1 00:00:00,860 --> 00:00:02,790 Previously on In Treatment. 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,470 Thanks for seeing me. I had no one else to talk to. 3 00:00:06,520 --> 00:00:09,510 - I thought my hour would be filled already. - No. 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:12,430 - I'm really glad that you called. - Really? 5 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,190 Losing a patient is such a big deal? 6 00:00:18,390 --> 00:00:20,110 Losing you is a big deal. 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,760 I think it's time for you to know. 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:23,790 Know what? 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,220 That I have very deep feelings for you. 10 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,150 What are you talking about, you're going away for a few days? 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,990 It's for a week, actually. 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:34,710 With him? 13 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,390 Where are you going? 14 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,030 To Rome. 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:41,950 - Daddy? - (Water running) 16 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:17,830 Hey. 17 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,150 Lan's being an asshole. 18 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,030 What? 19 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,510 Your son. Asshole. 20 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:30,550 Oh, come on, Rosie. He's heading back to school in, what? Two hours. 21 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,550 Don't you at least want to know what he did? 22 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,070 Can you two not get along for just one lousy weekend? 23 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,550 - Is that not possible? - He washed my iPod. 24 00:01:42,620 --> 00:01:44,650 I had some clothes just sitting on top of the machine, 25 00:01:44,700 --> 00:01:47,610 and he just dumped them in with his disgusting sports stuff 26 00:01:47,660 --> 00:01:49,250 and my iPod was in my pocket. 27 00:01:49,300 --> 00:01:51,490 - (Sighs) Oh, Jesus. - I know. 28 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,670 - I can't believe it. - I know. 29 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,580 Your brother's actually doing laundry? 30 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,180 Synced and corrected by: GhostedNet 31 00:02:17,650 --> 00:02:21,040 You know it's not funny. He didn't even offer to pay me back. 32 00:02:21,090 --> 00:02:23,440 What am I supposed to do? I can't live without my music. 33 00:02:23,490 --> 00:02:25,160 - Mm. - (Beeping) 34 00:02:26,650 --> 00:02:29,030 - What? Who's that? - Hm. 35 00:02:37,810 --> 00:02:38,950 Um... 36 00:02:38,990 --> 00:02:42,680 - Hello? - Just... just one second. 37 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:45,190 (Sighs) 38 00:02:45,580 --> 00:02:46,660 OK. You were saying? 39 00:02:46,710 --> 00:02:49,660 You know what I love? There's nothing so important in your life 40 00:02:49,710 --> 00:02:52,740 that a text message doesn't take priority. 41 00:02:52,790 --> 00:02:57,810 Ah, i think is my generation might have a slightly different relationship with technology than yours does. 44 00:03:06,570 --> 00:03:08,200 OK. 45 00:03:11,130 --> 00:03:12,920 How can anybody type so fast? 46 00:03:12,970 --> 00:03:15,160 I... Here, let me see. 47 00:03:15,210 --> 00:03:16,560 No, Dad, no. 48 00:03:16,610 --> 00:03:19,170 - I just want to see it. - Dad, no. It's private. 