 --> 00:21:27,076
What are you gonna do?

387
00:21:27,120 --> 00:21:29,350
What do you want?

388
00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:39,872
(Door closes)

389
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,069
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