49 00:03:19,210 --> 00:03:21,200 OK, OK, you're right. 50 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,520 What's "musm"? 51 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:32,500 It's m-u-s-m. 52 00:03:32,550 --> 00:03:34,780 - It means "miss you so much". - Oh. 53 00:03:34,830 --> 00:03:35,810 OK. 54 00:03:35,870 --> 00:03:37,300 So who's, uh... 55 00:03:37,350 --> 00:03:39,260 Who's missing you so much? 56 00:03:41,390 --> 00:03:44,380 I... I thought we were having a conversation. 57 00:03:44,430 --> 00:03:46,220 We really weren't. 58 00:03:47,850 --> 00:03:49,940 So who's missing you so much? 59 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:52,020 Relax, Dad. 60 00:03:52,230 --> 00:03:54,220 - Just a friend. - Boyfriend? 61 00:03:54,470 --> 00:03:55,820 Uh, a friend that's a boy. 62 00:03:55,870 --> 00:03:58,100 Oh, OK. So, uh... 63 00:03:58,150 --> 00:03:59,940 So, what's his name? 64 00:03:59,990 --> 00:04:02,100 He doesn't have a name. 65 00:04:02,150 --> 00:04:03,620 He doesn't have a name? 66 00:04:03,870 --> 00:04:07,180 Nope, no actually he believes that names are anchors 67 00:04:07,230 --> 00:04:11,300 - that weigh down the soul. - Please tell me you're kidding. 68 00:04:12,050 --> 00:04:13,920 I'm kidding. 69 00:04:14,610 --> 00:04:16,600 His name is Noah. 70 00:04:16,650 --> 00:04:18,200 - Noah? - Noah. 71 00:04:18,250 --> 00:04:21,560 - Oh. From school? - No. 72 00:04:21,810 --> 00:04:23,720 Where fro ... From where? 73 00:04:23,870 --> 00:04:25,900 Just from around, not from school. 74 00:04:25,950 --> 00:04:29,460 OK, well, we're progressing. Where else is he not from? 75 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,820 - Does it really matter? - Come on. Indulge me, Rosie, please. 76 00:04:34,380 --> 00:04:36,060 I met him at the centre, 77 00:04:36,630 --> 00:04:39,500 and, Dad, he's the most amazing musician. 78 00:04:41,870 --> 00:04:44,660 So he volunteers with you at the centre? 79 00:04:45,170 --> 00:04:47,760 No, he met there with Shelly a couple of times. 80 00:04:47,810 --> 00:04:50,600 And what was he being treated for, talent? 81 00:04:52,010 --> 00:04:56,690 OK. When he was 16 he had a fight with his stepdad. 82 00:04:57,210 --> 00:04:58,030 Ah. 83 00:04:58,280 --> 00:04:59,960 So... 84 00:05:00,260 --> 00:05:03,710 - So how old is he now? 18. 85 00:05:04,050 --> 00:05:08,800 Anyway, he threw a rock through one window of this guy's SUV 86 00:05:08,810 --> 00:05:11,340 and the asshole had him arrested to teach him a lesson. 87 00:05:12,110 --> 00:05:15,550 And so the court ordered him to go to one of the counsellors and... 88 00:05:15,550 --> 00:05:18,180 Dad, honestly, Shelly really helped him to turn it around. 89 00:05:18,230 --> 00:05:20,380 He's like the gentlest, sweetest guy, 90 00:05:20,430 --> 00:05:23,740 and he writes these amazing, beautiful songs. 91 00:05:23,790 --> 00:05:26,420 He just didn't know how to deal with his feelings before but... 92 00:05:26,870 --> 00:05:28,880 now he turns them into lyrics. 93 00:05:30,010 --> 00:05:31,040 Hm. 94 00:05:31,330 --> 00:05:33,650 18. So is he, um... 95 00:05:34,090 --> 00:05:36,560 is he all done with school? 96 00:05:37,150 --> 00:05:39,160 He works at Kinko's, OK? 97 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,200 I know, really not great, but I'm trying to get him a new job. 98 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,700 Ah ... in fact, I saw this entry-level job in the classifieds today. 99 00:05:46,420 --> 00:05:47,190 Hm. 100 00:05:48,370 --> 00:05:49,760 What? 101 00:05:50,270 --> 00:05:52,180 You've always been really good at that - 102 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,460 taking people under your wing. 103 00:05:55,950 --> 00:05:59,920 - What's wrong with that? - Nothing, it's what I love about you. 104 00:06:02,500 --> 00:06:07,020 Sometimes, though, you know, you can help the most by... 105 00:06:07,370 --> 00:06:09,670 establishing boundaries. 106 00:06:09,840 --> 00:06:13,120 - Boundaries? - Well, he might be in... 107 00:06:13,390 --> 00:06:16,320 more need of a good friend than say... 108 00:06:17,940 --> 00:06:19,160 a girlfriend. 109 00:06:21,130 --> 00:06:24,520 OK. I get it. You're worried that I'm sleeping with him. 110 00:06:24,630 --> 00:06:27,640 No, I'm not worried that you're sleeping with him. 111 00:06:30,390 --> 00:06:31,900 Should I be? 112 00:06:33,470 --> 00:06:35,460 - Worried? Should you be worried? - Mm-hm. 113 00:06:35,510 --> 00:06:39,290 - No, you shouldn't be worried. - OK, ok i'm fine. OK. 114 00:06:41,450 --> 00:06:45,080 The ... the car window thing, Does he ... does he have a record? 115 00:06:46,350 --> 00:06:48,140 Dad, really? 116 00:06:48,390 --> 00:06:49,940 it was years ago. 117 00:06:50,270 --> 00:06:52,980 Tell me you never made a stupid mistake when you were a kid. 118 00:06:53,330 --> 00:06:56,200 No, I... I just wanted to be clear, that's all. 119 00:06:56,460 --> 00:07:00,220 Did he serve time for the car window thing? 120 00:07:01,110 --> 00:07:04,260 OK, you know what? I have to go because Noah is robbing a bank 121 00:07:04,310 --> 00:07:07,220 and I promised him I would drive the getaway car, so I'll see you. 122 00:07:07,620 --> 00:07:10,420 - Wait, Rosie. - No, seriously, Dad, I've got to go. 123 00:07:10,450 --> 00:07:12,260 Rosie, wait... 124 00:07:12,660 --> 00:07:15,150 Please, Rosie, look. Rosie, I'm sorry. 125 00:07:15,150 --> 00:07:17,860 I just wanted to find out who the boy is, that's all. 126 00:07:18,260 --> 00:07:19,560 I don't think you do, Dad. 127 00:07:19,950 --> 00:07:22,660 You want the basic facts - the who, the what and the where. 128 00:07:22,710 --> 00:07:26,250 Like that's all that matters. You always do this, you always ask all the wrong questions. 129 00:07:26,420 --> 00:07:28,260 OK. OK. 130 00:07:28,510 --> 00:07:30,420 So tell me, 131 00:07:30,570 --> 00:07:32,930 what questions should I be asking? 132 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,820 "Is he nice to you?" 133 00:07:39,350 --> 00:07:41,650 You know, "Can you talk to him about stuff?" 134 00:07:42,270 --> 00:07:45,450 "Does he make you feel better about your life?" 135 00:07:45,590 --> 00:07:48,860 I was... i was hoping we'd get around to that. 136 00:07:49,110 --> 00:07:51,490 What, after the interrogation? 137 00:07:54,180 --> 00:07:56,740 I want to be able to talk to you about stuff, Dad, 138 00:07:56,910 --> 00:07:58,460 but not like this. 139 00:07:59,310 --> 00:08:00,640 I mean, what's next? 140 00:08:00,690 --> 00:08:02,360 Oh, I know, the part where you say 141 00:08:02,410 --> 00:08:05,110 you just don't want me doing something I'll regret later. 142 00:08:05,110 --> 00:08:08,500 But i ... I don't talk like that, do I? You make me sound like I'm some sort of... 143 00:08:09,150 --> 00:08:11,100 Like I'm a grandmother or something. 144 00:08:11,150 --> 00:08:12,460 Well, yeah, you do. 145 00:08:14,940 --> 00:08:16,020 Do I? 146 00:08:23,230 --> 00:08:25,780 It's ... it's like if i have ... 147 00:08:27,550 --> 00:08:30,260 If you knew I was gonna do something really stupid 148 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,100 with another guy, 149 00:08:32,350 --> 00:08:35,340 not Noah, you know, some other guy, some jerk... 150 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:36,450 Mm-hm? 151 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,380 I mean, you would want to stop me from doing it. Is that it? 152 00:08:41,830 --> 00:08:45,020 Yeah, I'd try to help you look at the risks, yeah. 153 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,220 Yeah. 154 00:08:48,940 --> 00:08:50,460 You know, if... 155 00:08:51,870 --> 00:08:56,180 Like, if I was gonna take off... with him... 156 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,140 you know, like... 157 00:09:01,610 --> 00:09:03,660 take off to Rome. 158 00:09:19,190 --> 00:09:21,310 What do you know about Rome? 159 00:09:23,350 --> 00:09:25,540 I called her cellphone. 160 00:09:26,430 --> 00:09:27,730 She picked up, 161 00:09:27,810 --> 00:09:29,940 and I heard in the background 162 00:09:30,190 --> 00:09:32,570 some guy say something like, 163 00:09:33,150 --> 00:09:35,520 "Where do you want him to put the tray, babe?" 164 00:09:35,780 --> 00:09:40,080 Then I heard her shushing him, and then her voice got all echoey, 165 00:09:40,130 --> 00:09:43,320 like she went into the bathroom to finish the conversation. 166 00:09:44,730 --> 00:09:46,440 That was that. 167 00:09:50,950 --> 00:09:54,730 He sounded really gross, like, he called her "babe". 168 00:09:57,200 --> 00:10:01,660 So much for "I just need a little break from car-pooling," right? 169 00:10:02,850 --> 00:10:06,740 I mean, Dad, here you are trying to stop me from making a mistake 170 00:10:07,110 --> 00:10:09,980 and she is sleeping with someone that isn't you. 171 00:10:11,290 --> 00:10:13,500 I don't understand why. Why is she doing that? 172 00:10:13,550 --> 00:10:15,850 Look, Rosie, we... 173 00:10:15,910 --> 00:10:18,710 we are trying to work this out together. 174 00:10:18,710 --> 00:10:19,060 Dad, she is screwing another guy. Did this just happen out of the blue? we are trying to work this out together. 175 00:10:19,060 --> 00:10:23,150 Dad, she is screwing another guy. Did this just happen out of the blue? 176 00:10:23,150 --> 00:10:27,990 Rosie, look, it's taken a really long time for your mother and me to get to this point. 177 00:10:27,990 --> 00:10:31,020 What - what your mother did or didn't do isn't... 178 00:10:31,180 --> 00:10:34,220 Wait, wait: are you saying that what she's doing isn't wrong? 179 00:10:34,700 --> 00:10:37,820 No, what I'm saying is that it's... 180 00:10:38,050 --> 00:10:40,630 it's a symptom of something else that's going on. 181 00:10:40,630 --> 00:10:40,980 OK, ok. Well, whatever it is, can you fix it? it's a symptom of something else that's going on. 182 00:10:40,980 --> 00:10:43,030 OK, ok. Well, whatever it is, can you fix it? 183 00:10:43,030 --> 00:10:46,180 Rosie, I - i - i'm ... I am trying to work on it. 184 00:10:46,530 --> 00:10:49,820 How hard? Because this whole weekend with lan home, it's like, 185 00:10:50,110 --> 00:10:52,500 "dum-da-dum", everything is fine, everything is normal. 186 00:10:52,550 --> 00:10:54,380 Lan is completely oblivious. 187 00:10:54,430 --> 00:10:57,100 What do you want me to do, break your mother's car windows? 188 00:10:57,130 --> 00:11:00,380 Dad, it worked. His stepdad never fucked with him after that again. 189 00:11:00,490 --> 00:11:02,380 Well, it's... it's... it's... 190 00:11:05,430 --> 00:11:07,100 It's a bit extreme, don't you think? 191 00:11:07,350 --> 00:11:10,060 Another man is taking your wife to Rome. 192 00:11:10,110 --> 00:11:12,020 Isn't that pretty extreme? 193 00:11:18,790 --> 00:11:21,300 Why is she doing this to us? 194 00:11:22,190 --> 00:11:23,980 Rosie... 195 00:11:26,820 --> 00:11:31,300 Just please tell me that you will fix it, OK? 196 00:11:31,550 --> 00:11:34,140 Please, tell me that you'll fix this. 197 00:11:52,590 --> 00:11:53,700 (Sighs) 198 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:01,650 Hey. 199 00:12:01,820 --> 00:12:05,200 Hey. You know where the good down pillow on my bed went? I want ... 200 00:12:05,250 --> 00:12:08,240 take it with me and Mom said you might know where it is. 201 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,780 Yeah. I, uh, I sometimes nap down here. 202 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:17,760 OK. 203 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,620 So, are you, um... 204 00:12:23,020 --> 00:12:25,060 are you all set to go? 205 00:12:25,350 --> 00:12:27,500 Uh, yeah, pretty much. 206 00:12:30,150 --> 00:12:32,570 Would you mind ... (Paul) hanging on for about 15 minutes 207 00:12:32,630 --> 00:12:35,740 until ... until your mom and Max get back? 208 00:12:35,790 --> 00:12:38,620 She just called me from the sporting goods store. 209 00:12:38,940 --> 00:12:40,060 Yeah, definitely. 210 00:12:40,510 --> 00:12:43,580 I've never heard anyone so excited about getting to wear a cup. 211 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:44,640 (Paul laughs) 212 00:12:45,370 --> 00:12:49,060 He'd be really, happy if you... 213 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,700 if you went to see him in one of his games. 214 00:12:51,990 --> 00:12:53,820 It'd mean a lot to him 215 00:12:54,030 --> 00:12:56,380 to have his brother come down and watch him play. 216 00:12:56,630 --> 00:12:59,090 Even if you had to cut out of school one Friday. 217 00:12:59,620 --> 00:13:02,520 You know you sound exactly like Mom, right? 218 00:13:02,570 --> 00:13:03,690 - Do I? - How do you do that, anyway? 219 00:13:03,690 --> 00:13:04,040 You got her voice coming out of your body. - Do I? - How do you do that, anyway? 220 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,800 You got her voice coming out of your body. 221 00:13:05,810 --> 00:13:09,100 It's like um ..., it's like what you call it? Uh... 222 00:13:09,170 --> 00:13:12,480 - Ventriloquism. - Yeah. Yeah, that. 223 00:13:13,460 --> 00:13:15,330 So why no morning patient? 224 00:13:15,330 --> 00:13:15,990 I thought everyone's always fighting for those early slots. So why no morning patient? 225 00:13:15,990 --> 00:13:18,600 I thought everyone's always fighting for those early slots. 226 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,580 Oh, it changes, you know. They come, they go. 227 00:13:21,890 --> 00:13:25,280 I've had a few patients that... that have left. 228 00:13:26,610 --> 00:13:28,200 Really? Cured? 229 00:13:28,350 --> 00:13:30,280 - Well... - Congrats. 230 00:13:30,410 --> 00:13:33,120 - Is that weird? - What? 231 00:13:33,370 --> 00:13:37,070 You spend all this time with these people helping them with their shit and then they're gone. 232 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:39,800 I mean, Is it like me going off to college again? 233 00:13:39,850 --> 00:13:42,010 "Goodbye, good luck, don't be a stranger"? 234 00:13:42,010 --> 00:13:45,600 Ok, I think you're forgetting I was the one who encouraged you to go to college. 235 00:13:45,770 --> 00:13:47,060 Because of Chloe. 236 00:13:47,410 --> 00:13:49,480 - Not because of... - No, it's it's cool. 237 00:13:49,530 --> 00:13:52,500 Hey, You were right about her, you know. Uh... 238 00:13:52,680 --> 00:13:54,690 We weren't meant for each other. 239 00:13:55,390 --> 00:13:56,620 I just... I couldn't see it. 240 00:13:56,700 --> 00:13:58,820 Well, I don't remember it had anything to do with... 241 00:13:58,870 --> 00:14:00,860 OK, Dad! You know, I... 242 00:14:00,910 --> 00:14:02,340 (Sighs) 243 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,220 I don't even know if I even loved her. 244 00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:07,700 Maybe I did. I... (Sighs) 245 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,660 - What do you think? - I don't know. 246 00:14:10,750 --> 00:14:13,900 I don't know the answer to that. Do you ever talk to her? 247 00:14:14,190 --> 00:14:18,020 She called once and left a message. I left her a message... blah blah blah. 248 00:14:18,210 --> 00:14:19,290 Hm. 249 00:14:19,510 --> 00:14:22,940 So, um, are you seeing anybody at the moment? 250 00:14:24,740 --> 00:14:25,700 Nah. 251 00:14:26,910 --> 00:14:30,900 Lots of girls right now... It's just not happening for me. 252 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,220 If I'm having a midlife crisis at 20, 253 00:14:34,270 --> 00:14:36,540 does that mean I'm not going to live past 40? 254 00:14:36,830 --> 00:14:39,060 It's not a midlife crisis, believe me. 255 00:14:39,110 --> 00:14:41,140 You would know, wouldn't you? 256 00:14:41,460 --> 00:14:43,100 Yeah. 257 00:14:45,150 --> 00:14:47,860 So, how many girls are we talking about? 258 00:14:49,070 --> 00:14:50,290 Come on, Dad. 259 00:14:50,350 --> 00:14:52,730 No, I just want a... like a... 260 00:14:52,790 --> 00:14:56,180 Approximately how many? I'm curious. 261 00:14:56,630 --> 00:14:58,820 I don't know. Maybe, like, uh... 262 00:14:59,870 --> 00:15:01,020 four or five. 263 00:15:01,130 --> 00:15:04,850 Four or five. Wow. You slept with five girls? 264 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,980 Is that - is that just counting this year? 265 00:15:09,470 --> 00:15:11,180 Look, five is nothing, OK? 266 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:13,100 Henry, my roommate, 267 00:15:13,380 --> 00:15:15,420 he told me that if anyone asks 268 00:15:15,540 --> 00:15:17,260 - to just round up. - (Laughs) 269 00:15:17,310 --> 00:15:20,660 - Apparently five is total loserville. - Really? 270 00:15:21,090 --> 00:15:23,100 - Wow. - The truth is I get bored. 271 00:15:24,110 --> 00:15:28,340 Three months, you know, that's as long as they ever last. 272 00:15:28,670 --> 00:15:31,980 Chloe was nine months, 273 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,020 but, I mean... 274 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:38,340 Well, the last two didn't really count cos she was away and I was away. 275 00:15:38,870 --> 00:15:40,460 And anyway, I was... 276 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,020 I was cheating on her with Maggie. 277 00:15:43,270 --> 00:15:46,020 You remember Maggie, right, the violin player? 278 00:15:46,270 --> 00:15:48,220 Yeah. You were cheating... 279 00:15:48,270 --> 00:15:51,500 You were cheating on Chloe with Maggie? 280 00:15:53,550 --> 00:15:56,300 What can I say, man? There was a lot of beer involved. 281 00:16:04,450 --> 00:16:05,660 Have you... 282 00:16:06,300 --> 00:16:08,380 Have you spoken to Rosie lately? 283 00:16:08,660 --> 00:16:10,860 - About what? - Uh, well... 284 00:16:10,910 --> 00:16:12,500 Um... (Clears throat) 285 00:16:14,070 --> 00:16:15,860 I think that, um... 286 00:16:16,030 --> 00:16:18,780 I think you should know that... 287 00:16:19,210 --> 00:16:23,140 Well, there's... there's been some stuff going on between... 288 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,340 between your mother and me, and... 289 00:16:27,660 --> 00:16:30,150 I thought maybe... 290 00:16:30,390 --> 00:16:32,690 maybe Rosie had mentioned it? 291 00:16:32,810 --> 00:16:34,540 What kind of stuff? 292 00:16:36,550 --> 00:16:38,540 I don't know. We've... 293 00:16:40,310 --> 00:16:42,980 We've been having problems. 294 00:16:43,230 --> 00:16:45,330 You guys are always having problems. 295 00:16:45,790 --> 00:16:47,300 Really? You think so? 296 00:16:47,590 --> 00:16:50,380 Yeah, what else is new? 297 00:16:50,630 --> 00:16:52,930 Well, this stuff is new, 298 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:54,700 and, uh... 299 00:16:55,550 --> 00:16:57,850 Well, it's... it's - it's - it's something that 300 00:16:57,990 --> 00:17:00,900 we really have to... to work on. 301 00:17:03,340 --> 00:17:05,700 Um ... it sounds big. 302 00:17:06,770 --> 00:17:08,940 Like sleep with someone else, did you? 303 00:17:08,990 --> 00:17:10,460 No, no, no ... no. 304 00:17:12,150 --> 00:17:14,100 Did Mom? 305 00:17:15,630 --> 00:17:17,140 Look, lan, I... 306 00:17:19,120 --> 00:17:21,540 Is Mom having an affair? 307 00:17:23,310 --> 00:17:25,700 No, she's not. It's, um... 308 00:17:27,610 --> 00:17:29,490 It's me, actually. 309 00:17:30,150 --> 00:17:31,740 I've... 310 00:17:32,570 --> 00:17:34,340 I... I met somebody, and... 311 00:17:34,570 --> 00:17:37,980 But we're not having an affair. 312 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:45,220 Wow. Um... 313 00:17:47,780 --> 00:17:49,060 Do I know her? 314 00:17:49,310 --> 00:17:51,690 No, I don't think so. 315 00:17:55,390 --> 00:17:57,040 Is she a patient? 316 00:17:58,090 --> 00:18:00,540 No. No, she's not a patient. 317 00:18:04,380 --> 00:18:05,780 Well... 318 00:18:08,230 --> 00:18:11,580 Are you happy or are you miserable about it? 319 00:18:11,630 --> 00:18:13,660 I can't tell. 320 00:18:14,120 --> 00:18:15,340 I'm both. 321 00:18:15,650 --> 00:18:18,820 I know it sounds crazy, but there's a part of me that... 322 00:18:19,110 --> 00:18:20,740 that wishes I... 323 00:18:21,030 --> 00:18:23,740 I didn't feel the way I do, and then there's... 324 00:18:24,030 --> 00:18:26,450 - (Sighs) - Are you in love with her? 325 00:18:29,340 --> 00:18:31,380 I don't know. I'm not sure. 326 00:18:36,010 --> 00:18:37,340 So... 327 00:18:38,790 --> 00:18:41,020 Are you and Mom splitting up? 328 00:18:41,370 --> 00:18:45,900 We're... we're trying to work it out at the moment. 329 00:18:53,630 --> 00:18:56,660 Well, maybe it's for the best. 330 00:18:58,170 --> 00:19:00,900 You guys have been married a long time Yoy have been married longer than I've been alive. 331 00:19:01,010 --> 00:19:02,740 That's pretty good. 332 00:19:04,220 --> 00:19:06,780 I'd say you're entitled to have some fun. 333 00:19:07,030 --> 00:19:08,540 Didn't I say that to you? 334 00:19:10,330 --> 00:19:13,060 - When? - When you first went to school. 335 00:19:13,310 --> 00:19:16,700 About Chloe, I said, "You're 18 years of age now 336 00:19:16,750 --> 00:19:19,620 "and you're entitled to have some fun." Remember that? 337 00:19:19,670 --> 00:19:22,820 And so what? You know, I told you you were probably right about it. 338 00:19:23,300 --> 00:19:25,020 Why don't you take your own advice? 339 00:19:25,190 --> 00:19:28,140 But that's a completely different situation. 340 00:19:28,390 --> 00:19:30,900 You were just a kid. I've been married over 20 years. 341 00:19:31,420 --> 00:19:35,380 It's ridiculous. You don't know what you're talking about, really. 342 00:19:35,430 --> 00:19:37,630 I'm sorry. What do you want me to say dad? 343 00:19:37,630 --> 00:19:39,140 I thing "You're a total asshole shithead?" 344 00:19:39,290 --> 00:19:41,640 Well maybe you should say I'm a total asshole and shithead, 345 00:19:41,790 --> 00:19:44,580 because I think that's what you're thinking. 346 00:19:46,310 --> 00:19:48,690 Whatever, Dad. This is stupid. 347 00:19:48,690 --> 00:19:51,920 Look, lan, you know, when... 348 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,170 I know when my parents split up, I... 349 00:19:55,410 --> 00:19:57,220 I had to struggle for a long time. 350 00:19:57,270 --> 00:20:01,100 - In some ways I'm not even sure I ever... - Well, I'm not you, Dad. 351 00:20:01,250 --> 00:20:03,020 What do you want me to say? 352 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,860 "Please don't leave"? 353 00:20:05,030 --> 00:20:07,780 "What are you doing to our family?" I mean... 354 00:20:08,120 --> 00:20:10,490 Or maybe you just... you want me to stop you? 355 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,550 Look, I get it, OK? I get why you'd want to be with someone else. 356 00:20:14,550 --> 00:20:18,200 I can understand how after 23 years of marriage you'd get tired of stuff - 357 00:20:18,210 --> 00:20:21,500 all the nagging and all those long-suffering, 358 00:20:21,550 --> 00:20:24,820 silent-but-deadly looks she gives you when you let her down. 359 00:20:25,290 --> 00:20:27,300 I mean, she does it to Rosie, to me - 360 00:20:27,650 --> 00:20:31,510 everything from some tone in your're using in your voice to leaving a wet towel on the bed... 361 00:20:31,510 --> 00:20:33,620 They're issues that you have with her. 362 00:20:33,790 --> 00:20:36,130 They're not necessarily mine. 363 00:20:36,460 --> 00:20:38,300 You think it's so different with you? 364 00:20:38,690 --> 00:20:43,100 You don't feel like she's always just... disappointed or something? 365 00:20:43,210 --> 00:20:45,100 I mean, the woman has got a martyr complex. 366 00:20:45,150 --> 00:20:48,140 - I don't know how you can deal with it. - I... 367 00:20:48,310 --> 00:20:49,580 Martyr? 368 00:20:50,030 --> 00:20:54,300 That woman put her career on hold for 15 years for you. 369 00:20:54,350 --> 00:20:57,420 She took you to baseball games. She took you to guitar lessons. 370 00:20:57,470 --> 00:20:59,220 She was always there for you. 371 00:21:00,590 --> 00:21:04,420 I think she's entitled to some kind of gratitude along the line, don't you think? 372 00:21:06,690 --> 00:21:08,060 I know. 373 00:21:08,510 --> 00:21:09,700 I... (Sighs) 374 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,130 I didn't mean to... 375 00:21:13,910 --> 00:21:15,220 Just... whatever. 376 00:21:15,270 --> 00:21:18,620 Don't say that word to me, "whatever". God, I hate that word. 377 00:21:18,770 --> 00:21:20,400 "Whatever". It's such a cop-out. 378 00:21:20,470 --> 00:21:23,880 - What do you want me to say? - I want you to have a little respect 379 00:21:24,130 --> 00:21:26,320 for your mother, that's all is that too much to ask? 380 00:21:26,570 --> 00:21:29,960 I do, but is it so impossible that I can be genuinely on your side? 381 00:21:30,210 --> 00:21:34,280 But you don't have to take sides, lan. I'm not asking you to take sides. 382 00:21:39,650 --> 00:21:43,680 Maybe it wasn't fair of me to... I know this is a lot for you to deal with... 383 00:21:43,930 --> 00:21:46,640 That's a cop-out, OK? You can't have it both ways, Dad. 384 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,080 I'm old enough to tell, but I'm too young to understand it? 385 00:21:50,130 --> 00:21:54,120 - Don't patronise me. - I don't mean to patronise you. I don't. 386 00:21:55,600 --> 00:22:00,000 You know, something like this takes a long time to process. 387 00:22:00,250 --> 00:22:03,400 I know you have these feelings. I just wanted us to be able to... 388 00:22:03,450 --> 00:22:05,320 to talk about them, you know? 389 00:22:07,610 --> 00:22:09,280 This isn't about me. 390 00:22:09,530 --> 00:22:12,640 It's not about what I feel or why I feel it. It's about you. 391 00:22:13,450 --> 00:22:15,320 What are you gonna do? 392 00:22:15,580 --> 00:22:17,600 What do you want? 393 00:22:26,930 --> 00:22:28,520 (Door closes) 394 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,220 Synced and corrected by: GhostedNet